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writes: I'm a 15 year old girl and I was best friends with a boy for about a year. We were really close. He helped me with my relationship worries and I helped him with his. I began to get feelings for him around Christmas but he had a girlfriend. I then was told by a good friend of mine and his that this boy had feelings for me too but loved his girlfriend. She began to become suspiscious about me and him and she ended up dumping for another guy.A few weeks later he asked me about during the school holidays. It was great untill we went back to school and he then told me he wanted a break becasue he wasn't over this girl. but he wanted to get back when he was. We never went out again and never really good friends again. We began arguing and he hasn't spoken to me since I made friends with an older guy who was really cool. He began being very nasty about my new friend who he didn't even know and we ended up falling out. I have since told him I care about him (friend) but he tells me he hates me yet he still talks to me over the internet. He has now become close to a girl in the year below who has a boyfriend but fancies him. I hate seeing them together. Have I lost my chances altogther because I love him to bits.
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reader, pops +, writes (9 September 2005):
Yes, you probably have lost your chances. But the world will not end, and you will survive this. You are only 15, and he is younger than you. Both of you will spend much time falling in and out of love over the next few years before you learn what love really is. Relax. Be nice to him, and apologize to him for the mean things you said and did to him. You have the right to ask him for an apology for the nasty things he said about your bf that hurt your feelings, too. That's part of growing up and part of the deal, too. Once you both learn how to apologize and make up, you will have a better chance of having a better relationship. There are no guarantees, but by being nice, other people around you will admire you, and assure him that you are worth a second look.
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