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16 chasing 14 - is this ok?

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Question - (21 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2006)
A , anonymous writes:

do girls really care if they are goin out with older boys? i'm 16 and i fancy this 14year old girl. i know my friends will not be happy with me because just coz she is younger than us apart from my best mate who supports me! but my mate say's i might have a better chance coz she will be dating a 6th former which is me whereas she is in year10? is it true? and also i'm not in it for sex. sex is the last thing i wanna do! how can i get to know this girl more? talk to her? make her aware i'm free so she may fall for me? i've only seen her for 3hours at a mates birthday. otherwise at school when i say hi for about 5seconds. i'm shy so i carry on walking. because i think if i dont she'll think i'm tryin to chat her up everytime! any way round this? lots of questions! lol thanks for reading guys

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006):

im a 14 yr old female and i have always liked older guys and atm fancy my mates brither who is 16!! i no if we started to go out my mates (includin his sister) would be fine with it and his mates like me so it cant be that different. lets face it girls are more mature earlier

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):

Toria agony auntAlot of girls do like guys older especially when they are younger as at school guys their own age are quite immature and at 14 guys don't want to get involved with girls.

I know you said your not in it for the sex but remember you are over 16 and she is under 16 therefore any type of sexual activity between you both is illegal.

Good luck :o)

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A male reader, ogga +, writes (21 October 2006):

no its not because your older its because girls are 2 years more mature than guys of their same age, so you being in sixth form (lower sixth or higher sixth) are about the same maturity of a girl in Year 10 so they will be more attracted to you because you are mature in their eyes, compared to lads in their own year who are 2 years younger than them in maturity, so i guess it is correct but as helpful girl says, that alone will not get you this girl you have to be sweet and gentle, but being the same maturity as her helps.

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