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writes: Hey all! I am just looking for some male opinions here. My boyfriend is in Iraq right now, unfortunately. While over there he is not allowed to have any pornography. For a Valentine's Day gift I decided to create a whole calendar for him with pictures of me in sexy lingerie, with the pictures themed for each month. Like, for April I am naked in the shower without being able to actually see anything naughty (April showers, get it? lol). And for September I am in a naughty school girl outfit because September is back-to-school month. December is Christmasy of course, lol. So, I am just wondering, if you were far apart from your girlfriend, and she sent you that as your Valentine's Day gift, would you like it? Or would you think it was cheesey? Thanks for reading guys!!-Jessie
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, sorry for answering my own question a bunch of times, lol, but thank you planepocket and especially Uncle Phil, for your answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso, I did a calendar rather than just plain old pictures of me not because I want him to hang it up, but because it was a cute idea and I had to come up with different themes for every month and it just turned out really cute and fun, and, I think, more interesting than just a bunch of sexy pictures thrown together, you know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is allowed to have Maxim-type stuff, which is why I said I will be in lingerie. I can't actually show anything or else he can't have it. So he is not going to get in trouble for this, people. Also, he kind of already knows he might be getting something sexy, so he knows better than to open it in front of everyone, and he sure as heck would never hang it up in front of everyone. This gift is meant for him and he may be proud of me, but he's not a pig and wouldn't go around showing it to everyone and their mom. That being said, I don't really care who sees me half naked. Somebody had to take those pictures for me, after all, lol. Anyways, my point is, no, he is not going to get into trouble, it doesn't break any rules, and he is not going to go showing it to everyone, but even if he did, I wouldn't really care. So, good idea? Or bad idea? Thanks for reading, guys!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 I think it's cute. BUT don't forget that he lives with a BUNCH of guys who don't "get any" and he can't really hang it up unless he allows others to look at it. So I guess it comes down to you. Do you want his fellow soldiers to see those photos? Do you think he would want them too?
If the answer is no then save it for his homecoming.
You could make it a small photo album for him so he can dig it out when ever he wants.
I don't find it cheesy at all.
I made hubby a "photo album" for "his eyes only" and I know he enjoyed it a lot during his deployment.
You could ask him what he thinks with out telling him he's getting one, feel him out so to speak.
Good luck!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Are they naughty or nude? As others said, he might not be the only one who gets to see it. So consider for each picture wether you would mind EVERYONE in the ENTIRE world one day seeing them. That includes your great-grandchilderen and your dad.
As long as you can live with the fact others might see those images, then it is a nice idea. And if they are not actual nudity there won't be problems either. It is the army, not church.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): It's a great idea.
It couldn't be classed as porn if there were no 'pink shots' or 'hairy grins'.
If he were to put it on public display the other lads would certainly have a good look at it, but the chances are he'd be stood next to it with a proud smile on his face that said "She's mine!". If he didn't want anyone else to see it he could keep it in his locker if he has one.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (29 January 2009):
Arent calendars made to hang up on our wall? Do you really want your photos like that for everyone to see?
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (29 January 2009):
 I think that it is a fabulous idea but as someone else suggested, it may well be tastefully done and he may well apreciate getting it, but does he want to put up a calendar where by all of his regiment get to see his girl half naked? Those things should be for his eyes only and while im sure his eyes would appreciate the sentiment, it might make him feel even further away from you etc. Perhaps you could write him a letter, every month with a tasteful picture? He wouldnt have to pop it up as a calendar anywhere and it would be something he could keep for himself and his eyes only, perhaps the letter you send with it might read a little on the saucy side and you can express to him how you miss him and can't wait for him to come home?Check the rules of what he can and can't recieve, make sure you're not putting yourself or him in line for any future troubles and remember that a lot of mail is screened before they get it and so there is every chance that it won't just be him that gets to see the pictures. Best of luck!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): I think it's an adorable idea. I would love it if i received that from my much missed girlfriend. Sure to lift spirits in so many ways. But not sure how to get around the no-porn rule.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 January 2009):
The fact that it's you being naked and not some paid girl does not change the fact that it's pornography.
If he gets caught he'll be in trouble, not only for having porn, but also because you KNOW what will happen, his ENTIRE regiment will get to see it one way or another.
I really advise that as much as he'd probably love getting it, you don't send it unless you are prepared for all his mates to see it and for him to get in trouble.
Double check the risks and rules before you make a decision.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, planepocket +, writes (29 January 2009):
I would like it.It will make him feel more secure about his relationship with you.And it will take his mind off the war and all of that sand.
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