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writes:me and my girlfriend had been going out for 4 months, but ever since the start of our relationship it was kind of hard because i wasn't able to drive to see her as often as i wanted to because my license was suspended. and lately it has been really hard on her because i haven't been able to be there for her when she really needed me. we mutually decided to break up, but we still love each other very much, and she wants to get back together when i have a car and license again, which won't be until january of next year, but I'm afraid shes gonna fall for another guy or have no interest in me anymore...how can i still keep her interested for that long period of time? i love this girl with all my heart and id do anything to keep her happy, whats the best advice for something like this?
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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff  +, writes (17 May 2007):
 i can completely relate to this, you broke up to save getting hurt by not seeing each other, but it still hurts even more now. if you both still love each other in a year's time then that would be great but chances are emotions will change. i suggest speaking to her about the possibility of a long distant relationship. it can be tough but if you are both willing it can be worth it
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (17 May 2007):
 Can't you or she take the train to see each other? I just think that if she loves you as much as you love her she wouldn't want to split up just cause you can't drive!
If you want to see someone you make it happens. You don't just split up with them because you can't see them! If that were the case we could say we were single when we are at work!
I'm not joking! You should try see if she's interested in seeing you if you get the train to see her? Look around for other methods of transport. I can understand where she's coming from because if you want to have a boyfriend who canbe around you then seeing each other is extremely part of the relationship, but see if you can meet up any other ways.... see her reaction and we'll go from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): can you not see her via public transport?
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reader, juliagulia +, writes (17 May 2007):
 well, by january, you can bet she will probably have found someone else. if you want to be with her, you need to find a way to make it happen now before it is too late. otherwise, i guess you can stay friends with her and hope for the best...
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