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writes:Hi im only 15 and i think i might be pregnant. I'm soooo scared and i had sex (for the first time) about 2 weeks ago. And we started than stopped right away. We didnt use protection (which is soo stupid now), and i missed my period. (My periods arn't regular yet) and my breasts feel tender and a little swollen. I'm soo scared soo please can you help or give advice?
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reader, desperate girl  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 i thought i was pregnant too i was fooling around with my bf like fucking with cloths on he had his shorts and i had my jean on and my period is delayed to four days im scared to be strong
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank-you
i really really appreciate it(:
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (16 December 2008):
 There is really no way to tell if you're pregnant or not other than taking a pregnancy test. But as you said, your periods aren't regular yet, so it's not out of the ordinary for you to be late. Also I want to add that sometimes before you start your period your breasts might get tender, so that may actually be a good sign. I would buy a pregnancy test, that's the only way you're going to know for sure.
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reader, dt1213 +, writes (16 December 2008):
well.. its your very first time having sex, so of course pregnancy automatically comes to your mind. Dont go getting insane right away though. Just because you miss your period doesnt mean anything. it could be late, or could just not come at all this month. It happens to everyone. The first time i had sex, i was about a week late for my period, and trust me it was the most stressful week of my life. Alot of this could also be in your head too. Now ive never had a baby but if you just had sex 2 weeks ago, i think itd still be a little too soon to be getting tender breasts..even if you were pregnant. i could be wrong though. I just think overall you should take a step back and relax a bit. Give it atleast another week and then maybe take a pregnancy test if you still havent gotten your period yet. Just watch how much information you share with your friends. the last thing you need is rumors going around your school about you. & one last thing, be a little more careful next time. you dont want any more of these scares!
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reader, pink15 +, writes (15 December 2008):
 sweetie, that was a little absent-minded of u and i wish u luck on telling ur parents. i hope ur life turns out alright. GOOD LUCK!
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (15 December 2008):
 Don't freak out just yet. I have had a few pregnancy scares but most of the time it is just being a hypochondriac. Your periods aren't regular and tender, swollen breasts happen around the time of your period. Actually many period symptoms are the same as pregnancy symptoms so it is easy to get confused. Give it a little while and don't stress too much, that can also cause you to miss your period. You can also take an at home pregnancy test, I would wait another week though if I were you. Before you start telling anyone you may be pregnant, talk with your boyfriend and see how each of you feels if you actually were pregnant. No need to make any decisions now though. Good luck.
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