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How long should we wait before having sex?

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Question - (13 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi Im looking for some advice....Ive been going out with this boy for four weeks....he says he loves me at least once a day....and I love him 2....we are both virgins....how long should I wait before engaging in sex with him....IM 17 nd hes 19 ....any advice would be helpful to me??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009):

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Tahnks for your advice it is really aprecciated....

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A male reader, Delboy69 United Kingdom +, writes (14 October 2009):

As a man (who was once 19 dating a 17 year old girl) I would suggest you wait until all conditions below are met :

1. You are 100% ready - you not him!

2. Birth control / STI care is taken care of (condom)

3. You both have time on your own somewhere comfortable without interuption.

4. Take your time - intercourse is usually the finale'. If you want to be satisfied and enjoy your first time then there should be loads of kissing/cuddling/foreplay/oral etc beforehand.

5. Be gentle until you get into the swing of it.

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A female reader, Kirstyteenauntireland Ireland +, writes (14 October 2009):

Kirstyteenauntireland agony auntWhenever you both feel ready and when you know its right :)

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