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writes: recently me and my boyfriend were having a discussion about a friend of mine who slept in the bed with one of her best guy mates ( nothing happened) she has a boyfriend and i told my boyfriend that id disagree with that even tho they are close friends, its still not on for anyone to sleep in the bed with a member of the opposite sex right? my boyfriend completley agreed with what i was saying.a while later he told me that he had done it before with his 2 girl mates and i totally freaked out at him. he said that i had no reason to be jealous or upset by it?! i was really hurt as this had happen a long time ago, when i was still with him and he only told me a year later!!! i couldnt believe that he never told me and the fact that it happened more then once!! i just dont understand why he doesnt get why i am annoyed even though he agreed with me! please tell me i have a right to be p***** off because i am going out of my mind on this subject!! thanks.
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reader, kayjay +, writes (26 September 2006):
 i can understand that it would annoy you. but let me tell u i have many friends that are boys, and i have slept in a bed with them many times. we have grown up together and have never felt that way about it each other. its like sleeping with ur brother or cousin. i guess he knows how u feel now and just tell him not to do it again.
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 Firstly I would be annoyed at my boyfriend sharing a bed with one girl let alone two and the fact of then not coming forward about this until a conversation brought up by you was along the same lines would just top it off for me but it is done now and as long as nothing happened between them there really isn't alot you can do about it unless you want to lose your boyfriend over this!
You do need to make it clear to your boyfriend that you don't like it and wouldn't like him to be in the situation again.
Good luck :o)
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reader, ogga +, writes (25 September 2006):
i understand what you mean as it would be the sort of thing i woul ddo (freak out) but try and realise they may be just close mates, drunk, or w/e nothing happened im sure hewould have told you otherwise, i think he probably just did it not realising dont blow it out of proportion because im sure it was nothing anyway, there are literally hundreds of situations that could have been a reason for it and personally as long as nothign happened i dont think much was wrong, i can see why you are annoyed nd i would be too but also try to uderstand why he did it and you'll realise it may not be such a big deal afterall
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