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writes:Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again? Reply to this Question
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reader, shortybabes +, writes (8 June 2007):
 Hey hunny this is simple if he can hit you once what is going to stop him hitting you again and then again. Babe get out of this relationship now before it gets worse.If this guy loved you he wouldn't want to hurt you in any way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont put up with this for another second its not worth your sanity love you can most definatly do better.. short but sweet dont stay with a man who raises his hand to you even the one time, get out get on and let this bully go!!! take care lots of love to you xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): Yes definelty. My ex boyfriend hit me & I was so shocked because he seemed like the kind of person who would never do that. So I thought he'd never do it again, and he swore he wouldn't. A few months later he snapped my finger in half in front of a lot of people. Then he ran out. Every time he hit me I tried getting my cell phone to call the police, and he would grab my phone and snap it in half. Also he would prevent me from leaving the apartment. Please get the hell out while it's not too late.
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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff +, writes (5 June 2007):
 i'm not saying he will... but if he is capable of doing it in the first place, then he is probabaly not a good man
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 As you can see all the aunts agree. He will hit you again and it will get worse. You must get away from him NOW, TODAY. Keep us posted. Good luck sweetie.
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reader, suz001  +, writes (5 June 2007):
What everbody says here is absolutely right! If he does it once, he will do it again. Ask me. My mom is in an abusive relationship. If you do not leave after the first time, trust me, you will never leave. Go now, before it is too late!!
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reader, cuttieicy  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 yes he will
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reader, Prik  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 If a dog bites once, they make him sleep. You can guess why they do that. I'd say you better get out of there, or you'll likely regret it... There are one million better guys out there for you.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): How long have you two been together? Most abuser's give a warm, loving, kind, gentleman, everything a woman can dream of front in the beginning of a relationship. He's gained your trust, loyality, and everything else of you he wants to take away from you. Are you loosing touch with your friends since you've been with him? If so, he is slowly taking control over you. There are probably suttle changes in your life, that maybe your not aware of, which is his way of controlling and over powering you. Think back and write it down. It could even be for instance, he asks you where you want to eat out at and you say chinese. And you end up at a mexican place, where he wants to go. It doesn't matter why he hit you. He will make the promise over and over he didn't mean it, he's sorry, he loves you, etc. Contact an agency that can help you. Be strong, smart and get the knowledge to get out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): Anyone who abuses a person once is likely to do it again. It may even be worse because the person may believe that it's ok since nothing was done the first time. Please avoid that situation. Take care.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 June 2007):
 Why would anyone who has any respect for you lift their hand to you? If he's done this once and gotten away with it then of course he'll do it again, only this time you might not be so lucky. Men who hit women do it because it makes them feel powerful. Deep down he has major insecurities and is using you as his doormat. Have more respect for yourself and get out while you can! He doesn't deserve you!
Eve
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (4 June 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
If your boyfriend hits you once, there is a very, very, very, VERY strong chance that he'll do it again. You should absolutely get out of the relationship before his power gets too strong.
You deserve much better than a boyfriend who thinks it's okay to inflict harm on you. A real man NEVER raises his hand against a woman.
Get out of this relastionship, sweetness. You deserve a king, not this pig.
xxIndia
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reader, tasha556 +, writes (4 June 2007):
 if he's done it once, then he'll do it again.if i was you i would ditch him because the hitting may become more serious.
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 June 2007):
 Without knowing to much about your situation here, i would say being hit once in a good enough reason to ditch this guy. Any guy that hits or raises a hand to a lady is a bully, and a coward and does not deserve the time of day. The likellhood is he will do it again, maybe not tommorow, maybe not next week, but somewhere down the line he will flip out and do it again. Get out now while you still can and find a guy who would not raise a hand to you.
All the best x
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (4 June 2007):
 hunny please leave this relationship before he ends up putting u in hosptial no man has the right to hit a women the same as a woman has no right to hit a man. hope u end up with a guy who wil treat u right xx
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reader, DV1 +, writes (4 June 2007):
 Yes, he would. Get out while you can.
DV1
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