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writes:I'm 22 years old.. since i was 14 i have wanted to sleep with another girl... the problem is that i have no idea what to do.. I'm too shy and i don't even know how to approach someone... also there are people that i have confided in that have told me that is morally wrong... is it wrong to want to have sex with someone of the same gender???
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): Nope, there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to sleep with someone of the same sex. Whoever thinks that is misguided or a complete muppet! Go with your feelings and ignore people who say that it's just not true, good luck, x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): So, you've been interested in sleep with another girl for quite a while. Normal! There are lots of young girls out there that have this curiosity... finding another one is not hard- find a web site that caters to women (not Craig's list), and find someone like yourself that wants to experience the same thing. Meet for drinks, get to know one another and if there's a spark, go for it. You're meeting to have sex- not get married, so relax and enjoy the experience. When you get between the sheets, neither of you will have any problem figuring out what to do. Take it slow- don't make it complicated (leave the toys at home for a while!) and have a good time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): Well, one who is biblical will say it is wrong.. and I believe in god.. I do! But, I can't judge you.. God will.. So if you have to second guess if its wrong, than hmmm!
Now look at me being a hypocrit, I've done it.. It was a little experimental thing, and now that I'm older, I can say... been there done that.. I know I love men! But, your young and you want to see what makes you happy! Do you! Man, with this internet thing being as it is, it wouldn't be hard to find another chick who would experiment with you and hell once you've done it, you'll probably say the same thing I did "been there done that". If you feel like you want to be in a relationship with a chick, then you might want to stess about what your family might think.. other than that, experimentation with your sexuality is kind of a don't ask don't tell kind of thing.. but a true relationship, things get tricky! In the end.. its what makes you happy.. your living for you, not anyone else!
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reader, scrdofyou +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Absolutely not!I can understand where you're coming from though, my first time sleeping with a girl, I cried afterwards just thinking about how my mom and everyone would react.But then after a while of long, hard thinking, I realized anyone who really cared about me wouldnt care what I liked, they would care about me either way.Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): No it's not wrong, it's about preference and it's not something that can be changed we're born with it so how can it be wrong?
Try going on a night out to a Gay bar or look for LBGT groups in your area. You could always join a Gay/Lesbian forum and get some advice and tips from people there. You have loads of options it's best to at least try.
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