What can I say to make him go away for good, and not humiliate myself?
Q. The guy I broke up with this weekend called 3 times last night. When I called him back, I asked why he called and he said, "just to say hi" and then giggled. I told him, "don't call just to say hi. Don't call me at all." I know he likes to mess...
A. 7 January 2009: Don't answer his calls anymore. Better yet block his number on your phone then you won't be bothered anymore.... (read in full...)
I love him but confused!
Q. Okay this would be really complicated if I didn't start from the beginning so it's going to be long.... When I was in one of my classes the first day of school my sophmore year and everyone was coming in I first noticed him and immediately began ...
A. 2 January 2009: If it's really bothering you then you should tell him that if he doesn't tell everyone you're together then you won't be. Guys like that are retards, they think they can keep one relationship a secret so they can still freely flirt with whoever they ... (read in full...)
A bit too close for comfort.
Q. Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...
A. 31 December 2008: There is definitely something wrong with this guy and you need to talk to every single teacher there is in that school until someone listens to you. I'm not trying to scare you, I'm sure you're already scared enough, but things like this happen ... (read in full...)
If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?
Q. If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?...
A. 30 December 2008: Anything that he wouldn't do if his girlfriend was wathcing is cheating.... (read in full...)
We can't live without eachother!
Q. hello, i have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now and we are very deeply in love, if we could be together all the time there would be no frustration no fights nothing (there hardly is anyway). i am 19 and she is almost 17 it is legal ...
A. 30 December 2008: I don't think there is anything you can do unless you get consent from her parents. You said you guys have been together for almost 2 yrs. So you'll just have to wait a little longer before you can move in together. Sorry. But since she is still a ... (read in full...)
Problems conceiving...
Q. My husband and I have been trying to conceive since July, and so far nothing. I'm starting to worry there may be a problem. Should we go to the doctor or keep trying another few months? Also I noticed when my husband ejaculates most of the time...
A. 30 December 2008: I wish I could help you but I'm not really an expert in this area. One of the things I would do though is talk to your doctor and tell him everything you've just told me, even if your husband is a bit embarrassed about it. Surely your doctor will be ... (read in full...)
My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!
Q. I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy ...
A. 30 December 2008: I think if you want to save your marriage(and if he wants to, which sounds unlikely) you definitely need to get some counseling first. But just the fact that he said he married you to get to your mom is insane, and if that's true, then you really ... (read in full...)
I am depressed with my sad existance. Do looks improve everything?
Q. i feel life is very unfair the way things are .the goodlooking /cute ,girls get good jobs,good freinds,a fair share of boyfreinds,good exams ,there have figures . goodlooking /cute people are lucky . i try very hard and i get no where.i have no ...
A. 30 December 2008: Ok, of course if you go around acting like you're sad and pathetic, you're not going to have any friends! Who would want to hang out with someone like that?!?! People want to be around other people that lift their spirits and are happy and fun to be ... (read in full...)
I feel fat and ugly and don't think I can get a boyfriend. I need support.
Q. why do guys hate all ages hate to be seen with with fat and ugly girl,why don,t these girls ever get asked out and treated nice. why do guys have to be so shallow and egologstical. thats not fair, to treated girls like this like they don,t ext...
A. 30 December 2008: I don't think what you look like matters as much as how you carry yourself. Of course if you dress like a bum with no makeup and your hair a mess, the guys aren't exactly going to be lining up, whether you are ugly and fat or not. And being fat has ... (read in full...)
Not in love with my wife and having an affair but can't leave because of my kids.
Q. I have been having an affair with someone for 3 years. I have two children aged 7 and 5. I am not in love with my wife any more. I want more than anything to live with the girl I am having the affair with because I am in love with her but I don't ...
A. 30 December 2008: In your question it says you can't leave because of you're kids, but you're really not helping your children at all by staying, divorce is not always a bad decision. If you really love this girl you are cheating on your wife with, then you need to ... (read in full...)
What can I do? Should I stop being his best friend so maybe I have a chance to be his girlfriend?
Q. Well, I have my bestfriend who's a boy. Now the thing is that I fancy him and he knows it. Once he told me that he thinks that i;m beautiful but he doesn't want to go out with me coz he is afraid that he doesn't imagine us more than just friends and ...
A. 27 December 2008: He might not want to date you because if you guys did date, and you broke up, then you most likely wouldn't stay friends, and having you as a friend is better to him than not having you at all. You guys should talk about it and agree that you have ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband's ex is stalking me! PLEASE-what can I do?
Q. Hi! I'm 2 months pregnant and I have a major worry. Recently I told the hard truth to my husband's ex girlfriend about her inability to properly care for her daughter. I probably shouldn't have, but I was sick of her acting as if she's the best ...
A. 20 December 2008: Ok I know this might sound a little harsh, but I would get a gun if I were you, I have a 9 mo old son and I would shoot/hurt/kill somebody in a second if they tried to harm me or my son. And since your little one is in your belly, if she hurts you, ... (read in full...)
Why is he suddenly giving me the silent treatment?
Q. Why have I been receiving the silent treatment? This guy friend I have has been recently talking to me alot through texting, talking online, hanging out quite a bit and we have fooled around in the past and recently because of our attraction. I...
A. 20 December 2008: Sounds like he's a jerk and even if he does try to talk to you again I wouldn't answer him. You don't need someone like that in your life, someone who might want to hang out one day and ignore you another. I've had friends like that, & it's best to ... (read in full...)
I know he's stalking my internet profile...
Q. I'm a bit confused... Llong story short... we were friends for a long time... had a fight didn't talk for 5 months... then he said he missed me a lot and wanted to go out with me... I agreed... 2 months went by I said something he didn't like ...
A. 18 December 2008: Wow I have to say that is really creepy. I had someone kind of stalking me, but it was for a very short time, about 4 days, but thankfully it ended, I was just about to go to his house and beat his *ss. But that's just me. It is kind of weird that ... (read in full...)
This poem is for my boyfriend...
Q. Hi im Candice and i wont to no what you guys thing of my poem before i give if to my bf Here gos ... The momont that you became that part of me. I knew that your heart belonged to just me I love it when you look at me with your ...
A. 18 December 2008: I hope you don't mind if I kind of proof read for you? I don't know if you're just making mistakes because you're typing it or if you just don't know how to spell it, so I'm going to retype it for you.
The moment that you became a part o... (read in full...)
I know he's shy, do you think I should call him?
Q. Hello everyone, well I've known this guy for about a year and even though we like each other and have great chemistry we're just friends. A week ago his friend sent me a message on facebook telling me he was wondering why haven't I called him yet, ...
A. 18 December 2008: You should call him! He's asking why you haven't, which is hint that he wants you too. If you're too shy, or as you say, he's shy, you could always text him.... (read in full...)
Am I in the right or the wrong here?
Q. I was recently dismissed from work without notice and I'm just wondering if I am in the right or wrong. According to the contract they can dismiss without notice and pay if I am rude to customer/clients. To sum up the earlier part of the job,...
A. 18 December 2008: I had a very similar situation, more than one actually. I worked in sales for 1 1/2 yrs. I got into an argument with a manager at the time and we basically had a screaming match and i pretty much threw a clipboard at him.. I didn't try to hit him or ... (read in full...)
I saw the text, I heard the lies, someone help!
Q. I guess it is my turn to have a question answered. The following text between my boyfriend and his ex.. HIM - you coming home tonight or tomorrow just wondering cuz i don't remember HER - Tonight! On the road now! Him - Cool drive safe ro...
A. 18 December 2008: There could possibly be something going on, especially since it's his ex. But there isn't really anything concrete to prove it in the texts. Those are things friends say to friends. On the other hand, he may have deleted some texts so you couldn't ... (read in full...)
Do I do something or stand on the sidelines and watch?
Q. i want to know if my boyfriend of 7 years fancies someone else.she is his brothers wifes sister. i have a horrible gut feeling in my stomach that they like each other. he recently added her as a friend to his facebook.did not mention this to me.i am ...
A. 18 December 2008: You can get on his facebook and see or get your own, as the previous answers suggest. If you really want to know what's going on, he won't tell you if something is, getting a facebook, or getting on his, is basically the only way to find out. I ... (read in full...)
I have not had much experience with guys as no one ever seems to have shown any interest in me in the past.
Q. Hi I am 16, almost 17, and unlike all my friends and apparently everyone else, I have not had much experience with guys as no one ever seems to have shown any interest in me in the past. I do not mean sexual experience, what I am worried about is...
A. 18 December 2008: Often your friends don't have as much experience with guys as they'd like you to think. So don't be concerned that your friends have dated and you haven't. Everyone is nervous on their first date, so if you guys do go on a date, just act like you ... (read in full...)
My family life is falling apart, I keep pushing the boy I love and I just don't know what to do anymore!
Q. sooo at this point im all over the place... my family life is falling apart and on top of tht i keep tryin to push away the guy i love! i just dont know what to do anymore.. ive been in depression for 3 yrs and can never seem to be happy. i gues...
A. 18 December 2008: Being hurt by everyone you ever cared about is an perfect reason why you could be pushing you're bf away! You don't want to get any closer because then he might hurt you too. See you don't even need my help you've answered your own question :)... (read in full...)
I feel like my world has been crushed, all our wedding plans have been made.
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years and we got engaged last Christmas. He also moved in with me around the same time and we were never happier. Around 4 months ago he started to get down and depressed, we put it down to money worries, ...
A. 16 December 2008: The fact that it was a 5 month affair says a lot, it means that it wasn't some fling he had or something he did when he was drunk, it was him trying to be with 2 people at once, sneaking around behind your back, and seeing this other girl. You have ... (read in full...)
He said he can't give me what I want...
Q. I have been chatting to a guy on the internet for a year, said he loves me, but can't give me what I want, says loves chatting etc, he has my address but I don't have his. He has never mentioned meeting, but sent flowers for my birthday. We are ...
A. 16 December 2008: What do you want that he can't give you? If you guys have been talking for a year, it might be time to meet, if that's what you want. If this is the kind of relationship that you want then you're not wasting your time with him, but if you want to ... (read in full...)
What does it take to make a girlfriend or get the number one spot?
Q. What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Brains, beauty, good physique, sophistication? What do they want?...
A. 16 December 2008: It depends on the guy. Some guys are extremely shallow and all they care about is appearance, while other guys would rather have someone that they can talk to, and don't care as much about looks. So every guy is different.... (read in full...)
Is having phone sex cheating?
Q. What do you think about a person that loves having phone sex with another women besides his wife. My boss calls this women on the phone almost everyday just to listen to her have phone sex for him. He does not consider this cheating, I think he is ...
A. 16 December 2008: The rule of thumb that I use for anything I'm confused about is, would I do this if ______ was standing right next to me? If the answer is no, then it's wrong. Personally I wouldn't have phone sex with some guy while my boyfriend is sitting right ... (read in full...)
Is jewelry a good idea for Christmas when we have been dating a short time?
Q. Is jewelry a good idea for a girl you've known for 5 months and dated for 1. If so what type and how much should i spend? ...
A. 16 December 2008: Jewelry is almost always a good gift idea. Obviously a ring wouldn't be the best choice if you've only been dating for a month, but a pair of earrings, a necklace, or a bracelet are all good gifts. I wouldn't spend a whole lot, just make sure it's ... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything if a guys asks if the man you are with is your boyfriend?
Q. Does it mean anything if a guy asks you if the man you are with is your boyfriend? On two separate occasions I have been out for a drink with two different male friends of mine and this guy that I like, has asked me both times if my friends are m...
A. 16 December 2008: He was probably asking if those guys were your boyfriends to see if you were available for him to date, he probably likes you. Unless this is a very common thing and he flirts with everyone, it sounds like he's interested in you. I would flirt with ... (read in full...)
My daughters are calling my girlfriend nasty names and I can't get them to stop!
Q. My daughters (they're only 8 and 5 of age) call my girlfriend (of 2 years) names like b!tch, s*ut, wh*re, ugly, fat, skank, smelly, tramp and the list goes on. I cant them to stop. Of couse I give them time out after time out but its losing its ...
A. 16 December 2008: Your daughters are very young, and the youngest probably doesn't remember her mom at all, as sad as that is. So the idea of you dating someone is very foreign to them and they probably just don't know how to react to that, the older one may think ... (read in full...)
15 and might be pregnant!!!
Q. Hi im only 15 and i think i might be pregnant. I'm soooo scared and i had sex (for the first time) about 2 weeks ago. And we started than stopped right away. We didnt use protection (which is soo stupid now), and i missed my period. (My periods ...
A. 16 December 2008: There is really no way to tell if you're pregnant or not other than taking a pregnancy test. But as you said, your periods aren't regular yet, so it's not out of the ordinary for you to be late. Also I want to add that sometimes before you start ... (read in full...)
My family life is falling apart, I keep pushing the boy I love and I just don't know what to do anymore!
Q. sooo at this point im all over the place... my family life is falling apart and on top of tht i keep tryin to push away the guy i love! i just dont know what to do anymore.. ive been in depression for 3 yrs and can never seem to be happy. i gues...
A. 16 December 2008: You didn't really make your question clear so I'm kind of confused as to what exactly you're looking for here. But as for pushing your bf away, maybe that's because you don't talk to him about your problems? You could try just telling him about ... (read in full...)
Do guys like athletic girls?
Q. do guys like girls who combat sport?...
A. 16 December 2008: You might have been looking for a guy's perspective, but I'll still try to help. I think guys like all different kinds of girls, like the previous answer, he said he likes athletic girls better, while other guys may not. It really depends on the ... (read in full...)
Torn between cheating b/f and his friend!
Q. I can't deciede, please help me! I found out from my boyfriend close pal, that his dating another woman. I dont know if i should confront him about it because he did not tell. Also, he told his friend he loves me very much, but yet can't decied...
A. 16 December 2008: He might genuinely care about you, but if you guys live in different countries, you rarely see each other, and he might be looking for a relationship where he can actually see his girlfriend on a regular basis. Long distance relationships can be ... (read in full...)
I would deny it to anyone who asks, but I am crazy about my teacher!
Q. Am I in love? I think about her constantly-I can't get my mind off her. Everything reminds me of her, and something inside me hurts when I realise I won't see her for however long. My heart flutters whenever I see her, and I agonise constantly over ...
A. 16 December 2008: It sounds like you really care about your teacher, but is it just a thing where you like her or do you actually want to act on it? I don't know if you're bi, gay, or straight, either. Some people go thru a phase where they are confused and uncertain ... (read in full...)
Does Adderall affect your period?
Q. Heres the thing, my last period was October 24th and I have still not gotten my period yet. I know the possibility of pregnancy already, but my question is I started taking Adderall December 2nd (doctors orders)and I was wondering if it might affect ...
A. 16 December 2008: Pregnancy tests aren't always accurate, like you said. Also maybe it's too soon to tell? I would go to your doctor/clinic, or buy another test and take it again in the next few days. To answer your question, i really can't. I don't have any idea, ... (read in full...)
Dating for a week and he's already sexual. I'm not used to this and feel weird, any advice?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a week now and today we were making out on the sofa and he got under my shirt and touched me through my jeans. I feel it's wrong and i dont want him to think im a slut but i feel so weird and i ...
A. 16 December 2008: If you feel like it's wrong, you need to say something to him. He might just be used to doing that because he is a couple of years older, and he doesn't know you don't move that quick. He also could be using you, that happens a lot when you have an ... (read in full...)
I really want to be his girlfriend but my anxiety is keeping me from doing it.
Q. well i really like this boy he like me to but all we do is talk on myspace and he ask me all the time to talk to him on the phone but i'm so shy cause of my anxiety he told me he love me and i didn't tell him back because we don't do nothing but ...
A. 16 December 2008: I agree with the previous answer. Kind of weird that he says he loves you when he doesn't know you that well.... (read in full...)
I'm missing him a lot but don't want to appear clingy, what do I do?
Q. Hi. I recently started dating a guy - we've been together for about 4 weeks but live really close to each other so have been seeing a lot of each other. I go to his and he makes me dinner and we spend whole days just visiting places and getting ...
A. 15 December 2008: You could call, txt, email etc. He probably misses you too, and one phone call isn't going to make you look clingy so I would just call him. Hope I helped.... (read in full...)
Her boyfriend doesn't know she has a baby. Should she tell him?
Q. Have a friend of mine, who has been dating a guy for the past one year. My friend has a baby but she is afraid to tell her boyfriend because it might ruin their relationship please give any suggestions to help....
A. 15 December 2008: He's eventually going to find out, if they get married, and there is this random child running around that the guys never met before lol. But in all seriousness, I have a son, and everyone, not just guys, knows within the same day I meet them that I ... (read in full...)
Bestfriend's boyfriend dillema.
Q. hi My best friends boyfrind is flirting with me qiute openy i might addd,,it bothers me i dont want it to get in the way...
A. 15 December 2008: If he's consistently flirting with you and it makes you uncomfortable, tell him to quit. Then if he doesn't, and if really bothers you, then I think you have no other choice than to tell your friend.... (read in full...)
Violent Girlfriend then gets her family to threaten me...
Q. My girlfriend is a really heavy drinker and is often violent towards me, her friends and even total strangers when she is drunk, she has promised to do something about her drinking many times but never does, its clear she never will. A few wee...
A. 15 December 2008: I hate how if a girl hits a guy, it ok and basically no one cares, but if a guy hits the girl everyone wants to drag him to jail. No one should be punching anyone. You both are wrong for fighting, but she obviously has provoked you for a long time, ... (read in full...)
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