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My virginity... or lack of!

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Question - (30 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female Australia age 51-59, *atie vinslet writes:

I'm not a virgin and now I'm getting married. Is it possible that my husband would come to know that I'm not a virgin and moreover can it is possible to know all that through a DNA test?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009):

I think as you are at the age of 36 - 40 your future husband would be very surprised indeed if you were a virgin. However, if he thinks you are - and you've made him believe that you are - it would be best to come clean and tell him you're not.

A DNA test would prove exactly nothing - it's not what DNA tests do - and neither is there any other 'virginity test'! A ruptured hymen or lack of one proves nothing.

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A male reader, planepocket United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

How has it gotten to the point where you are getting married without telling him already? Did he just assume you are a virgin,or did you tell him you are?Either way you need to tell him before you get married.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntNo you can not "DNA test" for virginity. But a gynecologist can easily see if you are one or not. Why not be honest about your sexual status? Starting a marriage of on a lie I don't think is a good idea.

If you are in the age-group of 36-40 I would be pretty normal not to be a virgin wouldn't it?

Or is there more to the story?

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