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*owrycrue
writes:I have been in a relationship for the last 13 months. In the beginning, she was seeing other guys, which I did not like, but dealt with it as I wanted to be with her. About 8 months ago, she told me she was stopping seeing the other guys and that she was committed to me. She say I am "perfect" for her, take care of her, love her children (she has 4) and help keep her grounded when her life seems to be going out of control.So, this past Friday she tells me that she has been feeling like she wants to see other guys. In the beginning, she was saying that there is no reason one can not love more than one person. I am not sure what this means, but I think that is where this was going. We have been on a monogamous relationship for 8 months, but I am afraid she wants to break out of that. She tells me she wants to be with me and will always come back to me. She just wants to meet new and interesting people, which is fine with me, but I get the feeling she wants the option of sleeping with them.Any ideas what I should do? What are your thoughts? Reply to this Question
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 This is not called a relationship. I mean, say, if i had an agreement with a woman, that, in return for no love, no commitment, I would sleep with a woman occasionally, on the basis of an understanding. Well hey if you call it a relationship, you go out for social occasions together, introduce each other to social circles and stay together, I am sorry you are the one whose social standing and personality is getting harmed.
If you accept this as a free no-commitment affair just for fun and f...ing, fine. but if you think you are in a relationship and you care about her, I am sorry you have gone down to a wrong wrong way. wake up...
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 I wouldn't plan on having a future with this woman and if you're wise, you will also start seeing other women in hopes of finding someone who has her head screwed on straight and wants to be exclusive with a wonderful, patient man. Keep looking.
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