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*ashful567
writes:I think i have a problem. My husband and i were discussing our sex life and he said that we have NEVER "made love". Come to think of it...i have never been able to make love to anyone? Is there something wrong with me? i Love having sex- don't get me wrong. I'm just more into the hair pulling ruff sex.... :( i need help!
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reader, Bashful567 +, writes (14 June 2007):
Bashful567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone that gave advice...it was all helpful!
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reader, Tbabygirl101327 +, writes (14 June 2007):
personally i believe love making is slow with love music and lots of foreplay, to get each other going. / but everyone does have there own perspectives on love making factors. but if u like the hard ship and love it rough then go for it as long as your both stisfied your doing great..
good luck to ya..
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 Have to agree with yummy mummy on this one, if you love each other what does it matter how you do it, each to their own as long as you are having a good time.
Take care.xx.
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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff +, writes (13 June 2007):
 i agree, you don't have to like it in slow motion to soft music to be making love. making love can be just the fact that you two are together, you bodies together and you are sharing a 'sensless' experience as you describe it.
we all vary what we prefer.. if he wants to chnage things, then why not discuss what he (and if you wanna try it differently) might like.. it might be the traditional 'making love' way.. and you might be surprised that you like it.... ironically, people like yourself can spice things up by slowing down!
but if you're happy with it aswell don't worry, but i think it's really good for your relationship if you are able to sit and talk about what you want and what you need...
don't worry there is nothing wrong with you!!!
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reader, heyheyhey +, writes (13 June 2007):
 There is no guideline on how we should or shouldn't make love. I say do what you feel is right for you - if that is what you like and you in a stable relationship, then there is nothing wrong with it. Perhaps discuss with your husband what he would like to try or what he terms as "making love" and experiment with each others ideas? Good luck
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (13 June 2007):
 Just because you like it rough doesn't mean that isn't making love. I vary how I like it. Seen as I'm pregnant right now and my sex drive is low I do like the calmer sex rather than the throw each other round the room sex.
I make love with my oartner as I love him and our sexual relationship is a part of that love. Not does the physical side blow my mind but the mental side because I care so much about him.
If you love having it rough with you husband then that maybe your way of making love. I see just sex as being a one nighter or with someone who I have no feelings or involvement with. If that makes sense at all lol
xxxxxxx
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