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writes: hi im 22 just broke up with my long term girlfriend after i found out see was cheating on me just carnt seem to get her out of my head and carnt understand why she did it we were so happy now shes dating him and i know hes useing her and think she mite ask me back wen it falls apart but i think she may do it again can anyone help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): thank was a great help
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (19 December 2007):
 She did it once she will do it again, dont take her back find someone better nicer and loyal, after all she will think "hmm well i cheated once and he took me back so maybe he will take me back the next time" no give up on her dont give her another thought
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (19 December 2007):
 Hi buddy. Don't worry about the other guy, because he has got it coming. Sooner or later she will cheat on him, then he will be feeling bad just like you. And she'll probably cheat on the next one after that.
Do you really want to be one those guys for a second time?
Richard
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): Hey I know how you feel cos my boyf cheated on me with my best friend! To be honest at the start I wanted him back but then I thought that if he did once whats stopping him from doing again or maybe this wasn't the first person he cheated with?!? He just didn't get caught any of the other times.
You did nothing wrong, don't go chasing after her. You need to think of yourself and what you want, what will make you happy. I think you should just move on from it all. Put it down to experience and as the old saying goes "there's plenty more fish in the sea"
Hope everything goes well for you & best of luck with everything :)
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 Then just get her out of your mind. A woman who has cheated on you is not worth your thoughts let alone your love. And whats more she is with the guy with whom she cheated on you.
It is over. You must be lucky to get rid of this cheater without a bigger damage.What are you looking for trouble? Or your manhood has been hurt. A cheater is a cheater, it is has nothing to do with you. It is her tainted character.
Believe me she is not worth a thing.
Move on.
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (19 December 2007):
 Easy one this. If she cheated on you, you need to move on. It might well be this guy is using her, but she was using you.WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.I would have nothing to do with her whatsoever and if she were to contact you, if I were you, I'd say I'm sorry but you cheated on me and I cannot trust you ever again.DON'T HANG AROUND. MOVE ON.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): one things for sure...i know its hard but dont wait around for things to "fall apart between them". Because the last thing u want is for her to think that she can do whatever she wants and you will always be there. Be strong and let her go. Dont call or text her. Start the process of forgetting her and moving on with your life.Mate i know times like this can be really hard, but this is a time to think about yourself and what your plans are...start moving on, there is definitely someone better for you. DO NOT GO RUNNING TO HER!Good luck man..i sincerely wish u all the best!
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