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Rose22
writes:This is an article about sex. Some people shudder at the word and other are a little too excited when they hear it. This is for both.On this site you get a lot of people asking if they are ready to have sex. well, in my opinion, if you have to ask, you're not ready. That doesn't mean that one day it will hit you, smack in the face like a ton of bricks, that you are ready. It will just be something that evolves slowly when you are in a relationship. some people have sex outside of relationships and that's up to them. some people have sex when they are 13, some when they are 30. The point is you have to be ready. now for another point, sex is an important part of a loving relationship....This is the part where lots of different people will argue with me . sex my friends is a natural part of life. whether you believe it or not, it is a part of peoples' lives that they want to need. Notice i said, want to need. well i say this because i know heaps of people argue saying that relationships don't need sex, and no, you augmentative people, they don't NEED sex but they do want it. In order to feel connected in a intimate way sex is a important in a relationship. A relationship wants it. At a point it will be used for pleasure or procreation. Or well in most cases, both.You are born, the product of sex. The product of a two people, your parents. As you grow, you form, you learn. you become who you will be. As you get older, you become curious about things like how you were made, what you were made with and why. Thats the day when your parents stop telling you that you floated into their arms from baby land and tell you about sex. from then on you are introduced to that complicated life of sex and sexual desires and how to deal with them.15,16,17,18,19,20.... the ages of well rapid sex.. consumption. Unless you wait till marriage.At some point in your life you will be in a relationship(or not) and you will have sex. You decide when of course. when it happens it is an amazing thing that you have just shared with your bf/partner/ husband etc. you feel connected in ways you didn't imagine were possible. everything is perfect. now..okay if you are a women think of your relationship as another part of your man. If you're a man think of it as another part of your women. A relationship needs love, caring, honesty and connection in order to work. just like a person does. when you decide to completely cut sex from your lives you are cutting out one of the most important means to feel bonded and cared for.sex is natural, people. It shouldn't be frowned against. It shouldn't be cut from peoples lives. Your relationship wants it in order to function right! Think of sex as the oxygen to your lungs. without it they wouldn't work. okay you dedicated celibates, I hear you mentally cursing me right now and you know what? Just because you have hidden your sexual desires doesn't mean they are not there.I'm not saying go jump on the next person you see in order to get relationship and make it work. I'm saying sex is PART of the working relationship. It's like saying two parts makes a whole, well lots of parts make a working relationship. scenario: lets say in nature you were a lion or lioness and you got together with another lion or lioness (yes lions and animals can have rewarding relationships too.) And you have been together for a while.. and the lioness or male lion decide to not have sex.. well i can tell you that you don't find animal celibates. you either have sex or you don't have a partner. The bloodhound gang had it right when they sung, "you and me baby, aren't nothing but mammals, so lets do it like they do it on the discovery channel" Unleash your inner lion, and have sex. It will be a rewarding experience with a loved one and well important for the rest of your relationship.so to sum things up, sex is important. Good sex is important I might add ( rapists out there, stop raping people and learn to have a rewarding relationship! rape is not good sex) so next time someone tells you that you don't need sex tell them " you and me baby aren't nothing but mammals"Goodbye, happy sexing .redrosePlease feel free to comment. or argue. what ever takes your fancy at the time.remember..Anybody who believes that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach flunked geography. ~Robert Byrne, quoted in 1,911 Best Things Anybody Ever Said, 1988Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami XLife without sex might be safer but it would be unbearably dull. It is the sex instinct which makes women seem beautiful, which they are once in a blue moon, and men seem wise and brave, which they never are at all. Throttle it, denaturalize it, take it away, and human existence would be reduced to the prosaic, laborious, boresome, imbecile level of life in an anthill. ~Henry Louis Mencken"women need to feel loved to have sex and men need to have sex to feel loved, we are on a bloody collision course from the beginning!!" billy conally.
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reader, mejia11  +, writes (13 March 2011):
i don't care. im not stuborn abot losing my virginity, as long as i want to he wants to and he has protection its fine with me
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reader, scotty1963  +, writes (2 March 2011):
i think sex in a relationship is very important as it shows someone how you feel about them but in my opinion i think you should not rush into it you need to get to know the person your with if they think a lot about you they will wait until you feel you need to have sex. sex is very special and makes you feel so nice about the person your with
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