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writes:My husband and I have been together for 16 years. Initially we had a very healthy sex life. Over the last five years it has been reduced to almost nothing. Now I have spied on his computer and he is looking at transgender porn sites. I know that he loves me, but has no interest in me from a romantic/sexual point of view.At the age of 51, should I just enjoy what we have and not worry about sex anymore? I don't want to look for it elsewhere, but have tried to initiate sex and he wants no part of it. When we do have sex, it is a five minute process and then done with for at least two months.Any insight you could provide would be appreciated.
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (8 April 2010):
Another situation of bored husband sexually. Women need to understand men mostly enjoy sex when they feel they are conquering or chasing that stuff, but afterwards, they are looking for something new or something else. Sorry! I am just being too frank with you.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (8 April 2010):
Your husband is a selfish pig and probably is busy masterbating or seeing someone else. You Madame are a relative young women in the scheme of things these days.
It often follows that as you are noe almost free of pregnancy issues you want sex regularly, that is exactly what you shold expect. It may not make the earth move for you but you may have to be satisfied manually. I am sure you know what I mean I try not to offend but when your WELSH it is in our blood.
Sadly if e has no interest in you sexually / romantically then I see no point in him being there. Tell him to sod off - serve an improvement notice, tell him he has 3 nmonths or he will be fired, moved out?
Come on I dare you. I bet your not a bad looking sort either! Call his bluff, tell me you will tell him today.
The only thing to fear is fear itself and as an American you are used to starting wars!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 The question you need to ask yourself is ,'Can you accept the present arrangement?'
If you can , you can always try to work to improve your marriage .
If you are unhappy and not contented, you could share your feelings to him and ask him to buck up or you will find another man who will love and appreciate you more.
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