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writes: I am in a very happy relationship of 2 years and have just given birth to our 1st child. My partner and I are best friends and couldn't be happier. The thing is I've never had an orgasm. He's the only person I have ever slept with. He has had other sexual partners and said that he's never had an orgasm before and his first was with me. II am extremely comfortable in the bedroom and I always ask him what he likes and doesn't like. We are very honest with each other. I do enjoy sex but it always feels like it's just over and that's it! He tried oral sex before he got with me and didn't like it so refuses to try it again. but it could be different. I am his first love, as he is mine. I know he really enjoys sex but I can't help feeling I'm missing out. I've tried nights in alone (if you get what I mean) and they were really fun but that's it! please help
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reader, Delila +, writes (9 September 2005):
An orgasm happens on an emotional and mental level before it can be experienced on a physical level. First you have to love yourself, feel all good and comfortable in your skin. Then you have tune in your thoughts, think sexy, as dirty or clean as you want. Then you start touching. Put all three together and wham! Works on your own or with someone. Don't forget the vocals.
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