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*abres39gd
writes:Hi, I was wondering something about when I'm going down on my girlfriend. She says I've made her orgasm by fingering, and past oral adventures. But she has said with all of them that at one point, she starts to feel tingling all over her body, like her lips(face) and stomach etc. Well she has stopped me from giving her multiple orgasms because shes afraid that it might be something bad. I kind of think thats the real orgasm waiting to happen. But I don't want her to be scared, can anyone tell me whats going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): Believe me,my bf does it to me all the time.I use to make him stop because I was scared of what might happen.I didn't want to be too over whelmed.But now it's all the time.do it to her but when she tries to make u stop...dont.keep going.thats what my bf did to me and now I'm fine.She'll thankyou.
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reader, ogga +, writes (18 August 2007):
I had the exact same problem with my ex girlfriend. Best thing to do I found was to keep going ot that point a few times so she gets used to it and talk to her too (not at the same time) maybe after its happened a few times, you could tell her you think that just after the tingling she will have a larger one. And then see how she feels
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reader, Sabres39gd +, writes (17 August 2007):
Sabres39gd is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your help and advice. I planned on talking to her about it a lot. I wanted her to feel comfortable with what I'm doing, and I think when she knows other people get it too she will feel better. Again, that you all so much.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (17 August 2007):
 I have the same problem.
When my boyfriend gives me multiple orgasms I make him stop before I do orgasm.
It feels great but its a sensation that I feel is to overwhelming for me. And I find it pure difficult to let go.
Its a nice feeling but is way to much for me.
Maybe its the same with your girlfriend.
Talk with her about it more
goodluck
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reader, Variety +, writes (17 August 2007):
 The tingling is good. Although if she doesn't want to go any further then this is her choice. Sometimes it can feel like what you are feeling is almost too much if you see what I mean. Maybe someday she will want to try but at the moment one is enough for her. She will respect you for not pressuring her, even if it is for something you think she will enjoy. Hope this helps. x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 August 2007):
 The tingling is pleasure. The good kind of it.
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reader, Sabres39gd +, writes (17 August 2007):
Sabres39gd is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe lets go quite a bit, and I HAVE given her multiple, but after the second one (thats most recent) through cunnilingus, she has stopped me because of the tingling, shes afraid its a bad thing, would you have any idea what the tingling is?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (17 August 2007):
I think she is afraid of the thought of letting go.
However, if she doesn't feel like having multiple orgasms, don't try; you'd be forcing her to do something she rather would not do.
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