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writes: I recently got back with my ex after a couple of years. I have only stayed at his house twice, but both times when I woke up in the morning (and he was in the shower) there was a g-string in his bed where he had been sleeping!! Now I do know that in a couple of months he is going to go travelling with a chick overseas, and I'm guessing it's hers (she lives in another country) but come on guys and girls!! a) Is it normal for a guy to sleep with a chick's g-string and/ or b) Do you think he's putting it there for me to see? Because even if he did/does sleep with it, surely he would hide it, unless he wanted me to see it?
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reader, Stop n Think +, writes (9 September 2005):
Scenario: Last night I found a dildo strap on in my bed. I didn't say anything because I didn't want to cause an argument.
Listen lil lady: he sleeps with the g string because he is mentally with with another person.
Get real and face the issue or drop the problem and regret it later!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (8 September 2005):
 It is a bit odd that there was a g-string in his bed on two occasions! Was it the same one?! Okay, yes it does seem like he could have put it there for a reason (normally it would be hidden and not on display unless he is really stupid!) but what is that reason? Hey, if it was to attract your attention, it's kind of backfired on him if you haven't said anything! How have you managed to keep quiet?
You have a couple of choices available to you.
A) You could ask him where it came from and why it is in the bed and will it be there next week?
B) You could ask him if he has been wearing it and doesn't he find it uncomfortable?
C) Providing it is clean, you could wear it yourself, saunter into the shower and ask him if he likes your new underwear.
Seriously, (well, you could do one of the above...) ask him about it and find out if he plans to be honest and trustworthy in your relationship. Ask about the woman from overseas and consider from his responses whether you want to be with him.
If he ever stays at your place, do think about leaving a pair of boxing shorts under his pillow...
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reader, Delila +, writes (8 September 2005):
How well do you know this guy? Well enough to ask "hey is this your g-string? If you are having sex with him its cool to ask a question like that! The other possibility is that maybe she left it behind after she stayed the night! He is the only person who can answer these questions, you could go on speculating for ever.
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