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writes: My boy friend is 24 years old and i'm 17. But my family don't know anything about us. And he is my mom's friend's son My dad is sombody who gets angry quickly because of that i don't like to tell this to them. Yesterday was my sister's B'day and we had a party in our house. My bf also came for that. So came to me in da party and told me " hey today u look so sexy sweetheart. " my sister heard that and she is trying to tell it to my dad. What should i do to make her quiet? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2011): Thanx but my dad is 8 years older than my mom. They are going to celebrate the 25th aniversary next year. So then why can't I date with this guy. I told my mom about him. She is okey because she knows him well. But i don't think my dad is like that. I love my BF very much he is not a bad guy even there are lots of beautiful girls in his university he talk to me when ever he os free. I can't break with him. Is it good if I tell my bf to come and talk with my dad.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 October 2011):
 I think the only thing you can do is beat her to the punch and tell your dad first.
I think you are hiding it from your dad because you know that a 17 year old girl should not be dating a 24 yr old man.
a 7 year difference is not much after say age 25 but right now it's not a good idea... you should be at very different life stages... and I think you know that your dad will stop you from seeing your boyfriend.
BUT if you have to hide a relationship from your parent then I think you need to rethink the relationship.
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland  +, writes (5 October 2011):
 It's going to come out eventually maybe your sister hasn't even picked up on that ask her what she heard. There is a bit of an age difference between you and your boyfriend thats the main thing that stands out. Personally I think you should tell your father yourself you are in a relationship with this man at least then it will easy the blow. Like would you rather hear something about a loved one from someone else or from them?
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