Some friends say I have changed because I don't smoke pot anymore. They say my boyfriend is controlling me.
Q. I have two specific friends who believe that my boyfriend is "controlling" because he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who smokes pot. this is fine with me because it is not something that i am attached to so im not doing ...
A. 17 September 2007: I think you know the answer already. you arent being controlled. These friends are trying to control you for whatever reason if anything. Your boyfriend is perfectly reasonably to say he doesnt want to be with somebody who does drugs. But it should ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and due to have a baby in 8 months. Have i still got a good future?
Q. I am sixteen years old and i am going to be having a baby in 8 months. can i still have a good future ahead for me and my baby?...
A. 27 August 2007: I have a friend whose Older sister had a baby at 15. She went on to pass her Exams when she was 16 and got good results. Then in England we have another set of exams two years later which are very challenging. And she got 3 A's which is amazing ... (read in full...)
I think I can give her mulitple orgasms, but she seems scared of it
Q. Hi, I was wondering something about when I'm going down on my girlfriend. She says I've made her orgasm by fingering, and past oral adventures. But she has said with all of them that at one point, she starts to feel tingling all over her body, ...
A. 18 August 2007: I had the exact same problem with my ex girlfriend. Best thing to do I found was to keep going ot that point a few times so she gets used to it and talk to her too (not at the same time) maybe after its happened a few times, you could tell her you ... (read in full...)
Can you be in love at 14?
Q. Can you be in love at 14? ...
A. 21 January 2007: Yeah of course you can.
whats age? nothing
I know a couple who started going out when they were 14 and 15 (the female 14 and the male 15) They are still together. They are my Nan and grandad and they are both 64/65 thats 60 years. Obviously th... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and when I orgasm a lot of semen (too much) comes out.This never used to happen before. What's going on?
Q. hey, well me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months (im 15 shes 14). We lost our virginities to each other a couple of weeks ago. The problem was that i came really quickly, i had this problem at the beginning of the relationship when she ...
A. 18 January 2007: okay my problems seeems to have been misunderstood lol. The problem is with my pre-cum it has more cum in it. which isnt very good seeing as precum just happens so i dont even know its happening. We use condoms and there is a clinic near by incase ... (read in full...)
He's asking me to chip in when I get a full time job... feel slightly put-out by this, but should I?
Q. I have been with my b/f for almost 2 years. He has paid for mostly everything. I pay for things here and there but its mostly him who pays if we go to a movie or to dinner or to a bar or for take out. I work part time b/c i am a full time student. ...
A. 17 January 2007: 2 years isnt just dating. thats a long term relationship.
your being incredibly selfish and he said he would split the money. Not you paying for it all :S
you say you will be in more debt than your boyfriend which hints he is also in debt? we... (read in full...)
If your partner was cheating...would you want to know?
Q. if your partner was cheating would you want to know?...
A. 15 January 2007: Yes yes yes yes yes!
if you are cheating on somebod you should definitely tell them if you feel bad or anything, if your going to break up with him, tell him so atleast he knows,
if you dont want to break up with him, tell him, because oth... (read in full...)
Turns out my husband had a bj in the toilets at work because "it was on offer"... can men just not say no?
Q. I have just gone back to my husband following a break of 2 years. I left him for various reasons but i have never really got over him. We have a child and both want whats best for her obviously. I have had one serious relationship dur...
A. 3 January 2007: Malyce as good advice as that is for somebody in that position. She didnt cheat on him :S:S He cheated on her. I understand what cheating feels like even if i am to young and its a hard thing to get over explain this to your husband
but from a g... (read in full...)
My bf's ex is obsessed with ruining our relationship!!
Q. ok my bf's ex is sending me mental she is still madly in love with my bf so is trying to break me and him up. here sum stuff she been doing looking at my myspace and texting him about any chnages i have done ( this one back fired when she told hi...
A. 3 January 2007: get him to reply to her texts.
Telling her exactly what you both think of her.
Get the point across.
Then hae a go at your brother for what he did. He shouldnt do that to you for any amount of money.
If your bf objects to telling her, ... (read in full...)
My 15 y/o daughter is now partying, drinking, skipping school and more! I miss the old her so much. Please help
Q. Im using a friends account.. I have a problem that will effect a great deal of things. Im starting to hate my 15 year old daughter. Well not hate, but becoming more and more disapointed in her. I feel she has no future as she skips school and...
A. 2 January 2007: if you take her to church she will just get irritated, im 15 and seriously try and take her to church and she will throw it in your face, just be there for her and dont say she cant go to parties because it will just make her angry, tell you your ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and got drunk at a party..did this older boy take advantage of me? Any advice?
Q. By the way, I'm a girl, and I'm 13. Yesterday I went to a friend's brother's birthday party, and had a little too much to drink. I can remember that a guy who was 15/16 kissed me, before pulling away and saying that he thought the host would kill ...
A. 31 December 2006: no he wasnt, he thought about it then realised he shouldnt and did the right thing by pulling away and telling you not to drink any more.
He didnt take advantage of you in my opinion.
He was tempted to. But didnt.... (read in full...)
She says I am more like her best friend than her bf. What should I do?
Q. Hi there, what should a guy do when his girlfriend mentions every few days that he feels like her best friend and not a boyfriend?...
A. 22 November 2006: hmm i dunno, it could mean that sometimes your really there for her but it would suggest you do soetimes need to spend a bit more tiime being more bfish. but it could be a good hting... (read in full...)
My past was wild but I have changed. My bf wants to know all about it..do I tell him?
Q. Hi ! I am having some troubles in paradise....;) I have a very deep and meaningful relationship with my bf. We are thinking of getting married soon. The thing is, recenlty I told him about how, about 6-7 years ago I was a completely different ...
A. 11 November 2006: dear god tell him as soon as you ca becaus eif he finds out some other way in 3 or 4 months or wahtever he will be more annoyed than he will be if you tell him now... (read in full...)
Is it possible...for nerds to date the attractive girls?
Q. I'm 19, I'm at university and I'm a nerd. I've never kissed a girl (proper kiss) in my life, let alone have sex with a girl, and when I go out with friends at night to clubs, I have very little chance of getting a date with a girl as I can't dance ...
A. 11 November 2006: get a make over, get a good hair cut, get a new wardobe and whatever till you are happy with your appearance and somehting that will attract aswell because even though people will say be happy with yourself (which is true) the reason we make our ... (read in full...)
My teen boy are looking at internet porn...how do I block these sites? Any tips?
Q. i am a concerned single mom. i have teenage boys and i found out that they were looking at porn sites. i had a talk with my boys but im still concerned there looking at these sites. how do i block sites. what programs do i use? and can i get it free ...
A. 10 November 2006: Ask your ISP or look around on whatever program you may be using,
but personally i dont think it will do anything, because im a teen and i know how to get round it if i wanted to and there will always be ones that dont get blocked,
Also it... (read in full...)
he said I'm a geek and need to be more chavy. How much should I change about myself?
Q. right im not sure weather this is a relationship question or a fashion question lol. anyway i was talking to this lad and we were arranging to meet..he said "this wolud b easier if you were ma g/f but no offence bt ur such a geek...chav it up a bit ...
A. 9 November 2006: dear god do not become more chavvy, the last thing the UK needs is more chavs,
your country needs you! ...to be less chavvy!
oh and also you shouldnt change because some guy (and a chav guy at that) says you should do... especially if he... (read in full...)
I got caught shaving "down there" by my grandad and I'm 14.
Q. Well erm where to start...i am suppozed to be meeting this lad today but i needed to shave. me and ma mum are moving house so my grandad keeps coming to help us pack and things. anyway my mum and grandad were upstairs packin so i thought id chance ...
A. 9 November 2006: i wouldnt suggest telling her it itches, she will have a freaky "my-daughter-is-growing-up-to-fast" freak-out and think ou have crabs and that you got this by doing things with some guy, and that you thought it would get rid of it or something along ... (read in full...)
Is a missing condom a clear indication of someone cheating on you?
Q. Is a missing condom a clear indication of someone cheating on you? I'm a suspicious person, i admit. I try to find ways to make sure someone isnt cheating on me. My b/f says in the past he has gotten very tired of my behavior which i can see but ...
A. 8 November 2006: he could have used it whilst masturbating.... (read in full...)
It takes me a long time to cum when I'm getting head. Is this normal?
Q. It takes me a long time to cum when I'm getting head. Is this normal?...
A. 5 November 2006: trust me your lucky i come every damn time and too early, i wish i could lst longer but i have a vivid imaginationa and i dunno just makes me cum quickly, your fine lots of guys take a long time... (read in full...)
Do guys hate to give oral sex?
Q. Male readers!! do you hate givin oral sex to a women??...
A. 1 November 2006: im only 15 and i love giving my gf oral sex i dont see why guys dont like doing it... (read in full...)
How can I approach this girl on the bus???
Q. How would i go about approaching this rele cute girl on the bus, i've never talked to her but i see her every wednesday and would rele like to get to know her...
A. 1 November 2006: i disagree but yet i do agree lol. do what hidden says unless the bus is rather full in which case take the chance to sit by her :)... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and have no driver's licence. I feel jealousy toward teens who drive. How do I cope?
Q. I am 20 years old, and I still don't have a driver's license, and I feel jealous when I see teenagers driving vehicles by themselves. I am trying very hard to become good enough to get a license, but I am also trying to earn money for car insurance....
A. 28 October 2006: you just get over it.
some people have a knack for things some dont. it will come at different times..
+ why drive early when you cant afford it?
people get different opportuniteis... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable to stay friends with an ex???
Q. HI I was wondering if people thinks its acceptable to stay friends with an ex boyfriend, even if you are unsure about whether he is over you? My ex finished it 6 mths ago after i made it clear i wanted marriage and kids (he is nearly 40 and ha...
A. 27 October 2006: im best friends with my ex and we do just fine, sometimes my girlfriend isnt happy about it. but im with her for a reason. yeah me and my ex were good, but if i enjoyed it better with her, i would be with her.. especially seeing as she still likes ... (read in full...)
Do guys mind if the girl phones first? Do they see that as desperation on the girl's part?
Q. Hi, A guy I have been seeing a couple of months has not contacted me for a few days when he said he would, do you think I should contact him or will he think that is a bit desperate?? Do guys mind if the girl phones first? x...
A. 25 October 2006: i would prefer my girlfriend to phone me more often rather than vice versa because i seem desperate. no it wont just do it just dont phone constantly... (read in full...)
I want to know if Dear Cupid is a free chat room service or not!!!
Q. I want to know if the Dear Cupid is a "Free" chat Room Service or not. ...
A. 25 October 2006: its not a chatroom. but it is all free yes... (read in full...)
Do any of you see your exes as good friend?
Q. Hi everyone, could you see your ex as a friend?...
A. 25 October 2006: im friends with my last 2 girlfriends one of whcih i am perhaps best mates with now who i can tell anything to and am very comfortable around.... (read in full...)
I can't get her to orgasm!!!
Q. I am having troouble getting my gf to have an organsm. She said she has never had one. What tips or suggesttions do you have to help me with this. I have heard everyone can have an orgasm....
A. 24 October 2006: try fingering and licking try different paces or tecniques whilst doing these, try putting an extra finger into her or changing motion whilst fingering her as most girl will orgasm through foreplay more than anything else, really drag it out too , ... (read in full...)
Why won't she have sex with me???
Q. Why wont my girlfriend have sex with me? we have been together for six months, and i thought that we should me more sexual than once a month....
A. 24 October 2006: it sounds to me as if the guys below have misunderstood as to that she just doesnt plain have sex with you yet where as the truth seems to be that she does but has a low sex drive. i would talk to her about it and ask why this is and if there is ... (read in full...)
16 chasing 14 - is this ok?
Q. do girls really care if they are goin out with older boys? i'm 16 and i fancy this 14year old girl. i know my friends will not be happy with me because just coz she is younger than us apart from my best mate who supports me! but my mate say's i ...
A. 21 October 2006: no its not because your older its because girls are 2 years more mature than guys of their same age, so you being in sixth form (lower sixth or higher sixth) are about the same maturity of a girl in Year 10 so they will be more attracted to you ... (read in full...)
Have had only 2 sexual experiences and both were lousy. Is it me?
Q. Im 15 years old and hav had sex with 2 people. On neither occasion has me or the guy came and the sex wasn't really that good....am i doing something wrong?? ...
A. 21 October 2006: perhaps the guy didnt come because they can last for a long time. trust me guys will come if your doing something wrong or not just the way we are made, + if he is 15 or 16 he probably doesnt know what good is either, and a way of making a guy come ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to take things further?
Q. me an my boyfriend do most things but oral and intercourse what is stopping him from having sex with me. we have been dating 3 months...
A. 20 October 2006: talk to him, im in a relationship like this but im the guy, he probably doesnt want to seem forceful just tel him you want to and he will most likely want to do them.... (read in full...)
I went into his email account and found out he has been meeting girls on a sexual basis...how do I bring this up without letting him know how I found out???
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for the past 4 months now it has been a lovely relationship where he treats me well and treats me like a lady, something I never had in the past..until recently I did not realise just how jealous he was and ...
A. 15 October 2006: i was in this problem a few days ago with my girlfriend, but i told her how i found out because i felt that i couldnt tell her off for lieing to me (and of course wanting to cheat on me) but then be hypocrticial and lie to her, now we are fine but i ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is best friends with his ex. I can't handle it. I want to be with him, but I just don't trust him with her.
Q. I am a 25 year old female and currently dating a 26 year old man. I care about him very much and we get along very well. The main problem is that he is best-friends with his ex-girlfriend. Although they broke up a year ago, they were intima...
A. 10 October 2006: this sounds like me and my ex, we are the best of friends now an dhave been for about a year since we split up, but i would never cheat on my girlfriend with her no matter how much i felt for my ex beforehand, you have to take a leap of faith on how ... (read in full...)
Im I being overly sensitive or is he hiding something ??
Q. Hello guys. I wanted to ask advice on whether I should be worried about some texts I found on my boyfriends phone. I know I shouldnt have looked, but it was sitting there and I just oculdnt resist. It was more nosiness than anything to be honest, I ...
A. 9 October 2006: its nothing, he probably said in order of reply
"yeah im up, now piss off"
"what the hell are you on about?"
"oh, no i never saw you, what were you doingup therE?"
"yea cool, shame i cant make it to your party im at work" (probably thin... (read in full...)
Carrer options for 3D modelling or animation?
Q. Hi, I've been working for the past 8 years or so in 3D modelling / animation and really want to move up a bit in my career, but feel as though I've hit a brick wall. Wondering if anyone has any tips on career options for someone with my experien...
A. 1 October 2006: create a portfolio on the net, and send this to Pixar, Dreamworks, all the major animation companies, also just create things for fun as this willl improve tecniques, post on forums your work, create short movies for your portfolio the bigger amount ... (read in full...)
How can I get my 14 year old more interested in school ?
Q. How can i get my daughter more interested in school, and to read books!!. she is 14 years old and everything seems to go right over her head. She is involved with after school activities and wants to join the RAF. Please help!!!!...
A. 1 October 2006: move her to a better local school, my little sister just moved to a new school and beforehnd she was exactly the same, my mother moved her to a better school locally and all of a sudden she is achieving better grades, reading books for fun, and its ... (read in full...)
The school has issued my daughter a further punishment its unfair, what should I do ?
Q. hi there, i was wondering if anyone could help my daughter got a punishment exercise yesterday and as i was working late, she was unable to do the punishment although i felt she deserved it for the reson stated. i wrote to the school this morning ...
A. 1 October 2006: if she got the punishment she should do it.
Im guessing you didnt have to do this punishment with her and she was capable of doing it herself, so therfore for getting out of it i would punish her again so that she doesnt do wrong again.
dont... (read in full...)
How do I prevent those awful vaginal wet farts after oral sex?
Q. Ok, this is pretty gross, but my bf gave me head this morning and a few minutes after he'd finished i got really really wet and it made a really horrible sound like a fart that i was in no control over. I know it's disgusting and i'm sorry, but is ...
A. 28 September 2006: well im not sure about this as i've never performed oral sex but if your bf blew or breathed into you during oral sex then this would have been what caused it most likely ... (read in full...)
My bf told me he slept in the same bed with 2 female mates, he does not understand why I am annoyed. Please tell me I have a right to be pi***d off.
Q. recently me and my boyfriend were having a discussion about a friend of mine who slept in the bed with one of her best guy mates ( nothing happened) she has a boyfriend and i told my boyfriend that id disagree with that even tho they are close ...
A. 25 September 2006: i understand what you mean as it would be the sort of thing i woul ddo (freak out) but try and realise they may be just close mates, drunk, or w/e nothing happened im sure hewould have told you otherwise, i think he probably just did it not ... (read in full...)
What do people do straight after sex?
Q. What do people usually do after sex? Do they both go clean themselve before cuddling up, or do they go straight to cuddle?...
A. 25 September 2006: i guess if its meaningful like the below says go straight to cuddling but then again, if you're young and dont want to get caught i suggest cleaning up straight away as you will have a higher chance of getting caught if youre young and dont clean ... (read in full...)
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