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writes: Hey hey, The guy that I have been seeing for 7 months only lets himself go when he's drinking. When he's sober, he doesn't speak to me as often. And it's almost like he only likes me when he's drunk. He said from the beginning that he's not a big fan of showing his affection in public... but when there's two or three other people in the room, a little kiss on the cheek or something wouldn't hurt. I feel like I'm being used. and i don't know if its his true feelings that come out when he's drunk or if he just likes to have me around for ;).. you know.. lol. I know you's dont have a detailed description of our relationship, but this is the basic problem. Any Ideas or thoughts on what could be going on with him? Like, if its worth sticking around or not..Please help...I am so confused!!
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (21 August 2018):
 Listen, and listen carefully ok..... if his showing romance , love , and affection after a drink, it means he feels nervous around you without it. And is he actually drunk or tipsy? Some people lack courage in a new relationship. Try backing off for a bit if you think it’s too much. And if he really loves you he will coming running.
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 June 2007):
 To be brutally honest this guy does not sound any good for you. He shows no affection when he is sober, but does when he has had a drink.
Seriously drop him and find a guy that gives you the love and respect that you so rightly deserve.
Good luck x
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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff +, writes (4 June 2007):
 just because he is more open when he is drunk, doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't have feelings for you... don't you feel more unhibited and sexual when you have had a drink or two? if you haevn't drank yet then maybe you can understand that it is possible. maybe if you actualy speak to him and tell him how you feel, you maybe very suprised, it maybe that you two are not at a very comfortable point in your relationship yet, and he just feels more comfortable hwen he has drank. this will take time, if you speka to him and he doesn't sho wthis then atleast you'll know for sure!
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 Leave him, he ain't worth your time if you ain't worth his.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (4 June 2007):
 obvious i know but talk to him sometimes just talking can let him go and he may let hisfeelings out but if ur really annoyed and by the sounds of it he is a typical guy who just doesn't know how to be loving than u can end it if that what u really want. it could be because h doesn't like people staring at him mybe he wants to keep the passion for u 2 only, and when he has a couple of drinks his all control of himselfs has gone. hope it goes well xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 Drop him like a hot potato. He's just using you. Why would you even want to be around a guy like that? He's only affectionate when he's drunk? What a slap in the face! Run.
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reader, Liv +, writes (4 June 2007):
 well, I personally think that you should end this relationship because however much you might like him, he isnt showing his affection. If someone is in a serious relationship then they wouldnt mind showing their affection towards their partner in public or anywhere. My basic answer is end it.
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