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I treat people the way Id like to be treated, why wouldnt guys like me?
I think I can help others as I am good at advice (most of the time).
When I tell people advice, I can sometimes feel so good from the results.
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He contacts me after a year -- what's going through his head?
Q. Hey so I met this great guy just about a year ago at a summer music intensive. We got along well and I found him extremely attractive. A lot of us exchanged numbers at the end of the camp so it wasn't very meaningful that I ended up with his phone ...
A. 26 August 2013: This could mean a few differnt things... xxx
Hes just reaised hes made a mistake and now hes coming back, He just wants sex or maybe hes just changed x
but overall its banging out of order that it took him so long to contact you if its one of t... (read in full...)
I will see my crush one last time in a few weeks. I want to know if he as any feelings for me, but I fear rejection. What should I do???
Q. I'm in a bit of a dilemma right now. I have been in love with this guy for about half a year now and I will probably never get to be with him because he is going to uni this year and after that, our paths may never cross again. I'm only going to ...
A. 11 June 2012: I generaly think its a bad idea hunni xxx because like you said you'll never see him again and If you pour out (like I have done before)you get disappointed because no matter how many cycles you turn or tweaks you pulled to make something to happen ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to put my life on hold for a while is that right of him to ask?
Q. A couple of weeks ago I got a call from a former navy recruiter, and he told me of a new opportunity that would let me enlist in the military, but it is only valid for the next two months. I was very happy about it since i have been wanting to do ...
A. 14 February 2012: HOW AWFULL !
HES BEING SELFISH!
He should let you follow youre dreams just once if he loves you, and thatd make him feel good if hes done that if hes worthy xxxxx
Im sorry hunni x but ive been so pushed about by guys like that x from today t... (read in full...)
Its been 6 months and I'm still not over my 1st boyfriend
Q. Hi :) In December of 2010, the boy I liked asked me out. He wasn't my first boyfriend but he was in a way. My first boyfriend was in 5th grade and we dated for 5 hours. My second boyfriend was also in 5th grade but we only dated for 2 days. And my 3...
A. 14 February 2012: The feeliung is awfull !!!!
i know!
It does neally almost go but theres like a 5 percent that he or she will stay with you and it haumts you x but youve just got to pretend everything is okay and get out there again... x As horrible as it sound... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or maybe thinking of cheating?
Q. Hi Guys, Just wondering what the signs of cheating or possibly cheating with someone might be. My boyfriend and I live together and are very happy, however I recieved a text one night when he was drunk at a BBQ to pick him up so I set off for ...
A. 3 May 2011: I know how you feel. I really do. Ive gone through so much pain about the same thing from the last few years. Guys our age are like babies... they dont know what they want 24/7. especially when theyre drunkj.... x It makes them a differnt person. ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to ask her out when I'm so shy?
Q. I'm too shy to ask a girl on a date, I'm not really scared of her saying no I'm just too shy to ask her but I really want to be with her. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to be able to pluck up the courage to ask her and I don't really want to ...
A. 18 April 2011: simply text her.
Start saying how are you okay???" blablabla
Then offer to take her to a museum or something so youre nurves aint so bad when you take her out.
texting is genuis lol xxxx ask me for another question if you wish... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to tell anybody I am a lesbian
Q. Over the last few years i have been atractted but now i have make up my mind that am a lesbian i know people say how can a 15 year old say she is a lesbian but i have totally no intrest in boys what so ever. The problem is that am too scared t...
A. 11 April 2010: you should be scared x
Obviously its pretty personal but men will find you very intresting x
only tell people that are very close to you and you defintly make sure that they are trustworthy x
Go to gay clubs or really try hard to find a gi... (read in full...)
I want to know how people feel about dating your cousin's cousin.
Q. Hello I'm a fourteen year old girl and I want to know how people feel about dating your cousins cousin. I'm currently dating my moms sisters husbands brothers son and I'm really starting to fall for him. I know there's no blood relation but is it ...
A. 25 October 2009: Not at all! I had the same problem! my cousin's wife's cousin...... differnt rythum huh.. lol But neveer noticed me. ive been with my boyfriend for nealy two years so i moved on reall quickly.
Theres no poblem at all.
If anyone hs a problem,... (read in full...)
When should I break up with him, and how do I do it in the nicest way possible?
Q. Hey - please can you help me! I'm 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 5 (nearly 6) months. Recently I've been thinking about breaking up with him - I just don't have the same feelings for him anymore and there are lots of things that he d...
A. 8 April 2009: after the meal is a very gd idea. hell just think your doing it for attention.... have you tried to talk about him about how you feel? does he know how you feel? Maybe you should talk to him first because you never know. boys need to know when... (read in full...)
How to get into a reltionship with him?
Q. There's this guy. Ive been cinema with him before. We hardly see each other in real life because i rarely often bump into him at the bus stop. But we regularly speak online and texting. And hes normally fine and flirty. I really don't know were ...
A. 6 April 2009: it might be confusing you. its irratating when relationships get like that.
have a word with him about it. face to face.
just say "do you want to go to the next level" or "where do you think we are? do you connect well with me?"
"do you w... (read in full...)
Why do I care that my ex has someone else when he was so horrible to me when we were together?
Q. I have a simple problem, one that I pretty much buried myself in and that even typing seems child-ish, but I can't help the way that I feel. I dated a boy for almost 2 years before we broke up because he had gotten out of hand (ie. yelling at ...
A. 31 March 2009: ahhhh....
im sorry about that.
this is just a challenge for your self... tougthening up. he treated you like crap, dont run back to people like that. ive gone thugh and neally did it recently but my man isnt that much of shit as yours was. Men... (read in full...)
What do "1st base", "2nd base" and "3rd base" mean???
Q. something i have always wondered, and never known the answer to, is when people talk about "1st base, 2nd base" etc?! you know when someone says "we went to 2nd base" .. what exactly IS 2nd base? iv always wondered, so if anyone wants to fill me...
A. 29 March 2009: 1t base means a few dates
2nd base means sex
3rd base means oving in
4th means propsals and getting married
its american. we dont use that stuff in my country. but i do know whast it means. and if your just 13, stay on 1st base for a few y... (read in full...)
I trusted him then but I don't now.
Q. I just got in a relationship in jan.. he went away to go to college in early feb so i was thinking to my self should i stay in this relationship.... i also asked him did he want to stay in this relationship and he kind of got mad saying his is on h...
A. 29 March 2009: i understand. i have huge problems with trust. sometimes i dnt even trust anyone since ive had bad experiences.
i think you shoud give it a try for another couple months, just in case u do end up trusting him completley. But if it looks a but piic... (read in full...)
Is it possible I am pregnant? HELP
Q. im on the contriceptive pill and im 16 but on friday two days ago i had unprotected sex, and i have not been taking my pill since wednesday because im due to come on my period and suppose to be taking it again on thursday, but i still haven't come ...
A. 22 March 2009: it is a sticky situatuon
id get a test, just to be on the safe side. who knows. maybe its just your hourmones. But i really do recommend that if you dont come on next time, get a test.
I hope this has helped hunnx ... (read in full...)
Best friend troubles...
Q. Ok, I am like 14 years old right, I have a new boyfriend we have been together for a few days now. The day after he asked me out I told my friend (which is a guy) that I had a new bf and he started crying and doesn't want to talk to me any more. I ...
A. 29 January 2009: he will evantually move on. then your friendship will fall back together in the most unusall ways. but you dont care how it goes back together, just aslong you have your best friend back.
You never know, if you and your bf break up, he'll be more... (read in full...)
I need help spicing the love back up between me and by boy friend.
Q. I need help spicing the love back up between me and by boy friend. We have been togeather for about 2 years and 4 months which were great til oct 08. He had to move bout 45 min away and its hard to see each other. He doesnt like the distance and hes ...
A. 29 January 2009: when your round his, just keep smileing.Hopefully, this'll make him smile. If he wants to talk about it then go along.
have u tried giving him a lil sexy surprise since. a smal part of him being missrable could be sexually cranky. ... (read in full...)
Is he taking things too far with his "interest" in his band?
Q. My boyfriend is a band teacher. I love him with all of my heart but he ALWAYS talks about his students and how much he loves them. There is this one girl, she's a freshman in high school. He always says "She's so awesome!" he has pictures of her and ...
A. 23 November 2008: I know, that must be really annoying. Tell him you don't feel comfortable with it and ask him why he does it and if he has a go or stutters about it, you've got to be careful. If he keeps doing it, really have a go to make him think you're b... (read in full...)
She likes me more than she likes her boyfriend but won't leave him, how to win her over?
Q. i really like this girl, and she really likes me. but she is going out with this guy and he treats her like crap. and then she gets p.o. and the next day she forgets about it. He also ditches her for weed. any advice? anything i can do? i want to ...
A. 4 November 2008: this is very painful. i know. ive had this in the past x she must like you if she cheated on him for you. because, if she forgets that her boyfriend treats her like crap, she must really love him. you have to tell her how u feel. no matter ... (read in full...)
Is she masterbating instead of wanting sex with me?
Q. Hi i hav a girlfriend and we had sex once,but now she does not want to sex with me any more so does this means she is masturbating? because she use to phone me at night and sounding like she fingering her self saying naugthy things ,so this really ...
A. 3 November 2008: acully Ive called my boyfriend doing this to try and turn him on. lol. maybe shes doing that to turn you on or get your attention maybe.... (read in full...)
How important are your school friends / your popularity at school?
Q. I am 15 at the moment. How important are your school friends/ your popularity at school? I have lots of friends at school and am sort of friends with everyone, yet I don't seem to really fit in anywhere? I am never inivited to particular gro...
A. 30 August 2008: i know what this is like
i was just like that. exept i had crap about me being fat. lol x
its a good thing if u stay urself sand blend in with anyone
in a while, ull find out who ur real friends are. they'll allways be there for you. then ul... (read in full...)
Is he cheating? Or what?
Q. me and boyfriend have been together for about a year! things were great for about 6 months and now things are changing. he doesnt come to see me anymore even though im a 6 minute drive away. i ask him if i can go to his and he just says no and to l...
A. 30 August 2008: i know how u feel
it sometimes sucks
you want to be with him more and maybe he isnt getting the message
maybe hes got so,mething huge on his mind
but men dont let out their concerns. they prefer to give it to the gym and a punch bag.
kee... (read in full...)
Periods and Pregnancies
Q. i am just wondering, so please dont judge me or anything but; this might sound very stupid, but, is it possible to be pregnant and still get your regular periods? it would be really helpful for advice back. thankyou x...
A. 9 August 2008: well sweetie, from my point of view.... no x x... (read in full...)
My husband caught me cheating for the third time. I can't help it. Would I be better "swinging" or with an open relationship?
Q. my husband has caught me cheating for the third time. i really love my husband but i cheat regularly. often an attractive man hits on me and i just can't resist and i am in bed with him. i explained this to my husband and i told him that i ...
A. 8 July 2008: I think swiging is a good idea because your doing things and u can trust each other at the same time. encourage him to do it with you .
hope this has helped ... (read in full...)
Would having oral sex mean I would be losing my vriginty?
Q. my boyfriend and i want to have oral sex.but i don't want to lose my virginity. so my question is can i lose my virginity if i have oral sex?...
A. 26 June 2008: no x 7
your just having pleasure with your mouths x... (read in full...)
I've tried so hard to get him to like me but he doesn't seem interested!
Q. I really love this kid in my class. He's just so wonderful. I've tried so hard to get him to like me, but he just doesn't seem interested. Some of my friends think he does actually like me and that he's just shy...but I don't even know anymore. It's ...
A. 23 June 2008: I know how you feel sweetie dont you dare think that becuase ive felt like that before and its probly one of the most hugest mistakes ive ever made. Just be mates with him for a while and if u have been mates with him for a while, try and t... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain this dream?
Q. Right well i had this dream about this boy i like it went like me and him were going out togther and i was famous and i was walking and i saw he had sighed somthing saying i was fake then i was in the toliet then i came out and he was holding a cake ...
A. 15 June 2008: Ive had absolutley plenty of them to keep me occupied for the rest of my life ! lol x
it doesnt mean anything. maybe u was thinking of him beofre u went to sleep or something.
Some times, i think dreams like that is trying to tell you somethin... (read in full...)
I think part of the problem is that she doesn't realize that I'm in love with her, or why
Q. My girlfriend seems to have control of the relationship. Lately I've been impatiently waiting on her to call, and anxious all day until that point, while on the other hand, she seems fine without talking as often as we used to. I feel like we're ...
A. 7 May 2008: I get the anxious all day thing all the time. She probly think u dnt love her cuz she also feels youre drifting apart. Its a pretty ugly feeling. especially when its a long distance. Youve got to try and spend more time together. or maybe this ... (read in full...)
He used a condom but I'm panicking in case I'm pregnant!!!
Q. Hi. I'm seventeen, nearly eighteen and my boyfriend and I just started having sex about three weeks ago (it was my first time). I am not on the pill, but he has been using condoms (100% properly). I was worried about pregnancy so on February 29th I ...
A. 5 March 2008: hey.
Theres not much to worry aabout. Periods are irregular all the time. As long as you stay safe and regualy taking tests., You will be okay.
Honey sweet.
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Can you give a 15 years old advice on safe foreplay?
Q. OK im 15 and i know i'm not ready for sex. I am not stupid and am so scared about pregnancy. So i am going to wait a year but i want to do 'everything else' if you know what i mean. I have done some things but i just hate the fact that once you have ...
A. 4 March 2008: well.
I think it is legal.
use flavoured condoms though.
just keep it secret in a clear, empty space with him
I hope this helps
Honey... (read in full...)
Should I go for it or let it go as it seems to be slowing down???
Q. Last weekend, I got the chance to get to know a really great girl. She had a gf of ten months when we met. She told me she has cheated once before and about her past relationships. I slept over and in the same bed as her. We definitely flirted ...
A. 2 March 2008: You must tell her and give her attention. Dont let this go because it dies down a little. Tell her you want to be with her more etc. OPEN UP x Hope this is good advice x x Honey... (read in full...)
How can I beat an obsession with my first love?
Q. Well, here's the deal. there's this kid. I met him in pre-k and he was, I guess you can say, my "first love," like you see in the movies. I even have a picture with him kissing me in pre-k. then, last year, in my middle school, I found out he went ...
A. 2 March 2008: I hate it when something like that happens! Firstly, be happy for him as a friend too. If anything between them happens like break up, you can tell him there. If you tell him in private, even if he has a girlfriend, it makes you feel alot bett... (read in full...)
18 years old with a 5 month old daughter, could I be pregnant AGAIN??
Q. hey, i have a qestion. So, i'm 18 years old and i have a 5 month old daughter. I'm worried i may be pregnant again!! I was on birth control at one point but I dont remember when. I stopped it because I just kept forgetting to take it so I did...
A. 2 March 2008: well, it can be possible that you are. You have to take the test morew than once becuase it is possible that its incorrect. I hope this helps I think the guy must know about this too.... (read in full...)
No problems with confidence or appearance or... odor, but I can't seem to make myself talk to girls!
Q. As my name implies, I can't really talk to girls. It's kind of embarrassing, really. I can't talk to them unless I have a reason to, ya know? When we're working on school stuff or anything like that, I have no problem, but when it comes to ...
A. 2 March 2008: Well. This is tricky. Well ask a girl to hang out with, get to know what she likes, then do what she likes. She might get a small message through. Then, just tell her. Practice at a mirror. I heard its quite a good tequnique x I hope this helps... (read in full...)
We can never get close because her friends are always around... Help!!!
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I have a girlfriend. We are both really shy. We can't get close because her friends are always around her! help!!!...
A. 1 March 2008: It can be pretty annoying. Boys can be the same way sometimes. If it's possible ask them for a little privacy as polite as you can. You don't want to offend them or your girlfriend. If that doesn't work, wait until you and your girlfriend are o... (read in full...)
Back with my boyfriend but tempted by another guy.
Q. Ok so I kinda have a bit of a problem, I'm 16 by the way, my boyfriend is too. I have been with this guy 2 months we had a few arguements and went through a bit of a bad patch and broke up. In the time I was single I met an old friend from prim...
A. 1 March 2008: Its okay. I had something similar happening to me. Have a deep think about it. Which boy makes you feel HAPPIER? Which one can you imagine having a great time with? Either break your bf off and go woth the other. or stay with your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he enjoyed it?
Q. I gave my first handjob yesterday and I'm not sure if I pleased him or not, I honestly don't feel as if I did. He did bust and he was breathing heavy afterwards, but I'm still not sure. Does anyone know how to tell if he liked it or not without ...
A. 1 March 2008: Well, he would of been happy the fact that you did it. And I think it will be okay as it was your first time. I think you shouldnt think of those things and enjoy it with him. I think some men show themselves as sometimes, emotionnless. Th... (read in full...)
While away we grew close and I fell for him. But he has a gf...any advice?
Q. Theres this guy at my orchestra, and he is 16 im 15, and wev recently all been away together. Whilst we were away, me and this guy grew really close, and he flirted with me alot always hugging me, trailing me around, putting his arms round me etc. ...
A. 1 March 2008: Either the boy is taking advantage of you, or just just joking around. I know what its like to want someting so bad, but you cant have it. Especialy a guy. Either, wait for the relationship to end, or wait untill his bird aint around him and t... (read in full...)
My dad almost discovered a call girl's number in our phone bill and I also can't stop watching porn!...
Q. Dear Agony Aunts/Uncles, I am 12 years old, and I can't stop looking at hardcore porn, it just makes me feel so happy. I know I should stop, it's ruining my school and my life, I look at it at least twice a week and spend three hours roughly ...
A. 1 March 2008: Its normal for a guy near teenage years to be into porn. Your confused or intrested in the topic, its normal. Just cut down on the porn, allthough you are adicted. 12 is quite young to loose a viginity. Youve just got to wait for the right gi... (read in full...)
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