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writes:Hi, I've been going out with this guy for 4 months now but we have liked each other for a year now he loves me so much and we have been through so much together, I can't imagine my life without him. I love him so much I've sort of pushed my friends away because I love him so much but here's the problem - I've lied to him about my age he's 44 and I've told him I'm 18 but I'm not, I'm younger and we've been together for ages now. We really do love each other and care about each other, we know everyting about each others past and I know I need to tell him but I can't break his heart or lose him, what should I do help plz Reply to this Question
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reader, sweetheart43  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Dear young child please tell him your real age you could get him in alot of trouble and you might not see him again until your actually 18. maybe there will be hope for the two of you. come clean ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!1
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (24 November 2008):
omg I used to lie about my age all the time when I was younger I thing its normal... I'm asking myself what you could possibly have in common with someone that age but whatever.. you should tell him the truth ... in my country he can go to prison for this... your parents are never going to agree with this relationship... if he really loves you he will wait until your an appropriate age...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): hello, im from the uk, and the legal age for sex is 16, so its not illegal.
However, i think there may be a problem oh his behalf as you have lied to him for four months! You need to accept that this may mean the end of your relationship, but you cant continue to lie! Come clean as quickly as you can, you cant carry on to lie to this man. Relationships are built on trust!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): You have received great advice. All I want to add is that you should consider counseling. Your behavior indicates that you might be troubled. I suggest you get professional help now and avoid destroying yourself even more with lies and deceit.
I am concerned about you and hope you can get the help you need to stay out of trouble and to ensure a happy future.
Best wishes.
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (23 November 2008):
 come clean. just tell him that your really a tad younger and it's perfectly legal in this country so long as your 16 or over, you need to tell him. i'm sure if he loves you or likes you the age won't matter but from personal experience one day your parents will find out and world war 3 i'm tellin ya!
you shouldn't push your friends away though sometimes it's hard to fit into their lifestyle while your with an older man but when you have a fight with him your friends are there to hug you and tell you everythings guna be ok.
get maytes with them again and be happy but deffinatly tell im how old you are and tell him you didn't intentionally lie and how you feel about him
goodluck hun
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reader, bethphares20 +, writes (23 November 2008):
honey do the right thing tell him your real age its fine
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