My boyfriend says if we have a baby he will settle down with me and stop hanging out on the streets, what should I do?
Q. hi i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18 and wants to have a baby but he is alway out in the streets he say's if we have a baby he will settle down with me. What should i do?...
A. 9 June 2010: Please don't get pregnant until he marries you. ... (read in full...)
How good are older men 45 and up in bed?
Q. I have read in many articles that men's performance during sex becomes worse as they get older, due to menopause and other factors. Does age really matter in how well a man performs? For ex, is a 30 year old better in bed than a 48 year old?...
A. 26 May 2010: It depends on the health of the man. Some older men are much better because of experience. Viagra is also out there to sustain & maintain for older men.... (read in full...)
Will my body adjust to his large penis size to ensure a long and happy sexual life for us?
Q. My boyfriend and I are getting ready to make love after being together for awhile. My question is his penis is 10 1/2 inches long and 3 inches wide, how can i adjust to this size to enjoy the intercourse? I know lubricants will help, but will my ...
A. 25 May 2010: Sizes usually do not matter. If a woman can deliver an 8ib baby or more through the vagina, you surely can adjust this large penis. Just make sure you are well lubricated before penetration. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Please help! My new sexual partner is keen but is having problems keeping it up!
Q. Hi all, I have been seeing this guy and we both talked about wanting to have sex. We discussed getting tested, past experiences, what we like etc. I told him that it seems like he is more experienced than I am and that he'll have to take charg...
A. 25 May 2010: Yes, you did put pressure on him. He knew your expectations were high..so anxiety killed the act. I also think you guys spent too much time talking about it than doing it.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my brother I slept with his wife to be?
Q. About 3 years ago, I had a really drunken one night stand with a woman from work. Morning after, she was very embarrassed (she'd never been with a woman before and is adamant she's totally straight) and I wasn't really after a relationship so we ...
A. 17 May 2010: Please do not tell. There is a lot at stake here...most especially the unborn child. Avoid being around them for a while until you get over it. However, do attend the wedding without feeling guilty if you can. Remember! It takes 2 to tango.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend hold my arm in public?
Q. Why does my boyfriend hold my arm instead of holding my hand in public? I've been told that he's trying to "guide me", that he's being protective and guarding me. I'm still curious as to what this may mean when he does this. Thanks....
A. 12 May 2010: Relish it....you are one lucky woman. Most women say the opposite about their men trust me. I know that for a fact, because I was guilty of not wanting to hold my woman in public. I have since changed though. We hold hands more in public now. She ... (read in full...)
How can I eject everyone out of my life?
Q. Hi guys. I have a really difficult question and I hope you can help me. I have the opposite problem to most people. Most people try to attract plenty of friends into their life. But I want to get almost everyone out of my life. I am anti-social a...
A. 12 May 2010: You need immediate psychological help. This is very dangerous. ... (read in full...)
Thoughts of sex taking over my life.
Q. im absolutly desperate! i feel like if i don't f*ck a girl im going to explode. ive tried watching porn and masturbating( im doing it right now!)and its starting to stop working. im not a pervert or anything but in school i have sex senarios with ...
A. 28 April 2010: Oh poor thing...I see someone with sex addiction here. I would suggest you get some help asas. Try not to see girls /women as sex objects. See them as your pals/friends that you can do other pleasant things with other than sex. Go to the movies, ... (read in full...)
It seems like he needs more stimulation than just me
Q. Is it wrong for a man to fantasize about having sex with other women when he is having sex with his wife? My husband has started looking at porn online and sometimes wants to play it to "get in the mood". I am an attractive woman, but we have been ...
A. 28 April 2010: Sex most times is a fantasy. Men do fantasize about other women when making love to their partnres/wives. I know I do sometimes. After several years having sex with same; it gets very boring in my opinion.... (read in full...)
How do I go from 60 to 0?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm just going to get to the point. I can't seem to go long without sex or beating off. I want to stop doing both. All answers are appreciated. Thanks....
A. 28 April 2010: You can do both. It is all in the mind. once you are occupied doing other things, sex wil be the last thing on your mind. let me warn you though: it is not going to be easy,but it can be done.... (read in full...)
Why does sex hurt so much? Is it him?
Q. Hey all just a quick question. Im 19 and 4 months ago i got with my current boyfriend after talking to him for a half a year, i dont know whether this may help but im only 5ft 1 and of a petite build, where he's 5'11, very muscley, and jus...
A. 28 April 2010: Tell your b/f to be very gentle & go a little easy on you while thrusting. Spend some time on foreplay, so that you can be well lubricated before penetration. Sex is supposed to enjoyable, not hurt. Good luck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex, but I don't. What can I do?
Q. well im 16 my boyfriend want to have sex whith me and i keep telling him am not ready and he keeps asking...
A. 28 April 2010: Don't do it until you are ready. It should be a mutual thing, and when you do, please protect yourself from HIV-AIDS, Pregnancy & other veneral diseases.... (read in full...)
Why did I sleep with him when I despise him?
Q. A while ago, I started dating a my roommates friend who I hardly knew. I understand what a mistake that was. We ended the relationship after about a month. We didn't see each other again for a while but when we did, we resolved to be friends. After ...
A. 26 April 2010: This whole story sounds very stupid. You were in denial. You liked this guy all along or just want to get laid.... (read in full...)
I stay with him even though he's cheated on me and hit me
Q. ive been with this guy for 11 months now and i feel really attached to him but ive realized that im in an abusive relationship i know its wrong and evreytime i break up its like im forced to go back because he litterally calls me more than 50 times ...
A. 26 April 2010: Run girl Run. You do not need any man that hits on you. Leave him now!... (read in full...)
Limp after foreplay?
Q. okay so im 18 years old, and about 3/5 times that im messin around with a girl, i usually get too much into foreplay and exert all my energy and become tired (dry humping for a long time etc) and i guess it tires me out and when we progress and ...
A. 26 April 2010: Go easy on foreplay. Go for the real deal asap.... (read in full...)
I just want to spice things up
Q. I been wanting to spice my relationship up with my boyfriend. I bought a couple of lingerie outfits but everytime I say I want to get dressed up for you he just says WHY ... I ask what man wouldn't want that he just says he dosent so how do I get ...
A. 22 April 2010: Relax!! Relax!!! you are trying too hard. This will put a guy off. Have you checked your manners & attitude lately around him? May be you need to........ (read in full...)
Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend dumped you?
Q. Guys this question is for you, how would you feel if your girlfriend dumped you, if you really loved her?...
A. 22 April 2010: I would feel bad/hurt for a while or moment & then move on.... (read in full...)
Fallen for three guys
Q. I'm confuse... I'm falling for the total of three guys...One of the guys is my Boyfriend....I felt bad...guilty. I feel like a wh****...But I cant help this feeling deep within me. The first guy C...He's awesome. He's nice towards me all the ...
A. 22 April 2010: How could you. You need to stay focused on one guy at a time. Greed is good on wall street but not on love street.Grow up!... (read in full...)
2 guys and I"m unsure which to chose!
Q. I have somehow managed to get involved with 2 guys at the same time and now I don't know what to do. The first guy I've been seeing for 18 months, with most of that as long distance (flying back and forth a lot). He helped me get out of an abusiv...
A. 22 April 2010: There is a possibility you will eventually lose both of them. Why not concentrate & date one at a time. Greed & Games are not good in a relationship. Give love, peace & your relationship a chance.... (read in full...)
I am hoping to spice things up in the bedroom - any tips?
Q. Hi, I was wondering whether I could have some advice? I would really like to spice things up with my boyfriend.. as over the yeas, our sexlife has become pretty bland. I was wondering if there were little things I could do to help attract him t...
A. 22 April 2010: Sorry to say he is probably not attacted to you sexually anymore or just bored with sex part. It happens. It has nothing to do with you.... (read in full...)
Should I just settle for being loved even though the romance and sex has died?
Q. My husband and I have been together for 16 years. Initially we had a very healthy sex life. Over the last five years it has been reduced to almost nothing. Now I have spied on his computer and he is looking at transgender porn sites. I know that ...
A. 8 April 2010: Another situation of bored husband sexually. Women need to understand men mostly enjoy sex when they feel they are conquering or chasing that stuff, but afterwards, they are looking for something new or something else. Sorry! I am just being too ... (read in full...)
Husband does not want to have sex with me and would do anything but that!
Q. What should I think when my husband hasn't made love to me for months. He has had a back problem for a while yet has done nothing to get better. He goes to work, he even works around the yard but when it comes to bed NOTHING! I don't know what to ...
A. 8 April 2010: Men get bored with sex quicker than females... period!... (read in full...)
Is sex more than once a month too much to ask?
Q. I am 31 years old and have been married for almost 4 years. We have sex almost every month. I don't want to sound like a pervert but i started masturbating when my husband is not home which is most of the time since he's a truck driver. I know i ...
A. 7 April 2010:
When he comes back ....slam dunk him & get what you want.... (read in full...)
The men I met online seemed interested in me, but all three disappeared all of a sudden!
Q. Hi everyone. I'm dumbfounded. In the past six weeks I have met three men on a dating site, established good email communication over a couple of weeks, met and had a wonderful time. Spent 3 to 5 hours talking, dining and having a very good time. All ...
A. 1 April 2010: The guy above was right. All they wanted was nothing but sex. Have been there, done that. I would suggest you try & meet men in person anywhere, but on line. Their loss, not yours. You deserve better. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Different sized testicles.
Q. My left testicle is a fair bit bigger than my right one. Am I not normal?...
A. 1 April 2010: You are very normal. It is same as women,s breast. One is usually larger than the other. so, don't worry, Be Happy.... (read in full...)
Why do men cheat on me?
Q. am i a fool about wanting to be trully loved. i am the best women a man can ask for. i am hot and sexy, smart and loving great in bed. why do men cheat on me?...
A. 1 April 2010: May be you come across as too Needy. Men love the challenge of conquer, chase & mission accomplished. Play hard to get sometimes.... (read in full...)
Mismatched sex drives...
Q. Me and my partner have mismatched sex drives and attitudes to sex. Mine is high, his is low. He is 41 btw, and says he's gone off sex. It's not a sgood as it used to be. We have a LDR and I've been back with him for 5 days, after 2 months apart. L...
A. 1 April 2010: Suggest Viagra to your bf. Also try not to lay too much emphasis on sex. It could be a turn off for guys.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to finger me!
Q. Hi im 16 and my boyfriend really wants to finger me.oh im also a virgin and im not sure what to exoect?like do you bleed when he fingers you?What does he do after hes done?does he just go wash his fingers?or what?...
A. 31 March 2010: Don't do it. It would lead to real sex - Penetration. Are you ready for that? If so, use protection.... (read in full...)
Oral sex whilst on my period.
Q. My boyfriend wants to go down on me while I'm on my period. I've never let anyone do this. My only concern is, should I show up with or without a tampon?...
A. 30 March 2010: Don't do it! It is not hygienic. He must be a freak!... (read in full...)
I found my 22 year old sister and 14 year old brother in bed together.
Q. I found my 22 year old sister and 14 year old brother in bed together. She had her arms round him and everything. She said they were watching a film together and he fell asleep in her bed and that she had her arms round him to keep warm and that ...
A. 25 March 2010: Hmmm... There could be incest going on here. A 14 yr old can easily be aroused & have sex. I don't think it is approprate whether with clothes on or not.... (read in full...)
Does this brother - sister relationship seem strange to you?
Q. My girlfriend (21) seems unhealthily too close to her 13 year old brother. She calls him sweetie all the time and seems obsessively interested in his life particulary any girlfriends/relationships. She has him round her house every Thursday night ...
A. 25 March 2010: She just loves her brother dearly. Nothing strange here.... (read in full...)
What sexual positions are good for couples with large height variations?
Q. me and me gf are really different when it comes to height,I am a foot and a half taller than her so intercourse is complicated are ther any positions that we could use that doesn't strain our hurt either partners?...
A. 25 March 2010: Doggy Style...i.e. Rear Entry.... (read in full...)
After how many dates is it ok to have sex?
Q. So I met this guy (We'll call him Mike) in September. It took us a while to finally get together, but in January we went on our first date. In February, Mike and I went on two dates (the second of which, we kissed for the first time and ultimately ...
A. 17 March 2010: The number of dates does not matter, as long as you both are compatible & ready for a long term commitment that could lead to marriage. I had sex with my wife on a first date & we have been married for 30 years.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a break. What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 1/2 months and he said he wants a break. Everything was going great, we spent the weekends together and always expressed to each other how much we care one another. The day before he asked for a break ...
A. 15 March 2010: Give him a break! Go out make friends & date other people. You will be glad you did. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Am I the only one who thinks it is bad if sex dwindles over time?
Q. From reading questions on here I get the strong impression that most people think it normal, natural and okay for a couple after time to just not have sex very often. There are so many posts and replies on here making mention of sex and often no...
A. 15 March 2010: Sex these days especially for men is just recreation...fun!
Men can have sex & think nothing of it. Women are now cathing up with men in this area. However, women still get emotional for sharing their bodies...Men don't.... (read in full...)
How can I make my vagina tighter? My boyfriend thinks I was not a virgin!
Q. hiii!!i am linda!!my bf says that my vagina was loose wen we had sex for the first time..!!!he jus suspects me a lot tat i mite hav had sex before and that i m not a virgin wen i slept wid him:(...!!but im sure that i dint hav sex before:(...
A. 15 March 2010: You don't have to prove anything about your sexuality to this jerk. You are not married to him. Move on to someone who will respect & appreciate you.... (read in full...)
My wifes low sex drive is driving me crazy!
Q. We both 30 and have been married for two years. we have a daughter who I love dearly. during the first year of marriage sex was great, but now my wife is no longer interested in sex, she hate it so much, if she goes in bed, she does not want to ...
A. 15 March 2010: Hey join the club it dwindles after a while. Sex is way too over-rated. Do other interesting things with her, trust me, she will be looking forward to great sex afterwards.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my husband and another guy. Which should I choose?
Q. I am in love with 2 different guys. One is my husband. We have been married almost 4 years. We have spent more time apart than together. He has a record for cheating on me. He's cheated on me more than count. He says hes changed. He is also the ...
A. 25 February 2010: The grass may not be greener on the other side. Once you move in with the other guy, he may change.What you guys are having at the moment is an affair, and it's exciting for him because his ego has be stroked by being better than your husband. My ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to suffer injuries during sex with a large man?
Q. What kind of internal injuries can be suffered during rough sex that lasts for hours? My new BF has a large penis and after our most recent encounters, I am still sore 2 days later. Internally and it burns when I pee. He used a condom and says he ...
A. 25 February 2010: You need to be more lubricated before he penetrates you. Use sex lube gel.Practice more or longer foreplay. Once you are real wet, he is ready to go. Have fun.... (read in full...)
I'm almost 40 and want another baby..when does menopause start?
Q. problem. im 39 and soon will be 40. im dying to have a baby again. my youngest child is 13. im capable and got enough income to provide for a new baby. the problem is im scared. does anybody here can give me advice. i dont know if im still capable ...
A. 22 February 2010: Adopt if you can't have a baby. There are many ophans out there. You will be glad you did. Good luck!... (read in full...)
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