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writes:how do i tell my mom i am prego at 16, should she already see this coming since my boyfriend lives with us and my boyfriend sleeps with me, does she want me to have a baby since she let him live with me since i was 14 Reply to this Question
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Just come out with it....or do another pregnancy test and leave it somewhere she may find it.
if she argues you can go with the "what-do-you-expect-when-you-let-us-sleep-together" line
good luck x
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reader, im here to listern +, writes (13 April 2008):
yes she should have seen this coming and if she was going to let him sleep with you she should have atleast put you on the pill but thats not to say that its all her fault as, if you was old enough to understand how to have sex you should have been old enough to know that you need to use somthing to prevent pregnancy and std's. as for telling her, you wont be able to hide it for long so its best to just come out with it im affraid.
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Well there was kind of a hint there your mum LET you sleep and live with your bf so how can your mum be suprised if your pregnant? but thats a bad age to get pregnant because you still have schooling to do and university....blah blah blah. but who cares its your choice right?
Just tell your mum like when its just you and your mum
oh yh does your bf know?
anywayz good luck and dont worry mums are there TO help...so yh gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): i dont agree with having sex soo young and your mum, you and your boyfriend should have thought more about contraception.
Are you happy you are pregnant - do you want a baby right now..? you do have options. You should think what you want to do - its up to you, your choice no one elses.
I sincerely wish you all the best, whatever you do.. your mum will be shocked initially but i am sure she will be happy and its obvious she likes your fella otherwise she wouldnt have him living with you.
If you do have the baby it will be hard but it seems asthough you have a good foundation of people around you - but please get on the pill next time - more kids will be foolish at your age.
But again - think - what you do next must be YOUR CHOICE x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): If your mum has allowed your boyfriend to live and sleep with you then i'm sure she's aware of what may happen. Although i'm inclined slightly to blame her i'm sure that you are aware of the preventions of pregnancy. However i feel that she should of made sure you were aware! You should tell her, i don't think she'd be all that surprised!
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reader, madflash +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Try this... "Mom, I'm pregnant, and it's all your fault!"
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 It could be your mother's plan.
She would know what she is doing to you.
Just tell her that you are pregnant.
You are sure you are pregnant?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): hey i think you should just tell your mum i meen she let your bf live with you since u were 14 so this could of happened a long time ago u will be fine tell yur mum and she will support you ys she will be majorly shocked but she would hate found out that you were pregnant and u didnt tell her like you made a choice to get an termination and then you never told her!but you musnt think about everyone elses opinion this is about you not them YOU! GOOD LUCK XX
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