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writes: Im 15 years old and hav had sex with 2 people. On neither occasion has me or the guy came and the sex wasn't really that good....am i doing something wrong?? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (22 October 2006):
 At 15 you have no place having sex, my dear so I wont even begin to suggest what the problem may be apart from the fact that you are way too young and physically immature for sex, I am not saying you as a person are immature as that would be offensive to you and is not necesaarily true, but at 15, be a teenager before you start doing adult stuff. xXx
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
 Firstly you are underage to be having sex so you shouldn't be doing it in the first place but I'm sure you are aware of that fact already.
Secondly you are very inexperianced, you need to be waiting until you are with someone that you love and cherish and that feels the same way as you, once your with him a while and you both get to know each other and try the sex thing again you will find the difference in sex with someone you love and want to be with compared to sex with just anyone, someone that doesn't love or respect you and all the time you are just sleeping with anyone you won't get the love and respect from them but run the risk of getting STD's and unwanted pregnancy along with a reputation.
Please think carefully before getting into a situation where you share something so special with someone, sex is special and should be shared with someone special.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille +, writes (21 October 2006):
 No offence but yes, probably. You're 15 years old and so very young for this. Having had sex with 2 people already suggests you're putting out far too easily and it's the best way for you to get a bad reputation, not to mention an STD, a baby or worse. Stop sleeping with people and maybe just fool around a bit when you get a steady boyfriend. When you find someone who you really like and who likes you back, you'll probably find that all the sexual stuff is better. You'll be able to build up trust and experiment with what you both like. Just wondering if alcohol is involved? This is also illegal but obviously goes on, just take care that you're not getting drunk and having sex, this is a very dagerous way to live. If the boy is drunk, that may explain why he didn't come. You probably didn't because you're not really doing what it takes to have one. (You refer to the people you slept with as guys, I am hoping that you're not letting yourself get taken advantage of by older people as they are breaking the law.)
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reader, ogga +, writes (21 October 2006):
perhaps the guy didnt come because they can last for a long time. trust me guys will come if your doing something wrong or not just the way we are made, + if he is 15 or 16 he probably doesnt know what good is either, and a way of making a guy come is to orgasm yourself as you will contract around him which is a good feeling so your not doing something wrong really at all. if youve had sex with only 2 people (which seeing as your 1 is 2 2 many) it wont be enjoyable because of pain and geting used to it, just give it time, if he isnt coming thats his problem or he might just be a guy who doesnt come from sex very much
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