I expressed my feelings about the relationship and he called me psycho!!!
Q. Hello all. I've been in a relationship with a man for the last 7 months. We have had plenty of ups and downs but currently we are in a down trend. I sensed he was pulling away about two weeks ago because he had a lot going on in his life. I offered ...
A. 20 January 2014: Cut your losses and move on. Couples should support each other. Not ignore, get distant, and hurt each other. You gave him support in whatever way you could, but when it was your turn to need his support, he only kicked you while you were down. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is still contacting her ex! It really hurts me!
Q. Dear agony aunts, Once again I need your advice. We've been in a relationship for 3 years, and as of July 2013, we live together. When we started dating, my girlfriend told me that her ex was calling her stuff and making threats. I took no part i...
A. 15 November 2013: She screwed up her chance. She shows how little you and hers relationship means to her. She is still fantasizing about this man. I think its time to cut your losses, and chalk this up to a learning experience.... (read in full...)
He makes jokes about religion, but I'm religious
Q. The man I want to be with, always makes jokes about "aliens" being out there, and maybe they are the ones who created us. I am a God fearing woman, and when someone makes jokes about whom I worship, I take it to heart and it upsets me. He does not ...
A. 10 October 2013: The thing is, he really doe believe in aliens. I dont speak about God to him, this all came up because I told him things are going great and he was like yea I'm not jumpin on the god bandwagon, then it went on from there.... (read in full...)
He makes jokes about religion, but I'm religious
Q. The man I want to be with, always makes jokes about "aliens" being out there, and maybe they are the ones who created us. I am a God fearing woman, and when someone makes jokes about whom I worship, I take it to heart and it upsets me. He does not ...
A. 9 October 2013: I dont take it too seriously, I love God and try and respect him is all. I guess Im so touchy because all my life my dad would literally say F God, etc. He doesnt down my God, and I like the man. I wouldnt seperate due to different beliefs. I just ... (read in full...)
I'm a teen mom stuck in a horrible relationship and I think I could be pregnant again just 10 months after the first baby!
Q. So basically I'm gonna try to make this short . I had a baby 10 months ago, I was 17 . The father of the baby he seemed to change (started being responsible, save money for our life together..etc) Now, everythings messed up again he's slightly...
A. 8 October 2013: Lets break this down a little bit.. 1. You're "against the system", do you mean the education system? That system is placed there for you and your childs benefit, not theirs. If you want to provide yourself and your baby a good life, education i... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you have sex with a woman on her period?
Q. What are your opinions on period sex? Especially guys... Would you have sex with a woman on her period? Would you do this only if you were in a relationship with her and care about or love her? Or would you do it with a random woman if you wa...
A. 5 October 2013: My ex and I had a blast when I was on my period. Sorry if I'm too blunt, but this is how I feel on the subject: if you dont mind a little mess, go for it. Its warm, and the woman is usually much more turned on during those days. Good luck :)... (read in full...)
In love with my late husband's brother - is it wrong?
Q. Hi! This is going to be long, so please be patient! I'm a widow. My husband died suddenly four years ago leaving me with three children, then aged six, three and one. I was devastated and it took me a long time to come to terms with his death. H...
A. 4 October 2013: I think its great. Your husband is gone, you are not commiting any type of adultery, so why not?
Who better, than a man you already know and have become used to. A man who already loves your children, and has known them since they can remember. If i... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend for his personality but the FWB for the way he makes me feel attractive!
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend threatened to leave because of several issues, im not sure what to do, i dont want to upset anyone. I was building a relationship with a guy for a little while and then he said that he cheated several times in previou...
A. 4 October 2013: You are very selfish. Your BF needs to kick you to the curb, and find a woman who appreciates him even if he isnt as hot as a past fling. You're going to throw your relationship away for selfish, imature reasons. If you dont feel sexy, exercise, buy ... (read in full...)
I am so jealous! I have the right to be, he's MY boyfriend!
Q. This girl writes on my boyfriend's wall everyday, with like ten posts of stuff to make him laugh because apparently he's depressed. I wouldn't know that because he never tells me anything anymore and is always talking to her. Some days he just ...
A. 28 September 2011: Id be jealous too. Come on we know what the TEXTBOOK behavior of relationships is but do any of us really folly suite? No! A girl constantly contacting my man would bug me. Im the type of girl that believes MY man is MY MAN!! Sure you can be friends ... (read in full...)
I've gained 40 lbs since he seen me last. Should I postphone meeting till I lose the weight?
Q. 6 years ago I regretably broke up with the greatest man I have ever been with. He recently found me. My concern is that at the time, when we were together, I was drop dead gorgeous. Since then, I have gained 40 pounds! I am scared to death of what ...
A. 16 September 2011: You can be a little thick and still sexy. Not all men are into pencil thin women. If youre serious about losing weight, you need to be tired of being larger, not trying to impress one man. If you rely on that you'll never go through with losing the ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend's ex calling him and he keeps telling her that I am with him?
Q. Ok. So I am with my boyfriend of many years last night along with our son and his daughter from his previous marriage. His ex wife calls and the conversation goes something like this "my girlfriend is here, my girlfriend is here, my girlfriend (my ...
A. 16 September 2011: The fishy thing is why she even needed to know you were there. Would she be angry if she got there and you and ya'lls child was also there? If so, thats totally ridiculous. He is your man, thats your relationship. She is the past you are the ... (read in full...)
Should I insist on a paternity test?
Q. I'm very angry at a friend for telling everyone her daughter is my child. This woman and her husband were close friends of my X wife and I years ago. The girl does resemble me, but I never had any kind of sex with this woman. Now half the town is ...
A. 16 September 2011: You can go to the courts and insist you are the father. Whether she likes it or denies it then, is beside the point, say you wanted rights or something the REAL father would want, the court WILL make her agree to a paternity test. And you can sue im ... (read in full...)
Should I take her back for the sake of the child?
Q. my ex and i recently had a baby things didnt work out and she moved in with another guy 3 weeks after moving out of my house some guy she had worked with the past 4 years. She told me they were just roomates but she recently told me they are ...
A. 15 September 2011: Do not listen to the nagativity here. You obviously trusted her enough to be with her for 4 years. Not to mention have a child with her. If this man has been a co worker for 4 years, chances are they have become close friends. Its only natural to ... (read in full...)
I caught my fiancé's dad cheating
Q. Yesterday I caught my future father in law cheating, I know it would break my fiancé's heart if I told him, not to mention if his mother finds out, it will tear his family apart. I don't know what to do. I don't think I would ever say anything to ...
A. 14 September 2011: and also, you need to practice making decisions together. He will be your husband soon & this is something he deserves to know.... (read in full...)
I caught my fiancé's dad cheating
Q. Yesterday I caught my future father in law cheating, I know it would break my fiancé's heart if I told him, not to mention if his mother finds out, it will tear his family apart. I don't know what to do. I don't think I would ever say anything to ...
A. 14 September 2011: TALK TO YOUR FIANCE. Despite what these people are saying, it would be the right thing to do. Maybe he loves his mom and respects her enough to not let his dad do this. Maybe he can talk to her and they would never know you said anything. Put ... (read in full...)
Should I try to fix things? Or move on? I feel so insecure now that his attractive ex is trying to talk to him again
Q. hi, so my bf of a year and i live together, and i just kinda broke up with him. we are perfect, except for that we rarely have sex. i tried to get him to open up and he talked about how he doesn't feel he fits with me sexually. I know his ex and h...
A. 4 September 2011: If this man really loves you, he would not make you feel like less of a person than his "ex". Everyone has their faults but he was out of line for pointing them all out in such a way. How would he like it if you pointed out things to him in this ... (read in full...)
I think I have herpies, and don't know the long term effects of it! What will happen to me?
Q. I'm really worried and concerned. I had unprotected sex over the weekend and now i have a big spot down bellow. It looks a bit like an ulcer. Their are three other tiny spots by it, but, they don't look like ulseres, they just look like tiny ...
A. 10 June 2011: honey we are praying for you. if it is not herpes let this be a reminder next time, just use a condom. my thoughts and prayers are with you i wish you the best. ... (read in full...)
Help.. broke up with bf and miss him desperately
Q. hi. i had been dating someone for 2 1/2 years - let's call him jim. jim and i met online, both in relationships we were tired of. so we broke up with our respective others to get together. a week later, we had our first date. it was perfect. in the ...
A. 6 October 2010: Men like this eat up this sort of attention. It will hurt for a long time maybe but youll heal, its better than staying around and being hurt, and then end up hurt in the end anyways.... (read in full...)
Help.. broke up with bf and miss him desperately
Q. hi. i had been dating someone for 2 1/2 years - let's call him jim. jim and i met online, both in relationships we were tired of. so we broke up with our respective others to get together. a week later, we had our first date. it was perfect. in the ...
A. 6 October 2010: Girl you need to let him go and move on. It almost seems like he enjoys seeing you this sad over him. He goes along with it and says he misses you and everything else etc etc, but he rarely contacts you, and the fact that he knows he is hurting you ... (read in full...)
Same sex relationships..are they wrong?
Q. I'm 22 years old.. since i was 14 i have wanted to sleep with another girl... the problem is that i have no idea what to do.. I'm too shy and i don't even know how to approach someone... also there are people that i have confided in that have told ...
A. 24 December 2009: Absolutely not! I can understand where you're coming from though, my first time sleeping with a girl, I cried afterwards just thinking about how my mom and everyone would react. But then after a while of long, hard thinking, I realized anyone... (read in full...)
He wants boob pics, but I don't want to give him any..?
Q. My boyfriend keeps asking me to give him a picture of my chest to him. I keep saying that i dont want to because i feel he might eventually might use it against me one day. I really love him and he is just really persistent! How can i stay with him ...
A. 23 December 2009: q1605, your post always crack me up lol.
As for the OP: I agree with Sammii and Auntie BimBim, if he loves you as much as he claims, he'll have no problem accepting the decision you've made. :)... (read in full...)
His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...
Q. I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...
A. 23 December 2009: aww...sweetheartI am SO sorry to hear that. I really hope things start to look up for you!
If I were in your shoes, I would make a few more attempts at contacting him, and if it doesnt work, then do things to take your mind off of it.
Friends... (read in full...)
Am I going to have to kiss him after he goes down on me?
Q. i want to get eaten out. but idk how it feels. or even if i should let my boyfriend do it. it doesn't bother me that he is licking and sucking my vagina. but im going to have to kiss him after. ....
A. 22 December 2009: I dont know why it would bother people, I mean unless you dont take care of yourself or something and you're not so clean down there.
If you keep up with your hygiene, most of the time you taste nothing at all.... (read in full...)
Am I going to have to kiss him after he goes down on me?
Q. i want to get eaten out. but idk how it feels. or even if i should let my boyfriend do it. it doesn't bother me that he is licking and sucking my vagina. but im going to have to kiss him after. ....
A. 22 December 2009: I kissed my ex after going down on me, I was worried as well until he kissed me, then I realized it wasnt so bad :)... (read in full...)
I don't understand where he's coming from!
Q. Another Follow up. Just thought i'll ask for some advice AGAIN. My boyfriend gave me another chance after a breakup.After my rude behaivoir and our constant fights. and i dont know why he's giving me another chance.he says that he only forgav...
A. 21 December 2009: I agree with oldersister. Even though you did wrong, if he truly loved you, he would understand and forgive you, atleast out of love. If he was TRULY in love with you, then something like that wouldnt make him lose his "love" for you so easily.
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I want to hold on to him and show him that real love sticks around and doesn't abuse him.. but am I just kidding myself?
Q. I met my ex boyfriend less than two months ago. At the time, he had been broken up with his ex for only 3 weeks. They had dated for 4 years and it ended with her cheating on him. We talked about his past relationship and he said that the last year ...
A. 16 December 2009: stick around hunny. it'll be hard, just wait it out until you feel you cant anymore. thats really all I can say.... (read in full...)
She's so perfect for me... I just don't find her physically attractive...
Q. i was in a relationship with a girl that ended about 3 years ago, it was my longest relationship and most serious, we dated for about 2 1/2yrs. I didnt think i was happy with her, i thought i could find someone better, someone with which i was more ...
A. 12 December 2009: wow, this is hard to answer. If you can bare to look at her, you know, find something that you DO find good looking about her, go with that, focus on that all the time. I mean if you love her, then her looks shouldnt matter... (read in full...)
Crazy in love...
Q. I need some advice, I'm 21 years old and i was involved with an older man 32 now, for two years. I was undeniably in love with him, totally and completely. To me he was perfect and my everything, my best friend and lover, we were both in love crazy ...
A. 10 December 2009: aww, I am SO sorry! I know how you feel sweetheart, it will all be okay! Just take your mind off of it, go see friends, go out and have fun, spend time with family, etc. Do thinkgs that arent going to make you think of him, better yet, go do things ... (read in full...)
He's the one who cheated but he tells me I can't talk to guys
Q. so I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now since we have been together i have caught him cheating ,i have caught him on several dating websites and also caught him on phone dating services chatting and talking with different girls. ...
A. 10 December 2009: OH MY GOSH!! exact same situation here! Only in my case, he has my passwords and goes and deletes them himelf! He rips my clothes sometimes, he keeps clothes he doesnt want me to wear, I cant hang out with my girlfriends because theyre "sluts" as he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend used to mess around with 14 nearly 15 year old girls when he was 23!
Q. Okay so heres the thing, ive had a boyfriend for nearly 2 months, that I REALLY care about okay. So I knew he has a reputation of "getting around", but ive recently found out he went as far as messing with 14 nearly 15 year old girls! his HIGHSCHOOL ...
A. 9 December 2009: Thank you Miss Nita. Actually, I just tried getting ahold of him to let him know im moving on, and what do you know--He's off wasted with some guy. I'm happy with all the support i've gotten from all of you, and the great advice, and as for the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend used to mess around with 14 nearly 15 year old girls when he was 23!
Q. Okay so heres the thing, ive had a boyfriend for nearly 2 months, that I REALLY care about okay. So I knew he has a reputation of "getting around", but ive recently found out he went as far as messing with 14 nearly 15 year old girls! his HIGHSCHOOL ...
A. 9 December 2009: Thank you all for the help so far. Most people, when called on this subject, would say "everyone does it", which is one reason I was so skeptical as to whether I should be as disgusted as I am. And I understand alot of young girls think theyre ... (read in full...)
Depressed and lonely
Q. I just finished school this year and i have never had a girlfriend. I'm not popular and i don't play any sports. I'm not very chatty. I prefer to be alone and be depressed. Why can't i find someone that can love me? I'm desperate....
A. 9 December 2009: aw sweety its okay, we all go through this! find something that interests you! go to the park, mall, etc, somewhere you can meet people!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend used to mess around with 14 nearly 15 year old girls when he was 23!
Q. Okay so heres the thing, ive had a boyfriend for nearly 2 months, that I REALLY care about okay. So I knew he has a reputation of "getting around", but ive recently found out he went as far as messing with 14 nearly 15 year old girls! his HIGHSCHOOL ...
A. 8 December 2009: He didnt tell me about it :[ His 16 y/o sister did. It was HER friend he screwed around with, I mean really, Why would you even consider messing with your highschool sisters friend?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend used to mess around with 14 nearly 15 year old girls when he was 23!
Q. Okay so heres the thing, ive had a boyfriend for nearly 2 months, that I REALLY care about okay. So I knew he has a reputation of "getting around", but ive recently found out he went as far as messing with 14 nearly 15 year old girls! his HIGHSCHOOL ...
A. 8 December 2009: I mean, how can anybody with any dignity be able to mess with someoen whose practically a baby still? I lost my virginity at 15 to a 25 y/o, and looking back now, I regret it, all of it, and it has effected me in more ways than one, no child that ... (read in full...)
Help! How do I let him go...?
Q. My boyfriend, "Chris", broke up with me. I honest to God, truly loved Chris. I wanted to be with him forever, but he didn't see it the way I did. I'm heartbroken now, and I don't know what to do. I've told him before how much I liked him, but he ...
A. 1 December 2009: You need to sit back and think about things...Be happy you had him at one point in time, and make yourself understand things just werent meant to be. Theres always someone out there for you, things fall apart so better things can fall together. ... (read in full...)
Should I trust that he really will quit smoking weed?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. I just found out last week he has been smoking weed about once/week on and off for the past year and 1/2. Long story short, he told me all about it, and after a lot of crying I gave him the ...
A. 20 September 2009: I also agree with rainorfire and the others..He hasnt done anything stupid on it and yes it is indeed legal in many places, that would be like him asking you to quit shopping or something just because he wants you too. You would say no im pretty ... (read in full...)
I don't want to cry while making love!
Q. so me and my boyfriend had sex last night (not for the first time) we have sex a lot. but last night he layed me on my back on the couch with my hips down coming off. he was on his knees with my feet on his shoulders, so my legs were straight up ...
A. 19 September 2009: making love?? HOW OLD ARE YOU? how old is he? You shouldnt even be having sex, but since you are already, my advice is next time he does it just put your clothes back on and tell him NO, if he cant be easier like you ask then he's not getting any, ... (read in full...)
Should I trust that he really will quit smoking weed?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. I just found out last week he has been smoking weed about once/week on and off for the past year and 1/2. Long story short, he told me all about it, and after a lot of crying I gave him the ...
A. 19 September 2009: Well for one I think youre being a bit dramatic over the situation, Im not condoning weed but come on, crying and making him choose? ... (read in full...)
Still low after his affair. I don't know how to get over it!
Q. hi all really need bit of advice. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 years we have a beautiful 4 year old child together, we live together and have alot of commitments. thing is, about 18 months ago i found out he was...
A. 18 September 2009: It killed alot inside of you, someone you love so much cheats on you. If they loved you so much why would they let themselves do it? Temptation is a horrible thing, but youre supposed to have the strength to overcome it. And even if youre one of the ... (read in full...)
What did his answer on Facebook mean?
Q. Hi! Ok I am so happy well before I said things that I regret to the boy I like allot and I apologised yesterday and he replied today and said.....haha we all make mistakes..... What should I say back? Does he like me back now? Signs: Sta...
A. 18 September 2009: lmfao! I cant believe im reading this -_-... (read in full...)
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