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*babygirl101327
writes:i have a question? i am very shy to moan during sex with my husband, i wanted to get some advice to help me open up to moaning for him. i love to have sex a lot just shy to moan. please help me? Tabitha
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): You shouldnt be shy.Its fine to moan and it will probably turn him on even more.Dont be shy about it.Moaning is lwtting your partner know your enjoying Your sexual intercourse together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): ok well i think that no matter how your moaning sounds just do it how ever ypu feel like he'll know what you'll mean!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 I'm happy I helped.
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reader, Tbabygirl101327 +, writes (22 August 2007):
Tbabygirl101327 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhello,
i just wanted to give u all the updated on this sitution, i finally was able to break free i am officailly a moaner and it feels great, my hubby loves the new me...thank you 2 everyone that sent me advice......
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): I was too shy for years to moan or make any kind of noise while making love to my husband. We are coming up on our 17th wedding anniversary and it wasn't until a few years ago that during sex it slipped out and he enjoyed hearing it. He told me that he new by hearing me that he was making me feel good and that made him feel good to know he was pleasing me. Talk to your spouse, you both need to know what each other like or dislike and ask him how he feels about an occassional moan or two. I also found the older I get and the longer I am married, we are so comfortable and in love with each other that almost everything we do together is fine.....So moan up!Karen
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): For years my wife made no sounds during sex. Then one day it slipped. Mush to my surprise she was embarrassed. When we did talk about it I found out her previous husband told her it was not normal to do that. I never asked (nor did I worry if she made no noise) But today she knows that it is ok to express how she is feeling. We do not judge and even talk and laugh about the sounds we both make after a night of passion. Almost every issue about making love has been about what others have suggested or told us that is true or not true . Now we do what make sense to us. But there requires the ability to communitcate. That has taken us both 10 years to perfect for all the same reasons as everyone else. Do not want to be embarrassed by asking or talking about how one feels or what one needs. now love is great, we pick some where new once a week.. you both just need to try
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reader, Tbabygirl101327 +, writes (11 June 2007):
Tbabygirl101327 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI WANT TO THANK ALL WHO GAVE ME ADVICE . I WILL TAKE ADVICE FROM EACH OF YOU AND KEEP U ALL UPDATED ON HOW IT WORKED.
THANKS AGAIN..
TBABYGIRL101327
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): have a drink or two to relax first. my husband likes to make movies with dummies, i have to talk into the camera and that makes me very uncomfortable. But these are his fantisies and i'd rather act them out instead of him cheating on me. I find having a couple of drinks relaxes me and we have fun with the whole thing.
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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff  +, writes (10 June 2007):
 i'm sure that this is a very comon problem, because sex itself can be very embarrassing for people. but you have to remember that this is a very special thing that you share with your husband. you should be able to feel comfortable, maybe if you talk to him about how shy you are feeling, maybe he can work out how to make you feel more relaxed and at ease. if you open up vocally then the whole experience will also be better, and by the way men love to hear women moan, and i'm sure your husband will be nothing but pleased to hear you enjoying yourself
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (10 June 2007):
 Just do what comes naturally. Maybe start just to make smaller sounds quitely and go from there; nothing too porno but just go with what your body is telling you.
Im sure soon you can build this up to a full blown moan in no time. Theres no need to be shy with your husband, hes the one person who you should be able to share this feeling with.
Start off small and work your up...
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (10 June 2007):
You can only overcome shyness about anything by deciding not to be shy anymore. So, in short, if you want to moan for him, do.
Now, why are you shy about moaning? Ask yourself. This is the real heart of the matter.
Why is it important for you to moan for him? Some women moan, some don't, and then some moan occassionally. Any man knows this and accepts it.
Also, moan when you need to. Be authentic. If you're not and he finds out, THAT will affect the quality of your encounters more than your moaning. Many of us men want the woman to moan IF SHE REALLY IS OUT OF CONTROL. We want to know that things are true. You should worry about this more than about moaning itself.
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