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I live in Enfield, In North London
I love helping people, and reading about peoples situation
It's really nice when you know that you've helped someone by giving them good advice, which is why i help people on this site.
I know people will think im too young to help people with problems but i have my own theory's too and if you give me a chance i will get to test it out.
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I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex. I really need help
Q. hi... im 16 years old and im having a realy hard time guetting over my ex... we went out for 3 years and i honestly loved him but he left me because i wouldint have sex with him...he said'' its been three years and you wont do anything with me i ...
A. 29 August 2010: You might not want to hear this but he definitely wasn't worth your time. Take a good look, if this boy REALLY loved you, would he have left you because of you not wanting to have sex with him? Just because you don't have sex with someone, does not ... (read in full...)
Don't have many friends and feeling lonely, need advice on how to approach more people!
Q. recently i've been feeling very lonely. i feel like the only person i can hang around with is my boyfriend, not because he's too protective but because i don't have many friends. the popular girls in my school get on with me, but just as friends,...
A. 25 June 2009: Well college is a good place to make friends and since your already going there then why not make new mates.
If your too shy then you can probably find some of them on facebook/myspace/bebo. It really isn't that hard
Maybe you should approach ... (read in full...)
What are your views on premarital sex?
Q. hi there, what do you think with that I think girls and boys should have sex after getting married(for the first time)no sex before marriage what is your opinion?...
A. 24 June 2009: I think that you should have sex after marriage for a lot of different reasons.
-I'm a christian and christians are supposed to have sex after marriage
-If that person really loved you they would wait til you got married and then have sex wit... (read in full...)
How do I get over her and what do I do with my future?
Q. i have problems everywhere. first i needed to hand a slip in at school to get an interview for the sixth form but i didn't because the courses are just rubbish and the only thing i want to do is become a footballer or a racing driver. but if i want ...
A. 24 June 2009: Go for the racing dream. If you really really love if your parents will just have to understand that it's your personal goal and what you want to do when your older. Your future isn't in their hands and they can't decide everything for you.
And a... (read in full...)
What should I get them as a present? Their mom died.
Q. my friends mom died two years ago today and I feel like I should get them something. they are two brothers, 15 and 17, and I want to let them know I'm thinking of them. I was gonna get a card and a cookie cake and a gift card for them to go out ...
A. 24 June 2009: To be honest you don't need to buy them a gift, because their mom died not celebrated her birthday. Maybe a sympathy card and maybe some money slipped inside it would be good.
Good Luck.... (read in full...)
My grandpa molested me when I was 13!
Q. My grandpa molested me when I was 13. I stayed over at his house all summer because my parents were finishing building a house and moving into it. The abuse started by him tickling me one time after I was tickling my cousins. A minute or so later ...
A. 24 June 2009: What a sad story. I'm sorry you had to go through those shocking experiences.
No one in this world deserves to be molested and it's just sad that your grandpa would do something like that.
You should tell your family because it's something t... (read in full...)
I'm too you for sex but he says no-one will know. What to do?
Q. hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he ...
A. 24 June 2009: Don't be pressured into having sex with him. He only says all of that because he feels that it will make you want to have sex with him.
Just take a look at the age, your 14 he's 19. He's probably thinking about what career he wants to persue i... (read in full...)
Do long distance relationships survive?
Q. Do you think long distance relationships will survive? I have a boyfriend and our love is strong and all but we live acrosss the country from each other. Do you think our relationship will survive? All answers will be helpful...
A. 23 June 2009: Well to be honest long distance relationships have to be one of the hardest relationships ever. You don't always see them in person and you can get bored of them pretty quickly. It's not a matter of people on here telling you whether you can survive ... (read in full...)
Emotion of a teenager
Q. Am 20 and am being shown some concern by a girl of 17 since i started visiting their home. My friend who is their neighbour usually passes by to say hi because i know this girl's elder sister, so any time i don't see my friend he used to be there at...
A. 23 June 2009: She is obviously into you, if she wasn't she wouldn't be doing all of these things. See how things go along and if she's doing all of these things then she is definately onto you and then you'll have to decide whether you like her or not.... (read in full...)
I need to know what's going on rather than wait in limbo.
Q. Hi There, I guess what I am about to ask you for advice on - most people already have.... BUT I seriously dont know what to do.... I met this guy 2 years ago...we get a long and when we first met each other we said would see 'how things go'.... t...
A. 23 June 2009: Well even though im quite young to answer this, i think you should have that 'chat' because it's already been 2 years and you haven't even reached girlfriend status. You can't be kept waiting for too long, because you don't know what this situation ... (read in full...)
Help! What can I do to make my boyfriend feel really special?
Q. Hiya everyone! I'm still stuck on how to make my boyfriend feel special, we both live with our parents thus limiting some of the things we can do, we're also both students (im in college, hes about to start uni) so i dont have much money... Does...
A. 23 June 2009: Well you don't need a lot of money to make your boyfriend feel special, after all what is money? That hardly shows anything. I'm sure your boyfriend feels special being with you but if you want to go the extra mile why don't you treat him and go to ... (read in full...)
Stuck in the middle of you!! Please help!
Q. I have two best friends. My bestest friend Noureen* really likes this guy and has done for over a year, and he's just told her after them doing sexual stuff that he never wants to see her or touch her again (hes a horrible person). She has also, may ...
A. 23 June 2009: First of all, i don't get what you mean by she *Noureen has been going behind her brothers back. She's not going out with her brother so that doesn't make sense.
Also I'm not quite sure why you would tell Noureen about Issy and the guy. That is ... (read in full...)
Any way to get the friendship back?
Q. There is this guy,and we were best friends I told him everything and he told me everything, and about a year ago I started getting into drugs and drinking, and he decided I was a bad influence on him and we stopped being friends. Back then I didn't ...
A. 18 June 2009: Well it's good that you've cleaned up your act, but getting your friendship back is going to be tuff.
Because he knows that you got into drugs he might think that within a matter of time you can go straight back to it. After all it doesn't ... (read in full...)
Will he ever give me a chance to explain?
Q. Just broke up with my 2years boyfriend recently. I am so confused i feel so bad. Ifeel like am to blame for the break up. This how it started since this year my boyfriend changed he even wanted us to break up at one point due to the long distance ...
A. 18 June 2009: I think that you should just concentrate on your life and move on
If he wont give you a chance to explain whats going on, then why bother wasting your time with him?
He's clearly stated that he doesn't want to talk to you because he won't say hell... (read in full...)
What would be the best way to make friends?
Q. Hi, i really need some help here... Im a really shy girl and have a really weird way of doing things, its difficult to put into words, i can talk to someone via sms or email, even writing them a letter but face to face i cant talk, even if it is the ...
A. 1 February 2009: Well, there's lots of stuff you can do. You can go on sites where you find friends in your local area - you never know, You could go out with your male friend to the clubs or something then maybe you would meet other people, or [if you work] ask the ... (read in full...)
I need sex, what do I do
Q. i feel like i am going to die without sex what should i do i am 12...
A. 5 September 2008: Hey Im 13 And My advice is to wait don't go having sex just because you need it yeah everyone feels the need to have sex but were all still young wait for the right time when its LEGAL and you've met the right girl. you dont have to listen t... (read in full...)
The real issues about pupil/teacher relationships?
Q. I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...
A. 1 August 2008: well me being a teen myself
i think its the pupils not the teachers
because in my school we fancy a lot of the teachers
but that doesnt mean that teachers dont fancy the pupils right?... (read in full...)
How can I stop frowning and being so miserable?
Q. Hello, Simply, how can I get a more happy persona and stop being miserable? My childhood wasn't always the happiest (parents divorcing, arguing etc), and I just want to learn how to be happier. People always tell me to stop frowning and sto...
A. 1 August 2008: Aww :) x
well...even though im a teen...i think to make you're self smile and me happy again you should:
1)treat yourself -if you do you'll feel happy..(clothes,shoes ect)
2)go out with friends/family -going out for a drink or shopping tr... (read in full...)
I'm really embarrassed about my nose!
Q. I'm really self conscious about my nose. As soon as I learn to accept it and forget about it, some jerk at school says something mean to me about it that just lowers my self esteem again. I'm 14 and I know that once I'm 18 or older my parents ...
A. 6 July 2008: Your not the only one =]
I hate my nose! its literally one big blob and 2 holes my nose is quite flat and its really bugging me !!!
well dont listen to what other people think about it...cuz you just got live with it until your old enough to ha... (read in full...)
I'm falling for a "bad boy"...
Q. a boy at my school really likes me he is hot and all but he is a bad boy so what can i do to like him and dont fell scerd please help...
A. 6 July 2008: Hey x
You know when you say bad...what type of bad way do you mean? like as in bad in his lessons or in general as in smoking, + taking drugs?
but anyway in a way its good not to get involved with bad boys because they make life much harder... (read in full...)
He was totally hot, telling me he loved me, then a few weeks later, totally cold, and it's over, why?
Q. Have you ever began dating someone who seemed TOO perfect? I met a guy 6 months ago, through his best friend. His best friend fancied me, but the feelings weren't mutual. I actually fancied his friend, and it turned out he liked me back. On...
A. 6 July 2008: Aww x
So he loved you before the surgery more than he loved you after the surgery ok.
Well he said he needs time to rebuild his life so dont put pressure on your-self.
when you think about it; he's just come out of hospital, lost his job d... (read in full...)
No period yet. What can I do?
Q. hi im 14 and i havent stared my perid yet what should i do ...
A. 27 June 2008: The answers easy....Just wait =]
mine started a year ago when i was twelve (now im 13) but remember that you can start as late as 18 so you got plenty of time. oh yh just some little advice enjoy the most of the time that you have not started your... (read in full...)
I am not pleased with my appereance, what can I change to look better?
Q. hey, this a pretty selfish Question,.. but i have no confidence in myself at all.. i am not the prettiest of gurls, like ata ll. ima size 10/12 and like on a scale of 1 - 10, 10 bein the highest , im about a 3 on scale of looks. and that aint me ...
A. 13 April 2008: aww, and know it isnt a selfish question...well to me it isnt. but your question has more to do with self-confidence;
if you dont have it then your gonna need it. because when you think about it its not only looks that boys go for its how you dres... (read in full...)
My mother let my BF live and sleep with me since I was 14, two years later I am pregnant. How to tell her?
Q. how do i tell my mom i am prego at 16, should she already see this coming since my boyfriend lives with us and my boyfriend sleeps with me, does she want me to have a baby since she let him live with me since i was 14...
A. 13 April 2008: Well there was kind of a hint there your mum LET you sleep and live with your bf so how can your mum be suprised if your pregnant? but thats a bad age to get pregnant because you still have schooling to do and university....blah blah blah. but who ... (read in full...)
We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!
Q. i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is ...
A. 13 April 2008: DAMN!
ok so your sister slept with you boyfriend and shes only 13! but when you think about it why would you boyfriend do that? if he really loved you then he would never do that to you. I dont think you should take him back because this is only ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and going out with a 17 year old virgin.
Q. Hi, first off, I'm going out with a 17 year old boy and I think he's really wanting sex badly. What should I do? Would I get in trouble if we did anything?...
A. 8 April 2008: OMG
can i just ask what the hell are you doing wiht a 17 year old
and duhh you can get into trouble if you do anything
cuz your supposed to be 18 until you can *do* anything
gd luck tho
x... (read in full...)
He wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or not?
Q. okay so thank you guys for answering my other one, and I have made up my mind about sex. I'm going to wait till I'm older!!!! The problem is he doesn't want to wait, in fact he wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or ...
A. 8 April 2008: Definately not
If you dont want to do something that you dont want to then he is a waste of your time
If hes begging you that means you obviously dont want to do it
dont make him force you to things that you dont want to do
gd luck
x
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My uncle is sex-pesting me, I don't want to say anything to my family, but what can I do?
Q. Hi, While I was camping a couple of years ago I slept in another camper tent. There are three double beds. My Cousin in one my other cousin in another and next to one of the beds is another one that my aunty and uncle sleep. I slept next to my...
A. 5 April 2008: I do feel sorry for you
but the only thing to do is tell your parents
because this is your choice. if you dont want it to stop then of course dnt do nuffin about it
but in a way this is abuse so maybe calling profesional ppl might he... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...
A. 4 April 2008: DO NOT DO IT!
i am 13 and i know how youngstas feel, but are you gonna let this guy just take your precious virginity awayy from you like that?this guy might not have a care in the world about you but just want you not to be a virgin anymore.
if ... (read in full...)
How can I get him back when he wont even tell me why he dumped me?
Q. hey guys i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 i want to no how i can win my ex back okay so this may sound a little crazy...but.... Me and my ex had been going out 8months roughly and then he dumped me...the story to it was we were talking on msn a...
A. 4 April 2008: Ok.
Now the 1st thing that you need to start doing is thinking how you can get him back.
Easy-Confront him, well its not like your gonna get your hopes up by talkin to him on msn or the phone.
But the way your saying this im not sure but it ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'm addicted to stealing money from my parents...
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I find myself stealing money from my parents now and again, like £20 at a time. I really want to stop, but I can't. I feel as if I'm addicted. HELP!...
A. 18 February 2008: hey, well this a problem you're going to have to face your parents at some point, but im kinda sure that you got a reason for stealing money of your parents. possibly it could be your parents arent giving you enough pocket money? or there's somethin... (read in full...)
Is it illegal?
Q. Is it illegal for an 18 year old male and a 15 year old female to be together even if they're not having sex or is it only illegal if they are having sex?...
A. 18 February 2008: it would only be illegal if you WERE having sex but if your not then everythings fine hunni gd luckxx... (read in full...)
Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?
Q. Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help.......
A. 16 February 2008: well its up 2 you really init, but i wouldnt even go that path, he might think that your trying something with him. maybe if you just write hapy valentines day then thats fine but if you buy one with lots of love wrting that will freak him out ... (read in full...)
Is this rape? Should I forgive him?
Q. I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...
A. 19 January 2008: I so feel sorry for you, he took advantage of you and dont think about him. and yes he did kinda rape you or would have phoned for help when you blacked out. forget about him, cuz you know you cant trust him...... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is smarter, what should I do?
Q. my girlfriend is smarter then me what should i do...
A. 12 January 2008: lool, you make me laugh your only 10-12 and this girl wants to get good grades thats why she's smarter. just dont do anything eg. trying harder to be smarter than her or she might notice. but you want to go on revision sites, reading books, extra ... (read in full...)
She was taken aback when I revealed I was a transgender. Is it possible she still have feelings for me?
Q. I really dont know where to start. About 2 years ago. I met the love of my life online, i told her i was man. We talked almost everyday, and emailed each other everyday. I never knew what was love was till she came into my life. A year and a half ...
A. 12 January 2008: yh you should move on, the news was quite unexpected for her. i mean who wouldnt react that way. i think that the person who you will go out with will be the person that doesnt mind you being a transexual and if you have trouble with that why not ... (read in full...)
He says we cannot share a relationship as he does not have a cell phone - to be able to maintain contact. Should I stay away?
Q. I lost my virginity to this guy a few months ago. Since then we talk. I want a relationship but he doesn't. He says he likes me, but it would be hard to be in a relationship because he doesn't have a cell phone and it wouldn't be fair to me ...
A. 12 January 2008: can't you see it, he doesnt want you. what kind of guy would say "can you wait until schools over". well i mean if you can wait for another 5 months or so go ahead but you know, he's taken you virginity and that's what he probably wanted. if he ... (read in full...)
According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?
Q. My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...
A. 12 January 2008: Leave, get out whatever, that is not the kind of person you should be going out with. why should he need to sleep with other people for "experience". his experience should be with you only and not anyone else if you 2 are going out. in a way i ... (read in full...)
Recently became pregnant, I have an hot-cold relationship with a man I do not love, should I keep the baby? I'm 35.
Q. I have recently found out Im pregnant. I have been in an on off relationship with this man for a year. I am 35 this month and do not have any children. I do not love him and dont know what to do. I cant do it by myself? If I terminate the ...
A. 12 January 2008: "Keep it, keep it". you should keep it cuz u said you've never had a baby before and here's your chance. i really think you shouldnt terminate because your throwing away someones chances of life. think how much fun you'd have, you the baby. But at ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend. Last year i asked out a guy that i liked and he said no. Ever since i have not been able to talk with boys face to face. The guy that i liked a month ago (i liked him for about a year) found out that i liked him and we ...
A. 9 January 2008: like every1 sed ur trying way hard, relax a lil but dont ask a boy out let them ask you out other wise it make it look desperate so get a new look like the laura sed, relax and the love fling happen on its own... (read in full...)
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