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i would like to say thanks for taking the time to look at my profile. you know sometimes when i look at people on this site who have a good answer to some question or whatever but they dont have at least one thing saying something about them i kind of wonder why the heck we should listen to them if they dont bother telling us a little about themselves so we know where they are coming from.
dong get me wrong we are all able to give awesome answers on this site as we all have different life experiences to share.no matter hw young or old you are, people should listen to your opinion with open ears, or eyes in this sites case.
so what makes me able to help people?? well i have had life experiences just like everyone else. i have been screwed over by a guy before, i have had a pregnancy scare, but im not in love with my teacher so if you want advice on that, im not the right person to ask.
Also i am a firm believer of the "yes you are going to get pregnant if you dont ware contraception" club
aswell as the "no you shouldnt be with him if he got another five women pregnant while being with you" club
you know sometimes i wonder how on earth the moderators on this site read all the things we post in.
i wonder what they think when they read it?
ok about me...
i believe that people never stop learning, true love is out there to be found, i will get married one day, the world we be over populated some day.
redrose
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Military Girlfriends HELP!
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A. 13 June 2013: Sageoldguy1465
Thank you very much for your answer :) i have been trying really hard to keep busy and occupy myself and you comment helps me understand that this is what i need to do. There is nothing more i want than to support him and help him... (read in full...)
Military Girlfriends HELP!
Q. Dear cupids, my boyfriend just recently joined the airforce... He has been there for 4 weeks now, its getting easier but it still hurts so much now that he is away all the time.. we hardly talk because he is busy all the time and tired. I cant hel...
A. 11 June 2013: Sageoldguy1465
Thank you for answering, as for your comment on growing up, well i have some information for you. just for your information I have been apart from him for the last 3 years while he has been at school so yes that hurts but its not ... (read in full...)
I'm 16. Is it wrong for me to have unprotected sex, already had a miscarriage and want to get pregnant?
Q. ok so heres the deal...me and my bf have been dating for almost a year now...we stated having sex 5 months after we began dating...but we NEVER used condom...we are 2 highschool students and he is to graduate this year...i have suffered a miscarrage ...
A. 2 May 2013: hmm well the answer to this is that you should always use a condom for one, and just please think about all the other things in your life you might want to get done before a child comes and makes it more complicated. Think about your own health and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my BF it's over? I said No. But He's still pressuring me. he wants to lose his virginity with me.
Q. I am a 14 year old virgin, but my BF , which is 15, wants to lose his virginity with me. We have been dating for not so long(1 month or so) and I'm scared that if I continue dating him, then I'll lose my virginity. At first it was a straight up ...
A. 27 April 2011: okay if you really like the guy dont go jumping into leaving him, that wont achieve anything but heart ache.
hes 15 your 14 the situation is oh so familiar... at 14 my bf was 15 he had experience in sexual activites but had never had sex. He want... (read in full...)
How can I fight my gag reflex and give better blowjobs?
Q. hi guys, im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. its going very well, and we have had sex. but now my boyfriend really wants me to start giving him blowjobs and swallowing his sperm. i have only give a few blowjobs. i've bee...
A. 27 April 2011: hey i would say i had this problem but i still have this problem. this trick is i think practise because even though i sometimes gag it get less and lass the more you do it. just make sure your bf doesnt try to push your head down onto him as this ... (read in full...)
Can you be fingered with trousers on?
Q. my boyfriend wants to finger me, and i want him too but i hate the look of my vagina, i get spots on it and marks when i shave, i hate it, can you be fingered with trousers on?!! ...
A. 10 April 2011: you can.. like the other people said if you wear loose enough trousers.. but i think the real issue here is how you feel about your body. when me and my boyfriend just started getting into that kind of stuff i was a nervous wreck! i thought he ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before my next birthday, but there's still no one special in my life.
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A. 7 April 2011: ok well you dont not walk out the door because your afraid you are going to trip over. you dont not drive because your afraid to crash..do you? the risk is always there.. but if you choose to live your life focusing completely on the risks out there ... (read in full...)
Why is he becoming more sexual?
Q. Hey there! Okay, I'm in a sticky situation! I started Highschool not too long ago and within the first week, I started to like a sophomore boy I met. He's so gorgeous, and very sweet and calm, despite being one of the popular skaters. He was a great ...
A. 24 March 2011: hey,
i understand the situation, this guy might have wanted you to get close to him before he started making moves for you. he also might have wanted to get to know you better before he did anything.
he waited a while before he started askin... (read in full...)
What do you do when a guy only wants you for sex?
Q. hi this is my first time on here, what do you do when a guy only wants you for sex, and leads you on and plays games with your head. idk i think there should be an explanation for this, but im not sure any ideas or opinions???...
A. 22 February 2011: i once had a guy that pretended to like me and lead me on the same way this guy seems to be leading you on. he used to tell me her loved me, but i think deep down he only wanted me for one thing.sex. i didnt give it to him and he gave uo after a ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I had a miscarriage? I don't want to stress him out...
Q. I just found out I had a miscarriage,I didn't know I was pregnant so you can imagine I'm still a bit shaken, my question is about my boyfriend. We have a long distance relationship, things have been a bit rough lately and he's really stressed out ...
A. 21 February 2011: yeah i think the best thing would be to tell him. even though he is stressed right now he does deserve to know as it would have been his child as well. i can totally understand how this would have shaken you up! any one would be if they didn't even ... (read in full...)
My boy friend has proposed. What age can we marry in UK ?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a bit now... He's 16 and i'm 14 :). He's going into the army soon and he has proposed to me. I said yes because i thought it was right :) . the only thing is i don't know how to tell my parents and ...
A. 20 February 2011: With parental consent, you can marry at 16 in England. Without it, you have to be 18.
so there you go, unless you get consent you have to be 18.
i would like to tell you something because i feel it is relevant to your question.
i a... (read in full...)
What do you do when you're both sexual virgins?
Q. My boyfriend and I are both virgins and want to remain so until marriage. While we are very adamant about this decision, we still have another 3 years before we want to even think about marriage (college first, then marriage). Both of us are very ...
A. 20 February 2011: play cards.
im just joking. take things slowly, do them at a slow pace and get to know each others bodies.
good luck!!
redrose
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How to tell a girl you're dating that you're a virgin?
Q. Hi, I'm a 27 years old guy and I have never had sex in my life. It's an bothering fact especially when you live among people for whom it's no big deal to have sex from younger ages. The reason i haven't had sex so far may sound stupid but it's alw...
A. 20 February 2011: "hey i would like to say that before we have sex..im still a virgin. for me that means that i have chosen you to give this to and i intend to be with you. i love you."
redrose
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Are my standards too high to get a girlfriend?`
Q. Hello all, I'm a seventeen (Virgin) year old boy. I do want a girlfriend but I'm worried that my standards are too high. I don't believe in ANY sexual contact whatsoever, I wouldn't date a female if she had voluntarily given her virginity away o...
A. 20 February 2011: i would say yes.but i also say good luck and i hope you find what you are looking for.
i cant really say much else as it has all been said.
redrose
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How do I deal with the change in my body, after having a baby?
Q. Okay so I have been with my partner for three years already and have already had a child with him. I used to not be afraid to show my body off because my boobs were bigger and perky size c, my body was nice and big I even had them lil dimples on my ...
A. 19 February 2011: ok well i understand how this i hard for you because you know what you looked like before and you loved it. now that you have had the baby, everything has just gone a bit saggy has it? im afraid for many, many women that is the reality.when you have ... (read in full...)
My fiance and I have been together a year and I'm a virgin. But is he a sex addict?
Q. Hello, i've been in relationship for a year, and then got engaged to a guy, but i feel inside he is sex addicted. we 've never been in a sexual relationship and i am still virgin, even in my thoughts about love.. last time we went out we were exc...
A. 19 February 2011: umm the guy loves you if hes still around, im sorry but if he didnt then he would have left you long ago. hes a guy and well he cares for you since he has waited this long for you.
how long do you intend to wait? he will eventually get sick of wait... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend want a baby together, how do I tell my parents??
Q. I want a baby and so does my boyfriend but I'm only 15 this year and I'm worried about telling my parents. I reallly know I'm to young but I love kids so much and just want one to have 4 myself. I am a babysitter so I'm forever looking after kids ...
A. 19 February 2011: sweetheart i know you think you have thought this through, and it may seem as if everything is going to be alright. But you really are too young to know the real consequences that a baby brings.your boyfriend may have two jobs but at that age he cann... (read in full...)
Two guys like me and I like both of them!
Q. Two guys like me. I like both of them. One of them asked me to be their girlfriend and I don't know what to do. I've made a pros and cons list. I can't find anything bad about going out with either of these guys besides that if I choose one the ...
A. 19 February 2011: okay well in this situation you need to dig deep in your heart and find what guy your heart desires most.if one of them has asked you out already and you really love him then maybe you should go for him, as the other might not ask you out. hmm one ... (read in full...)
While separated, my wife got more action than me and it makes me mad!
Q. my wife and i got back togather after a year i had sex only once. she had sex with two guys the first one she says she kick off the other guy she was in a relationship with and had sex many times but says she was not in to it or didn't like it. she ...
A. 17 February 2011: hmm, you say she was coming to you for sex when you guys were not together? to me that is strange. normally when someone has split up with someone else they dont have sex with them also. were you going to her for sex as well? if that was something ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my fiance that I had an affair and the baby may or may not be his?
Q. I have been with my fiancé for 4 years and we are to be married June. We have a great relationship but I recently made a mistake and had a brief sexual relationship with a co-worker. It was over the span of 2 weeks, and it actually brought me closer ...
A. 17 February 2011: hmm i think get the test done while you are pregnant because that can be done, if its ur husbands, then i dont think you need to tell him but it would put you at ease.
if it isnt your husbands then yes you do need to tell your husband. picture this... (read in full...)
Love her to bits but she says no sex before marriage and it's frustrating me!
Q. Hi I'm 28. For the first time in my life I think I am truly in love. My relationshiip with my girlfriend of 4 months is fantastic. However, she does not believe in sex before marriage because she is christian. I am not religious but repsect her...
A. 13 February 2011: hmmm wel its good that you have respected her wishes its a very amiable trait, but a totally understand that you are sexually fustrated, just keep thinking of how great it will be when you first have sex with her. are you planning on getting married ... (read in full...)
Does having a baby really hurt ?
Q. I heard having a baby really hurts . I'm excited about having my baby buy I'm scared too I'm afraid to push the baby out I don't enjoy pain very much and I'm also worried my boyfriend won't be there because he goes to work during the day and comes ...
A. 13 February 2011: yes i have heard it really hurts aswell, but it is not just a thought, it really does hurt.
have you considered thinking about using some sort of pain relief when the baby comes? im afriad you cannit escape the fact that it will hurt, it is just... (read in full...)
I am so sick of my boyfriend of five years not stepping up and marrying me!
Q. I don't know what to do. I am so sick of my boyfriend of five years not stepping up and marrying me, (we've been engaged), and him saying that he spent thousands on my engagement ring when he didn't, he only spent 2K, i saw the receipt! So, because ...
A. 13 February 2011: woh woh woh calm the heck down i think here. im not going to try be mean here but your being a bit spoilt for your age. the man is low on money, why on earth is that a good time to get married? its been 5 years? yeah? im sure if he loves you it ... (read in full...)
My love of breast milk! Is this normal?
Q. Hello All,I am a middle age man and since my youth I have been obsessed by human lactation and breast milk. When I was 12 my mom was nursing my little brother and she did for about a year, during that time I was very envious of him since I am the ...
A. 13 February 2011: errrrrrrrrr, im not really sure dude, it seems strange but there are stranger things than that i bet.
um do you think it is weird? do you think you need help? because if you do then go do it now other wise ummmm continue.
i dout though that... (read in full...)
How long does a sperm live inside you?
Q. This morning (feb 12th) I had sex... well last night too. Anyways I found online calendars that say my ovulation week starts tomorrow (feb 13th). Would I have any chance that I'll get pregnant? And I always hear different answers about how long ...
A. 13 February 2011: er were you planning on having a baby? because if not your chance on getting pregnant are very high.
im not sure if i should say congrats as well im not sure what you want.
but i would say if you dont want a child now? go get an emergnecy con... (read in full...)
Baby in June and we need some names!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having a baby in June and we need some good names for it . I all ready thought of the names Patrick after Patrick Swayze or Morticia after Morticia Addams . But we can't decide. ...
A. 13 February 2011: your perfectly right OP it sounds as if you really already have your mind made up, with a boys name or girls. dont let other people sway you, this is your child and you two may namme it as you please. we mearly were offerng names to help you as i... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't want me to have the baby.
Q. I'm 4 months pregnant my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion and I don't want to. Me and him have been fighting over it every night. When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy but now he doesn't want it. He said when his child is born he...
A. 13 February 2011: in my book, someone who is scared does not threaten to kill their unborn child? i what country does it make it right to say such things to a pregnant women? you can try to talk to him, but if he does not relent then the safest thing you can do for ... (read in full...)
Baby in June and we need some names!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having a baby in June and we need some good names for it . I all ready thought of the names Patrick after Patrick Swayze or Morticia after Morticia Addams . But we can't decide. ...
A. 12 February 2011: hmm i have always loved the old traditional names that are intersting, the new modern names can end uo being quiye boring when your child goes to school and fins there are 101 kids named josh and jessika. so think of something special and unique. i ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my boyfriend won't stop talking to other women!
Q. Right now, I am 7 months pregnant by my boyfriend and we've been together for 2 yrs. My problem is that we made an argreement that we would both stop talking to other men and women. I've held my end of the deal, but I see that he is having a hard ...
A. 12 February 2011: i think the answers of this question depend on the nature of how he "talks" to these women. if he talks to them naturally and causally then what on earth do you have to worry about? its an amiable agreeable character for a man to talk to other women ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't want me to have the baby.
Q. I'm 4 months pregnant my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion and I don't want to. Me and him have been fighting over it every night. When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy but now he doesn't want it. He said when his child is born he...
A. 12 February 2011: i really think its time to get ou of this relationship! im scared for you and i think evreryone who reads this would be! this is a serious thing for him to say to you and should not be taken as a joke.
you need to get out of this now! move your... (read in full...)
Lonely on valentines day
Q. i am 13-15 and ive been singled for a year and only had one boyfriend. im not the prettiest girl around but not that ugly either. valentines day is coming up and i need a boyfriend. how do i find the guy right for me. help. thanks...
A. 12 February 2011: hey,
valentines day means differnt things to differnt people so some people think it is very important and some dont.
you say you need a boyfriend? the best way to get a boyfriend funny enough is dont send out the image of needing one. when the... (read in full...)
Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?
Q. There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...
A. 11 February 2011: ok im going to agree with mrs lion here, i know she is to young and she knows that to, but lets be reasonble here she wants advice and not a whole lot of letters screaming at her about how young she is..
so first things first time to get chec... (read in full...)
My friend thinks she'll get a diamond for valentines, and is rubbing it in my face!
Q. i knew my best friend about 6 years now and she always talks about herself, her wedding, her clothes and what she always gets. she knows that i wouldnt want to have a wedding in the future for personal reasons however i think she always rubs ...
A. 11 February 2011: i think she is very very excited about this and that us why she wants to share everything of it with you.
i dont think she is doing this to get in your face to show off how much she has, just try hang in there and wait till it has passed whch it w... (read in full...)
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