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writes:I've been with this guy for 4 months. Im completely crazy for him! But I made this huge mistake! I hung out with this guy for a week straight (another guy) After my boyfriend told me he didn't want me around him, because he knows what he is like. Shortly after he tried to kiss me several times and i pulled back away. A month after i still hadn't told my boyfriend about it thinking that I wouldn't have to worry about it. Well this week he found out from a girl who i told. They both were drinking that night and thats why she told. It hit him hard that he found out and I never told him. So he started drinking hard core that night. And did some drugs and stuff. Both him and the girl were wasted and they had sex. I feel like complete crap and want him back so bad! I don't care about that but i love him! .... I went to his house yesterday to talk to him about this. He said through our whole relationship he had never cheated and he did not plan to do anything with that girl. He started to cry in front of my which made me feel so much worst. I want him back. But im unsure if i can forget about what he had done that night. I need some advice. I know either way im goin to get back with him cause my feelings towards him are very strong. So can someone please help me go about forgetting about all that happened?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): You both have reasons to feel guilty here because you have both betrayed each other in different ways. I think it's time to call this one dead or else you need to completely start over with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): You break up with him.
Period.
"So he started drinking hard core that night. And did some drugs and stuff. Both him and the girl were wasted and they had sex."
You are in trouble if this guy is your bf.
Find someone who isn't a user.
Take this quiz for your bf.
http://www.lanarkleedsaa.org/pages/aboutaa/are_you_an_alcoholic.htm
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 Its very hard to forget things like this. But if you and him are willing to let your relationship progress you must learn to trust one and other again. This is all depending on teamwork between the two of you. Try for a month to see if you can trust him and if you can't trust him then you'll have your answer.
And on another note: The Drugs. Drugs are dangerous your boyfriend and you ( if you are taking ) should not be using them. Yeah they make you feel good at the time but NEVER use them they are highly dangerous and can sometimes make you do dangerous things :(
Good Luck :)
xxxxx
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