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*anilla5
writes:Well every time me and my husband have sex and he puts all his penis in it hurts alot I feel like if he's touching something that it hurts why is that? Does somebody have that, Or what is it? Reply to this Question
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 I had the same problem a while back
he is hitting your cervix..
easy fix tell him not to go to deep because it is hurting you or making you uncomfortable
this can also cause bladder infections if he is pressing on it too much
(i had many UTI's because of this problem)
Also if he feels the need to go all the way in try different possisions to see which ones work for you because some possisions he could go all the way in and you won't be as uncomfortable
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): He is probably hitting your cervix or bottoming out and stretching your vagina too much. THey make foam donuts that prevent excessive insertion. Guys with longer penises can get carried away, especially close to orgasm. Even though I'm sure he doesn't intend to hurt you, he may get carried away "in the moment" and ram a bit too hard.
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reader, joeblow6969 +, writes (2 October 2010):
Make sure to use LOTS of foreplay too. And use lube. Get fully aroused before trying. Have him start slowly and ease into it. Vagina is made to pass a baby, which is bigger than the biggest penis. So probably not a size issue.
If it persists, you should talk to your OBGYN.
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reader, helpme7 +, writes (2 October 2010):
You may want to see your female doctor for an exam just to make sure you don't have any cysts in your uterus or on your fallopian tubes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): I just want to add, if he's still hitting it in the middle of sex because hes getting carried away, then invest in a 'cockring'. He can place that at the point of depth on his penis and he'll be able to better gauge the depth for a while with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): He's doing it wrong. You have to stop him putting his penis in that far because it's hitting your cervix and not in a soft nice way either.
Next time you're having sex start slowly at first and teach him the perfect depth, have him put it in and at the point where it hits your cervix push him back a little, tell him to look at how far in he is and not to go in any further than that because it hurts. It will take a bit of practice but he'll get used to it.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Well, it could be that he is hitting your cervix which is at the end of the vagina. Some women fid that pleasurable, but others find it very uncomfortable and painful. He could try being more gentle or simply not going in all the way. What a lot of people don't know is that a longer penis can be quite painful depending on the woman...thickness is preffered. So, talk to him. Tell him that he is hitting your cervix during intercourse and that it's paining you. Then, you two can figure out whats best.
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