Circumcision issues.
Q. I love my penis in every way, except that I wish that I still had a foreskin.. Unfortunately I was circumcised at a young age (4), partly because of cultural reasons and partly because I had a tight foreskin which made it difficult to retract all ...
A. 21 April 2009: You need to work out your feelings of betrayal and loss and you can do it on your own,in a group of other circumcised men or people dealing with loss of body parts and you could also see a therapist.Most 4 year old boys have an unretactable foreskin ... (read in full...)
I can't make my g/f cum
Q. Im a lesbian, and i have pleasured many women in the past and made them all come..but recently i have a new girlfriend, and she has never managed to come with guys before because she fancied women, but now she is with me.. i still cannot make her ...
A. 21 April 2009: If you search for sexual tips online you will find many,but it sounds to me like your girlfriend is young and insecure about sex and her body.She needs to experiment alone and learn how to please herself first and maybe she should see a therapist to ... (read in full...)
I have spots on my penis!
Q. Hello, I'm 15, I'm a virgin and I have these spots on my penis where they were only at the bottom but now all over. They are the same colour as my normal skin. I don't think they are genital warts. They aren't huge. But I haven't had sex yet so I ...
A. 21 February 2009: They are probably pearly penile papules or Fordyce's Spots and are totally harmless and most men have them.... (read in full...)
Will I lose weight on this diet?
Q. I have started a new diet where I eat nothing the except food supplements 'echinacea' and exercise 3 hours a day on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour. I have been on it for two days now and feel fine though I was just wondering whether this would lose ...
A. 21 February 2009: You need to eat at least 1000 calories a day to survive and have enough energy.You also need to drink extra water to replace all that you sweat out while on the treadmill.The diet you are on is dangerous and will lead to you starving to death or at ... (read in full...)
I would love to find a stay at home career/business.
Q. I have a question that I hope there is someone who can help me with...it's more of a career dilemma than a love... I met a wonderful man on a dating website last year. I live in Arizona (USA) and He lives in Maine (USA) For those of you who are not ...
A. 20 February 2009: Can you make crafts or clothing?You could sell them on etsy or ebay.Or you could start a mini farm growing plants/vegetables/flowers in the summer and in a greenhouse and sell them to florists and at the local farmers market,also you could raise ... (read in full...)
How did you know your significant other was THE one?
Q. Hi, I'm wondering if anyone would like to share their story of when they found the person they wanted to spend the rest of their life with? How did you know? (whether you are still with that person or not it doesn't matter) I was talking t...
A. 20 February 2009: I knew from the moment I saw her.As I learned more about her the more I felt she was the one.I loved her first and then found out she was perfect.... (read in full...)
Should I get the HPV vaccine?
Q. Hi, Should I get the HPV vaccine? I'm 15 and have never slept with a guy. I probably won't do so till I'm in my twenties, so is it worth getting the HPV vaccine now? Should I get it even if I won't have sex for the next 4 years? (The HPV vaccine ...
A. 4 February 2009: HPV also causes penile,anal,skin and oral cancers and can be passed by skin to skin contact without intercorse.It is important for girls/women and boys/men to get vaccinated and if you get it you are protecting yourself and any future partners.... (read in full...)
Does chewing gum make your teeth yellow?
Q. I know this isn't a relationship or love question but I thought I could get some accurate responses on here. So when you chew gum does it make your teeth yellow? Because I just can't seem to keep my teeth white. I whiten them every once and a while ...
A. 4 February 2009: Actually,chewing gum cleans your teeth,helps prevent cavities and strengthens your jaw,I do not know if the gum you asked about works.... (read in full...)
I cannot sleep most days because of the guilt I carry
Q. I am engaged to be married and both of us have been in love for a few years now. when i first met him, he was very broad minded about things, it was only after he fell in love with me that his thinking changed and he had to accept that he was old ...
A. 3 February 2009: I wouldn't worry about your past feelings for someone.You love your husband now and as long as you love him and not someone else,past loves don't matter.... (read in full...)
What to do about my unemployed Prince Charming? I honestly think guys that can take care of themselves and their woman are sexy! How can I encourage him to get a job??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now and it's been going pretty good so far...well, sort of. He's smart, funny, attentive, compassionate, caring, and great in bed. The only thing is he doesn't have a job! When I met him he ...
A. 3 February 2009: It sounds like jobs are hard to come by in his field.Maybe he should try for a job in another state.You guys could also start/buy a business together or buy an apartment building and live in one of the units and rent the rest out.He could be ... (read in full...)
What do you think about this dare? I am upset!
Q. Theres this guy in my school who i really really like. Lets call him Mark*. He's really friendly, nice and has a very warm personality. I think he likes me too because he hugs me for no reasons, compliments me, always stares at me and one time he ...
A. 31 January 2009: I wouldn't worry about it.I doubt that someone is daring him to hug you everyday.And if you're worried that he tried to put his hand down his friends trousers and kiss him it was probably just a gag or the rumor isn't even true.But if it is true he ... (read in full...)
I cream my pants randomly!
Q. Okay, so I cream my pants randomly for no reason and often. The thing is I'm getting sick of it having to wear long shirts and I'm terribly worried and too embarrassed to ask my mom. So is it normal?...
A. 31 January 2009: Yes,it is normal and it just means you are healthy.It will slow down as you get older but you will probably have it from time to time all of your life.... (read in full...)
Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?
Q. Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...
A. 31 January 2009: I would call them "normal" because all of the women I know are married to or dating older men.... (read in full...)
My virginity... or lack of!
Q. I'm not a virgin and now I'm getting married. Is it possible that my husband would come to know that I'm not a virgin and moreover can it is possible to know all that through a DNA test?...
A. 30 January 2009: How has it gotten to the point where you are getting married without telling him already? Did he just assume you are a virgin,or did you tell him you are?Either way you need to tell him before you get married.... (read in full...)
He says he's a virgin, but I don't think I believe him
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend now for almost six months, and he claims to still be a virgin. I don't know whether I can fully believe him or not because he has told me in the past that he has had sex before, but then one day he tells me that was...
A. 29 January 2009: At his age a lot of men will lie about having sex to impress their friends.He is probably telling you the truth because he trusts you.... (read in full...)
Sexy calendar good? Or cheesy idea?
Q. Hey all! I am just looking for some male opinions here. My boyfriend is in Iraq right now, unfortunately. While over there he is not allowed to have any pornography. For a Valentine's Day gift I decided to create a whole calendar for him with ...
A. 29 January 2009: I would like it.It will make him feel more secure about his relationship with you.And it will take his mind off the war and all of that sand.... (read in full...)
How do I have my fun with other guys and make sure he waits?
Q. I went out with this one guy (let's call him X) for two years. Broke up for the second and final time almost two months ago. First time is a bit controversial, so we won't get into that. Anyway, the first month getting over him was crap...I was ...
A. 29 January 2009: I don't think you should expect him to wait for you while you date other people.And he probably won't,so date him and the other guys but be prepared to lose him if he finds someone he wants to commit to.... (read in full...)
I can't believe him, did he ever care about me?
Q. My boyfriend of almost two years cheated on me. The sad thing is I had a feeling he was cheating on me. I kept asking him did he still want to be in the relationship and he would always say yes I am in love with you. I would ask is there someone ...
A. 28 January 2009: I'm sorry this happened to you.At first it sounds like he doesn't care but if he was crying he must care at least a little.But not enough to be with just one of you.I don't see how you ruined anything,he did.If you talk to him again tell him losing ... (read in full...)
How do I, a man, lose my virginity?
Q. i am a virgin and i need to look a girl to have sex but i don't know how to ask. ...
A. 28 January 2009: You should start talking to the girls that you like about anything and decide which you like best.When you find the one you like ask her to go on a date with you.If you guys become a couple you will eventually have sex together.If you do not become ... (read in full...)
Its been 4 months and I still think of him every day
Q. Okay, this is my first post on this site! I really need some advice though. In about June last year, i started seeing this guy exclusively, we weren't officially "going out" but i think that's because he's 2 years older than me (i'm 15, he's 17) and ...
A. 26 January 2009: The way you feel will eventually change and you can find someone new.Or tell him how you really feel and see what happens.What if he doesn't feel the same as you?Find someone that does and have a relationship with them.... (read in full...)
Should I end this FWB relationship or tell him I want more?
Q. I am currently in a "friends with benefits" situation. I'm going thru a divorce and he just got out of a serious relationship. On one hand, I am content with our relationship being casual...I don't want to rush into a full blown relationship just ...
A. 26 January 2009: Why not tell him you want more and if he doesn't then break up?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a very tight foreskin, how can I make oral sex better for him?
Q. My new boyfriend (36) suffers phimosis, he says he's been told that circumcision might help but that it also might cause more problems, like difficulty healing, a lot of pain and that it might not help the discomfort after it does heal. I gave him ...
A. 26 January 2009: He can stretch the skin and use topical steroids.Doing this will make the skin grow and widen his foreskin.The topical steroids are clobetasol or Betamethasone and exercises or devices can be used for the stretching.You can even help him with the ... (read in full...)
Guys: Is the first thing you notice about a girl REALLY the size of her chest?
Q. So, I'm in high school, and I've come to notice a trend in guys' behavior. (well the ones I'm around at least) They always stare at your chest. There's one guy, when asked if he knew me, said, "Oh yeah, she has really big boobs." Swear to God. My ...
A. 26 January 2009: I think guys in your age group notice a girls face first,but saying to your friends "she has a really pretty face" would be considered "wimpy" and his friends would probably laugh at him.It's just a problem with how men are viewed in this macho ... (read in full...)
Can my best friend and I be dating?
Q. dear cupid, Can my best friend and I be dating? We recently became best friends because she ask me to. shes about 15 and im almost 16 year old. she has been dumped by her bf like last week, and she confuse about her feelings. So she tell me abou...
A. 24 January 2009: Tell her how you feel and if she says no forget about dating and stay friends anyway.... (read in full...)
Low rating on dear cupid?
Q. Why do I have such a low rating on dearcupid? Do I have trolls? haters? Just wondering if anyone can spill me in. I'm new here and I do give brutally honest answers but that's because english wasn't my first language and so sometimes my eng...
A. 24 January 2009: No idea.Maybe they don't understand your answers?... (read in full...)
He said he 'might' want to sleept with other women. Am I over-reacting?
Q. I have been in a long term relationship and just recently got married. Through out our entire relationship we've always had problems with the way he acts around other girls. He's a big flirt and recently it's become a big problem because it's been ...
A. 24 January 2009: Tell him that when he flirts with other women it hurts you.Accept his apology about what he said and try to talk more so you know what is going on with him.... (read in full...)
How can he say that he loves me and then let me down so bad?
Q. I am new to this so please bear with me. My problem is i was going out with a man for a few months and we have just broke up and i am heartbroken. I have known this man for 20 years or so we dated a bit when we were younger. We meet again last ...
A. 24 January 2009: I think he is probably telling the truth.Maybe things will get better and you guys can work it out.But if they don't you need to move on and find someone new.... (read in full...)
INSANELY attracted to hot neighbor
Q. I'm a 17 yr old female and have this damn fine neighbor (about to be 18) who I've been hot for the moment I first saw him almost 4 years ago. I've never tried to make a move on him because though I have pretty high self esteem, this guy is just so ...
A. 24 January 2009: Why not date both and then decide which to be with?... (read in full...)
I need help with finding solutions for my deformed glans.
Q. I have a deformed glans and it is bothering me.Because of my shorter misplaced frenulum(on the left side) and much masturbation,the glans is deformed,the left side is deformed.I can see the difference and is making my urine and ejaculate come out ...
A. 23 January 2009: A reconstructive urologist is what you need.These links should help you
http://www.srsmiami.com/
http://www.psurg.com/phalloplasty_surgery.htm
... (read in full...)
First time sex for girls hurts, but how does it effect the guys?
Q. This may sound a little silly, but it is something that just makes me wonder. Basically we all know that first time sex hurts for us girls and can make us feel alittle un well after. but how does first time sex effect guys? do they have any wier...
A. 22 January 2009: I didn't even think of circumcision,but that would be another painful sexual thing for a man to go through.About 96% of boys have adhesions and if they don't go away by puberty they should probably be released by a doctor which would also be ... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 21 January 2009: How about at church?Or a dating site like this one?
http://www.celibatemate.com/... (read in full...)
First time sex for girls hurts, but how does it effect the guys?
Q. This may sound a little silly, but it is something that just makes me wonder. Basically we all know that first time sex hurts for us girls and can make us feel alittle un well after. but how does first time sex effect guys? do they have any wier...
A. 21 January 2009: When a boy is born his foreskin is attached to the glans or head of the penis like a fingernail on a finger which gradually release through his life and are usually gone by puberty,but some can still exist.If he still has adhesions between his ... (read in full...)
Can I get my penis straightened?
Q. Dear All, I am 27 Yrs Male Unmarried.I have a Bent Penis ( Penis facing towards ground ) . Till now i have been wit my GF but havent had real intercourse ...we were happy with foreplay and toung tricks. But now we are planing for a real sex .... ...
A. 20 January 2009: It sounds like you are fine and it is just a normal bend and nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
Wants to do two--neither to know
Q. This is the situation: a woman is in love with two men, and she wants to sleep with each of them, just one time, without the other knowing, but at the same time not wanting to come across as being a slut. How could she approach this relationsh...
A. 20 January 2009: Have a relationship with each.Be with the first man long enough to break up and then have a relationship with the other man.... (read in full...)
How can I stop these negative thoughts and just be happy?
Q. I keep feeling a bit depressed.. my bf and I have been together nearly 2 years, I love him and I know how he feels about me but he seems to treat me like one of his mates rather than a gf. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to be treated technically but ...
A. 10 January 2009: As soon as you start to think negativly think of something else or do something to keep your mind off of it and you will break the habit of negative thinking.... (read in full...)
My mother died and I am not mourning...
Q. I was not brought up by my white scottish mother. I was abandoned as a baby as she left me with my Jamaican father. I met my mother when I was about 30. We had 15 years but she lived 120 miles away so I did not see her often. From what she...
A. 10 January 2009: I think you are going through what someone in your position might go through.Your feelings might change as time goes by.Whatever you feel is normal for you.... (read in full...)
They call me fat, will I ever have a boyfriend?
Q. just wana ask if a girl that is fat..., well they call me chubby, flat nose, w/ big legs...can possibly have a chance to have a boyfriend?...
A. 10 January 2009: Yes.My guess is that someone already likes you.Just look around and you might notice them looking at you.... (read in full...)
Can I get my penis straightened?
Q. Dear All, I am 27 Yrs Male Unmarried.I have a Bent Penis ( Penis facing towards ground ) . Till now i have been wit my GF but havent had real intercourse ...we were happy with foreplay and toung tricks. But now we are planing for a real sex .... ...
A. 9 January 2009: If it doesn't interfere with intercourse and is not painful it is probably fine.You might have what is called Chordee.Or maybe Peyronie's disease which is not a disease but caused from scarring.Either can be fixed with surgery.If you want to have it ... (read in full...)
18 in love with a 40 year old man
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an 18 year old and I am in love with a 40 year old man. He doesn't know. I can't help it but everytime I see him or talk with him, I just want to be in his arms. I feel like there is no care in the world when I am around him. ...
A. 9 January 2009: Have you heard the expression "all is fair in love and war"?If you love him that is all that matters.... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out because he's too shy and all??
Q. I'm usually a confident borderling over confident lass. However, I have very deep rooted morals that somewhat are the major cause to this matter. Additionally being a girl, I do tend to prefer the whole "i'm laid back so i'll wait for you to ask me ...
A. 9 January 2009: Go for it.... (read in full...)
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