I have a problem, I like my teacher!
Q. I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a ...
A. 18 December 2010: She (the poster) shouldn't be harassed here, whatever he does or don’t do is made by him, his decision and his alone. She just has a crush and its him whom putting his future on the line not her.... (read in full...)
Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt?
Q. Hi eyeryone! Okay so here is my question. My friend told me that she lost her virginity and i asked how did it go and she said it hurt really bad but in the end felt good. so i was wondering. Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt or is that ...
A. 12 December 2010: It'll hurt a lot. My ex was 19 and she said it hurt like hell. ... (read in full...)
I have a problem, I like my teacher!
Q. I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a ...
A. 11 December 2010: You got it bad (:, but it’s nothing to be ashamed of a lot of us go through it. It helps to me and a friend of mine. He married his teacher and when it hit the light all hell broke out. The shame, the families involved her life and husband. It was a ... (read in full...)
Am I ready for this baby?
Q. im pregnate and dont know if im ready for this baby.my boyfriend wants the baby but im not sure if i do. we have known each other for two years but we have only gone out for 2 months.i think we are to young for this baby.i have only told my best ...
A. 10 December 2010: kate1219 your complete wrong here. This is statutory rape on both sides here and there’s a status for having sex with a underage minor. The state of Georgia has a 10 minimum sentences for this. The law doesn’t discriminate because of age. Her ... (read in full...)
I have forgiven him but still cannot get over what happened.....
Q. Hi, I have a unique problem in my relationship with a Guy whom i know since 1 year, We are staying away from each other in different countries. Everything had been fine until i came to know about a girl. My boyfriend met her during one of his j...
A. 10 December 2010: He’s totally correct here. This is eating you up inside and he’s walking on eggshell with you. That’s not a good thing. Trust is the key thing here. When someone withhold things from me it just as bad as lying to me upfront…I see no difference in ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I miss my FWB guy?
Q. Hey I want/need advice Ok sooo I was friends with this guy then we started havin sex. We were not in a relationship and This went on for 8 months. So I was attached to him he was my second. Sooo things ended by me findind out that he took my cousi...
A. 10 December 2010: Its ok and i follow you. You wanted more than his penis, yet you were a walking sex doll to him. Your cousin probably had a better chance with him because you fuck your chance away. You will never get a guy with your vagina because it just want work ... (read in full...)
Help with mad Girlfiend parents
Q. So the major problem started about a week ago when my girlfriends car broke down, I offered to tow it to her house but she said it was ok. Her grandma and sister then later went and moved it to the gas station just down the street. They called my ...
A. 10 December 2010: Just send them a card with a note explaining the situation. never blow it off...... (read in full...)
Am I ready for this baby?
Q. im pregnate and dont know if im ready for this baby.my boyfriend wants the baby but im not sure if i do. we have known each other for two years but we have only gone out for 2 months.i think we are to young for this baby.i have only told my best ...
A. 10 December 2010: You two could be in some serious trouble if your parents overact to this. You two aren’t old enough to consent to what you have done. Your parents would have all say in this and actually take this child from you and raise it as her own. Not one ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? Help me interpret the signs!
Q. Hi, I am very confused :) My boyfriend of 6 months has contradictory signs about whether he is gay or not. Well he is quite feminine and sensitive and I have accepted that about him. I have thought that this is because he grew up with women only ...
A. 10 December 2010: I am going to take your test and H__ No I am not gay: 1.) A lot of hand movements when he talks. I walk normal and really don’t pay attention to my hand movements. 2.) loves singing along Mariah Carey. Likes Lady Gaga. Loves broadway shows ... (read in full...)
I'm a widower who has fallen in love with my divorced sister-in-law!
Q. help me.i have fallen in love with my sister in law.i am a widower and she is the sister of my now deceased wife.she is divorced and we both have grown up children. i know that she also has feelings for me but feels that our love is wrong and will...
A. 9 December 2010: I think it should be ok, but i couldn't sleep with someone who sleeping with my sibling for years. The image of you having sex with my sister would just be a turn off.... (read in full...)
Can't afford a divorce, which is only harming my kids and myself in this marriage!
Q. I am 44 years old, have been married for 20 years, and have two children. A boy 14, and a 5 year old daughter. My relationship with my wife has been "ok" up until about 7 years ago. We went to counseling (had to fight her tooth and nail to make her ...
A. 9 December 2010: Here dude this is what I used:
http://www.divorcewriter.com/
it’s a good program and the courts had no problem accepting it. You both have to agree to the divorce or it want work. You can do this without a lawyer and it fast. You can take your tim... (read in full...)
I'm scared of sex and marriage now! Can someone help?
Q. hi! I am a Pakistani muslim girl and my problem is kind of freaky and stupid!! It's just that i got married to my cousin(my mom's elder sister's son)in the end of december 2008. He was quite good and friendly before our marriage. when we got engaged ...
A. 8 December 2010: Your husband didn’t want this marriage and probably went through this marriage only because of pressure. To stand here and call this guy names is ridicules. You two need to end this and go your separate ways. I wouldn’t want to be married to my ... (read in full...)
Secret relationship with much younger sister-in-law
Q. I am 42 year old married man. I am very close to my 18 year sis-in-law. She is bubbly and jolly in nature. She is very fond of me. She allows me to hugg, kiss and touch her boobs. She often says she loves me.I too say same. We enjoy a flirting ...
A. 8 December 2010: How bad can you get in the head is the real question here. A 42 year old man running after a child and molesting her in the process calling it love. You’re too old for her in the first place and the girl is family to you. How low can you go? Theirs ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to stop abusing his ex?
Q. My boyfriend wont stop texting his ex and calling her names he tells me he hates her and everything n he doesnt have her number but he keeps texting her, im friends with her and she tells me, he tells me not to talk to her. I talk to her behi...
A. 8 December 2010: he'll stop when he realise that he has you to abuse.... (read in full...)
My husband likes for me to sleep with other men, I feel like I'm cheating!
Q. Hey, My husband likes me to sleep with other men. It turns him on and is his greatest fantasy. At first I thought it was really strange but I found I actually really enjoy it too. Only thing is that I generally meet these guys out in pubs and club...
A. 8 December 2010: Everyone one of these relationship I knew of ended. Yours may last….... (read in full...)
I have no feelings or sex drive for my 330 lb. husband!
Q. Iam so imbarrased to write about this! But iam so tired of this I really need some advise! I have a husband that weighs 330pounds. I weigh 140pounds. Our sex sucks really really bad because of his weight. I keep on asking him to loose weight in ...
A. 8 December 2010: Nothing wrong in wht you asking of him. It could save his life...... (read in full...)
I have forgiven him but still cannot get over what happened.....
Q. Hi, I have a unique problem in my relationship with a Guy whom i know since 1 year, We are staying away from each other in different countries. Everything had been fine until i came to know about a girl. My boyfriend met her during one of his j...
A. 8 December 2010: Sorry i misread it…I see if you’re hurt by him lying to you, but I think you should let this go. People remain friend long after their fling is over. Some feel as though they shielding you from hurt or jealousy if they withhold information of past ... (read in full...)
Can't afford a divorce, which is only harming my kids and myself in this marriage!
Q. I am 44 years old, have been married for 20 years, and have two children. A boy 14, and a 5 year old daughter. My relationship with my wife has been "ok" up until about 7 years ago. We went to counseling (had to fight her tooth and nail to make her ...
A. 7 December 2010: You two needs to be roomamtes and end the marriage. you can still live under the same roof, but maintain seperates lives. Once you're out of debt you two go your own way:
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/ your first step to freedom.... (read in full...)
We have anal sex one time, and now he always wants it!
Q. i am kinda having an issue that i don't know how to address. me and my boyfriend tried anal a couple weeks ago. i was afraid at first but i was surprised that i actually liked it. but the problem is now that seems to be all my an boyfriend wants! i ...
A. 7 December 2010: I would read or ask a medical doctor before i continue anal sex. When I was growing up it was said anal sex leads to hemorrhoids:
http://www.hemorrhoidshemroids.com/anal-sex-and-hemroids-hemorrhoids.html... (read in full...)
New and exciting sex positions to share?
Q. what are some different sex postitions that are exciting and feel really good? i've only done missionary like boy on top and thats all. i dunno how to make it more exciting and feel really good. also how do you arrive before the boy? i need some ...
A. 7 December 2010: Sex with love is just screwing. No guy will want you as a wife if you been around the block a few times...
you can actually learn if you read this site:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/... (read in full...)
He is separated from his wife, but they are yet to proceed with a divorce. Does this count as cheating?
Q. I had sex with a guy who has been separated from his wife for a year. He has a 2 year old daughter with his wife, and that is why he claims it is "complicated" and they have not yet decided whether to move forward with the divorce. Does that count ...
A. 6 December 2010: I think if you need legal advice I wouldn’t look for it here. Dating while separated (legal or not) can lead to complications, but that’s will be a matter for the court systems.
“they have not yet decided whether to move forward with the divorce.... (read in full...)
He hit me! Did I deserve it?
Q. So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a year and a half. I have a 7 month old child with him. I just moved into my own condo. He does not live with me due to his alcoholism. I was at his house visiting him and watching the football ...
A. 6 December 2010: The word cunt is so disrespectful. You shouldn't have slap him, and no way should he have put his hands on you. During my marriage (17 yrs) I never hit my ex wife. I have held her until she calmed. You need to rethink this relationship because it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is non-verbaly presuring me to have sex
Q. Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do. i feel that I dont want to have sex with my boyfriend, and he told me, 'only when your ready" but i feel like hes expecting me to. I dont know what to do. Ryzar ...
A. 6 December 2010: Sex isn't everything and if you really care for this guy then put a little faith in him. Most people isn't attracted to others they didn't wouldn't sleep with, just trust him. Whomever you're dating you want that person to love you and yes you want ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was nursing her 3 year-old!
Q. I have been dating a new gal for the last several months. She is wonderful in every way. She has a cute 3 1/2 year old son. I was at her house a week ago and she took her son upstairs to put him to bed. It took a long time, so I thought she may have ...
A. 6 December 2010: Why can't she talk to others about it? Most start weaning a baby around two years old and some people just have no clue how to do it. Don’t worry she’s just feeding the baby and not being freaky as you think. Here’s another freaky thing for you, a ... (read in full...)
Am I too young for this guy? Am I missing out on something?
Q. Three years ago, my father brought a man over to the house who he introduced to us as his colleague from work. He is 20 years younger than my dad making him now 35 and 15 years older than me. In present time, I'm actually about to turn 21 the end of ...
A. 6 December 2010: I marred my wife when I was 25 and she was 21 and yes there are those feelings of hesitation in all of us. I think it’s normal when you going straight ahead and wonder if this is the right person. I think anyone that’s tells you any different is ... (read in full...)
I can't stand looking at my step daughter, she reminds me of my husband's ex!
Q. I don't know what to do. I am married with two children ( one is now in heaven). My husband is a good man. He works two sometimes three jobs so I can go to school and not have to work. He's a good man. He knows his responsibilitys and lives up to ...
A. 5 December 2010: Not much you can do but accept the choices you made. What your husband done as good as you think he is I would take issues with. I maintained two household and not one penny ever can from tax payer to support my responsibilities as a father. I think ... (read in full...)
I don't even want to have sex half the time!
Q. I constantly offer myself to my boyfriend and have sex with him whenever he wants. He loves me and really appreciates that about me, however I don't even want to do it half of the time. Theres something wrong with me, I don't know why I always try ...
A. 5 December 2010: I think it’s a way that you feel like you’re being loved, you’re missing something and its affection that isn’t or you’re not accepting from him. If he was showing affection as you needed you wouldn’t be feeling like this. I think you need to put ... (read in full...)
I want my parents to approve of my 29 year old boyfriend!
Q. I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I am 20 and he is 29. My parents hate the age difference. I am too scared to let them meet him cuz of this now. I really like him but I want my parents to be happy and approve of the guys I da...
A. 5 December 2010: Here is what you do sux up your pride and invite him over. I think he’ll impress them. Don’t sell your guy short. The more they see him and his corny jokes the more they’ll like him.... (read in full...)
Problems when it comes to sex. Also, I can't help but check out my boyfriend's friend.
Q. Hey Cupid. Q1. Okay so i have been going out with my boyfriend for about one and a half, maybe two months now. we have tried sex, including oral and using your hands but anytime he does anything (this happens especially with the hand using part)...
A. 5 December 2010: You can love someone yet not be into them and that would explain why it’s so hard for you. Your bf now probably would make a great friend but lover well only time will tell. Everything a guy can do to a girl a girl can do to a guy except doggy, well ... (read in full...)
I want to get under the covers and play again like when we were 6!
Q. I have a family friend that i have been attracted to for a long time now. she is beautiful. we have been close since birth. when we were 5 or 6 we used to kiss. we would get under the covers in my bed and just play around for hours, nothing down ...
A. 5 December 2010: Some fantasy need to just be a fantasy. go find a woman you can be faithful too.... (read in full...)
He is 3.5yrs younger, would it be wrong to date him?
Q. ....Well I just know this guy, and he's in 9th grade of highschool. We been really good friends for some time now. Everyone says we make a good couple, at first I didn't notice I have this crush on him till now. but..heres the problem. He's 3 1/2 ...
A. 5 December 2010: I know this woman very pretty, she about my age and a few years ago I just standing there talking to her with her son. He was about my height then and he was only 14. Nice looking boy like his mother. This girl had him naked staring at him so hard I ... (read in full...)
Because of my unhappy marriage I've found comfort in the arms of another...
Q. ok someone has to help me, I am married and have two kids,unhappy in my marriage and i have become friends with my husbands friend. We have been meeting up sexually and i have fell for him. The thing is he just got out of his relationship and is ...
A. 4 December 2010: How did you come to the conclusion that he drove you into another man arms, more like bed. Did he abuse you so much that you forgot what a divorce was? Why are you trying to date a man and sleep sleeping with your husband (the abuser) what man would ... (read in full...)
Do all men secretly prefer big breasted women?
Q. I've read many articles which say many studies have been done which prove that men prefer larger breasts, even on an unconscious level, because most men consciously say that size doesn't matter. But science has proved otherwise. However, most men ...
A. 4 December 2010: Large breast are nice to look at but I never date a woman who breast was over a B-cup. big breast woman comes with back pain and other problems.... (read in full...)
My wife told me she wants to be single and live by herself!
Q. Im 23 years old and my wife is 21. We knew eachother for 4 years dated for 2 years and have been married for 1 year. We have a 1 year old daughter. My wife is tired of being a mom and wife, she says she still loves me but she just wants to be ...
A. 4 December 2010: I am looking at your responses here and shaking my head unbelievable. Look for a shelf or mantel, yes look for it. Stick your manhood there if you want this woman. The last thing she wants is to be around you. She has thought this thought about ... (read in full...)
Can we get past this, or is the situation hopeless?
Q. Help me! Me and my gf were together for a year and a half before we broke up and we have a baby together. We took a break for six months and jst got back together. Things were good at first but now its turning into our first relationship all over ...
A. 4 December 2010: No it’s not hopeless and you don’t need counseling, what you two need is forgiveness. You know why she can’t come to you and I think you should stop asking her about it. When you forgive someone you totally drop it, never toss it in their face, not ... (read in full...)
Is he taking advantage of me, when all we do is just kiss?
Q. Okay, so there's this guy and i like him and he likes me also, i know this because he told me. so he is like a bad boy type and he drinks and stuff like that and he also flirts with girls but he doesn't even realize when he is doing it.He has kind ...
A. 4 December 2010: You describe a guy I would run away from my kid. He's going to treat you like shit because that whom he is so get use to it. Of course he want sex from you, can you be attracted to some you would never sleep with. He's an alcoholic or soon to be one ... (read in full...)
He doesn't trust me
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for around seven months and are happy or so I thought. He doesn't trust me or believe me half the time anymore and I just recently found out that he thinks I'm am or will cheat on him with my friend who I ...
A. 4 December 2010: I agree with all. Ask yourself why is he accusing you? It would occur to me maybe he's thinking of cheating or has cheated... (read in full...)
My girlfriend loves and is attracted to me, but she's not sexually attracted to me!
Q. My Girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We were both virgins when we met and were planning on getting married before we had sex but things turned out differently. After around 1.7 years of dating we had sex and have been having sex often ...
A. 4 December 2010: Its a misconception that if they love you then sex shouldn't be a problem, she need to be into as well as love you. )Ou need to back away from sex and only do it when she wants it. Before and after that chase her again. Let her know how special she ... (read in full...)
I have forgiven him but still cannot get over what happened.....
Q. Hi, I have a unique problem in my relationship with a Guy whom i know since 1 year, We are staying away from each other in different countries. Everything had been fine until i came to know about a girl. My boyfriend met her during one of his j...
A. 3 December 2010: Forgive someone takes a special person especially from something that is so painful to you. This guy is just a cheater and you need to realize what you have here. There’s no remorse from his part, those excuses you listed for him about why he ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I want my husband to trust me about this?
Q. Ok, to give a quick background: I've been married 6 years and it's been rocky, but we are at a great point now. I am a very social person and have kept many friends close over the years. My childhood friend / first boyfriend at age 14, mind you ...
A. 3 December 2010: I have no man in my home without me present. I would have lost trust in you if I was him. Not sure how you thought this would fly. You might as well said can I bring my ex over for sex. We not going to do anything while you're home, but as soon as ... (read in full...)
My husband has a 19 year old female friend! How should I react to this?
Q. What are you really supposed to do or how do you react when your husband has an 19 year old friend that's the opposite sex? He knows you don't approve of it. But he says that's his friend no matter what nor how you feel. And he's 36 years of age. ...
A. 2 December 2010: Regardless of what she's doing and for what reason we may not agree on. She deserves respect and she its his friend (lover). ... (read in full...)
I think I might be a lesbian and in love with my best friend!
Q. I think I'm in love with my best friend! What do I do? When I was at one of my friends parties we were playing the usial spin the bottle, 5 minutes in heaven, that sort of games. But with a difference, we decided that gay was OK to make it more i...
A. 2 December 2010: No you’re not a lesbian but your escapade has you confused. Don’t be too alarmed because you‘ll see other females that are turn on by another female, yet they’re not gay in any form. I say chop this up as lesson learn and don’t play that game again.... (read in full...)
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