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writes:am i a fool about wanting to be trully loved. i am the best women a man can ask for. i am hot and sexy, smart and loving great in bed. why do men cheat on me? Reply to this Question
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reader, naughty girl  +, writes (2 April 2010):
There is something about you that is attracting these cheaters. I suspect that it is your image that is atracting them to you. Players tend to make a bee line for anyone who is overtly hot and sexy. Maybe you should tone your image down. I suspect that the cheaters do not appreciate or even notice a more natuaral beauty in the same way as a faithful man would.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): men might cheat on you because they might find another woman sexy and you sexy to and they dont want to lose you so they cheat on you.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (1 April 2010):
 How do you react when guys cheat on you? Do you do something about it and leave them/tell them off or do you let them walk over you and do nothing about it?
Because if it's the latter, then men who wanna cheat date you because they know they can get away with cheating. If you stand your ground and are strong then guys will have more respect for you. The nice ones will be attracted to you and the nasty ones won't mess with you =]
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (1 April 2010):
May be you come across as too Needy. Men love the challenge of conquer, chase & mission accomplished. Play hard to get sometimes.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 BOREDOM!!!!
Men crave for varieties.
Woman seek a man for all her needs while man seek many women for their one need.
reference;-
9 Reasons Why Men Cheat.
http://www.lifescript.com/Life/Relationships/Wreckage/6_Reasons_Why_Men_Cheat.aspx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Maybe it's the type of man you are attracted to. Maybe you have a thing for men that are unavailable for whatever reason.
One thing I see alot of women (myself too) doing is making themselves too available. If a man knows that you worship the ground he walks on by the fifth date, then that might set a precedent for the relationship. A combination of a jerky guy and a pushover girl is a disaster.
I bet you have all sorts of wonderful qualities, but maybe you don't have the sexiest one of all: confidence. Youre the perfect girl, so next time a guy treats you like less that one call him on it, and if you have to, move on. You deserve better, so let them know it!
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reader, sannafae  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 Dear,
1) The men you meet could be still out in the market for non commitment dating
2) The men who cheated on you are insecure about your qualities, contrary to popular belief, lots of men out there are intimidated by women whom they feel they cannot measure up to. If they feel they can't keep you, they would choose bail out before you do, to save their Egos
3) You could be sending out signals in your presentation, words and actions unintentionally that you are not actually looking for commitment?
*in order to attract a king, one must behave like a queen*
something my grandmother told me :)
Hope this helps
Best wishes
Sanna Fae
Certified Metaphysician/Spiritual & Relationship Counselor
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reader, trishine +, writes (1 April 2010):
It is never a woman's fault when a man cheats on her. Perhaps you are just choosing the wrong type of men. Where are you finding these men?
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (1 April 2010):
 You are being cheated on because you are picking "cheaters" to be with. Apparently you are attracted to that subset of men that no matter who they are with, how beautiful and sexy and smart she it, they still cheat. So in essence it ain't you but in a round about way it is - because you are picking this sort of guy. If this is a recurrent theme in your life (every man has cheated on you) then more examination is in order. Schedule an appointment with a good therapist to explore and hopefully eliminate what it is about you that attracts and is attracted to a cheater. Let me know how it goes.
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