What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?
Q. Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is ...
A. 21 September 2009: Keep the baby he should have thought about that before he slept with u with no condom. And he has to man up! Nobody is ever 100 percent ready unless u plan it. So what he has a girlfriend he cheated on her so now she will know the truth. Don't get ... (read in full...)
I gave him my virginity and he's already moved on
Q. I've just broke up from a short relationship problem is i lost my virginity to him im 17 and i thought he was special we broke up on monday and it was last night (saturday) and hese already found someone. I keep crying and i don;t know wet...
A. 20 September 2009: Things like this happen so much with young teens. At ur age these boys are just trying to have sex. There not in love or trying to make the first time special. Us girls are. That's why u wait. I waited. My friends all had this problem. Just learn ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend refuses to wax her upper lip hair, and it is my one major turn off. Now I don't feel attracted to her!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years now, and I love her deeply. She has always gotten a lot of upper lip hair, but she usually will wax it over time. Now however, she said she's done waxing and doesn't feel like she needs to. I kno...
A. 19 September 2009: Tell her look its turning me off and makes me not wanna kiss u. And I can't do it no more so wax it or there will be no sex no kisses nothing!! Tell her its serious to u make sure it gets through her head. Sometimes we blow it off not taking u guys ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is perfect except for one thing...I feel like he would rather masturbate than have sex with me
Q. Hello, my name is Abbie, and i have been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half, we have a lovely relationship, and every thing is perfect, except 1 thing. I am unsure if it is a big issue, but i hope u can help. Me and my boyfriend are ...
A. 19 September 2009: Spice thing up ask him what he like so u can please him better... (read in full...)
I'm driving myself insane over mental images of him with her. Help!
Q. Long, but needed.. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months today. We have an amazing relationship. We've had only a couple minor confrontations, and we always try to make each other smile. He's been living with me for about 3-4 weeks now, a...
A. 19 September 2009: Its jealousy believe it or not. Even though u say u look better then her its not looks its about ur boyfriend and all she had from him. U envy her in a way. U feel she has had something u haven't got from him yet. It happenes I've been with my man 6 ... (read in full...)
Don't want to wait to have sex, but don't want to get pregnant.
Q. kay..i already made a post or whatever, but im gonna make another one. i really really love the guy im with and we haven't had sex yet. he says he'll wait for me as long as i need him to. the question is is if i can wait. i'm really ready. and i'm ...
A. 11 July 2009: You may be that un lucky one to get pregnant so if u don't wanna be that un lucky girl don't do it. Plus u may love him but there's a big chance he won't be the person u spend ur life with. And waiting will save u from wishing u would have waited ... (read in full...)
Can people really change? Or is it just an act?
Q. To start, as of now I'm 25 and he's almost 27. So I started seeing this guy back in Jan. 08. After about a month into the relationship I became pregnant. I really didn't know what I thought about him at the time and I certainly wasn't ready to ...
A. 11 July 2009: Sometimes they do change sometimes they don't. Follow ur gut! Its always right! I think u already know the answer u just don't wanna except it. So whatever u feel go with that. If u feel in ur gut he change then give it another chance. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant at 15 and madly in love, help please
Q. ok, i dont know how to go about this. but i am 15 years old and possibly pregnant, all the signs add up and tests were positive. and im terrified. not that my parents might isolate me more than they already do. but knowing the man of life, may have ...
A. 2 June 2009: Your too young having a baby is hard and without a father to help out will make u sad and make u feel alone. You have to wake up all hours of the night and spend lots of money on pampers and how will u provide for this child. I feel abortion isn't ... (read in full...)
New relationship, old sex life...
Q. Hello, So I have this problem i started dating this girl who i love to death but when it comes to sex, its not there. All i can think about is my ex who i dont love but had the best sex of my life with, and i can only get off if im thinking abou...
A. 2 June 2009: I think u should just help her become a better sex partner. Ask her what u can do to make the sex better then she might ask u the same and tell her try doing this or that but don't tell her too much at once. If u are close it should be easy. My ... (read in full...)
Am I ready? And how do I let men know?
Q. I am afraid of becoming a dating reject. It's been almost three months since my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. I can't tell whether I am ready to date or not..and if I am ready to date, then why is it that I have no male interests? All of ...
A. 2 June 2009: A lot of guys just want sex that's like half the men in the world. I think u should start off by meeting new guys maybe 2 or 3 and out of the 3 u will see what u don't want and it will help u date the right guy.......do just get one take ur ... (read in full...)
Is it easier just to end things since he's moving away?
Q. I just turned 19 years old and my boyfriend just turned 21. We have both been attending college locally, but at different schools. We live about 30-40 minutes away from each other and the drive is not bad. Recently, I found out that he is thinking ...
A. 1 June 2009: End it long distance is too hard and he's young and there will be many girls and u don't wanna put ur self through drama. So don't hold on. Let it go... (read in full...)
I'm caring for my younger sister, and she can't sleep
Q. Ok well my other little sister she won't go to sleep I tryed evey thing she is. 3 I asked what's wrong she said stomach ache now I don't like giving meds what else can I do to help her stomach and for her to sleep becuse I'm very tiers and want ...
A. 1 June 2009: I think children medication one tea spoon. If not tell her to try and use the bathroom. ... (read in full...)
One week on the pill - had unprotected sex during period
Q. So earlier today i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in me. I've been on microgynon 30 for a week today and so far have taken 7 pills in a row religiously at 4:50pm (when i took my first pill last friday). It's only 10am ...
A. 29 May 2009: Well u can get pregnat u haven't been on the pill long enough for your cycle and body to get in the not releasing eggs. And u need to use condoms stds are out there and the day after pill is not the answer all the time. Bit its good u are trying to ... (read in full...)
My wife enjoyed sex with her ex but she isnt interested when it comes to me!
Q. i wanna know how do i get my wife to want me sexually cause she never wants to have sex with me i mean we do it but very often she never wants it just me or even when i ask her she gets mad somtimes when she gives it to me she tells me to hurry up ...
A. 29 May 2009: Ask her! She can tell u what she likes and what u don't do. Be ready to handle what she says don't get upset, and have sex and let her guide u feel her out! Try and find her hott spots please her!!! U wanna get her going! That's what we love! And ... (read in full...)
Infected foreskin
Q. I've done some research on this and the results so far haven't been good. I'm 37 years old and very obese. I'm not circumcised and have been getting infected foreskin a lot lately. I'm almost positive it's not an STD. I haven't had sex with anyone ...
A. 29 May 2009: It could be because its not cleaned enough maybe if u do it 3 times a day and put the cream on it may make a difference because I know when ur not circumsied at birth ur penis is much easier to get infected.....try laying with no underwear to let it ... (read in full...)
I would like to know about women's periods
Q. Hi dear girls... My question is only for girls pls... don't mind boys.. Yaar because I am come from that society where it is not possible for me to ask this directly to someone. I want to know about periods. How it happends and in what age...
A. 29 May 2009: U get it in ur teens 13 average but some it there period younger even older, past 16 is not normal. A period last 5 to 7 days once a month some women who don't have a normal cycle may have different time frames. But its normal once a month. About to ... (read in full...)
Will being "loose" down there affect married life?
Q. i am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will it effect on ...
A. 29 May 2009: How do u know your loose???? Do u have kids or have many people told u that. After six years of no sex I would think u would have gotten tighter. There's ways to improve that try looking online. But if u are he will be able to tell but not sure if ... (read in full...)
Husband's ex left him a broken man, how do I move on from this?
Q. Hello I really hope you guys can help. I have been with my husband for 2 years. But I am having trouble accepting his past. He was deeply in love with his ex girlfriend for several years and he was left a broken man when they broke up....
A. 29 May 2009: Well she will always be apart of his life. But u can be the light that brightens his day! U can be the women that helped him through a hard time, and didn't just up and leave him. Maybe if u talk to him about it more u cam give him advice like a ... (read in full...)
He loves me but doesn't want to get engaged
Q. hi all.I need some help. I have been with my bf for 2 yrs we always talked about marriage, when i sat him down he told me he wasn't ready to be engaged. So I was ok with it but he got mad cause he wanted me to be devastated. Should I stay with him ...
A. 22 May 2009: U said I girl shouldn't have to wait for a guy?? Its a forever its a big step. Its something u both have to want. He is suppose to want it as much as you do when the time is right. Women are always ready before men most of the time. You don't wanna ... (read in full...)
My son's girlfriend died in a car accident, and he has not been able to move on, can you provide any advice so I can help him?
Q. My 22 yr old son was in a car accident a year ago and his 19 yr old girlfriend died. I understand that it was hard for him but I am really wooried about him. He hasnt moved on at all. In one full year he has not lef tthe house unless he was forced. ...
A. 8 May 2009: I think a year is not that long. I think he should take his time and the fact that everyone keeps asking him to get out might make him hold back and maybe feel bad that he's moving on.just give him another year I'm sure he will at least go play ... (read in full...)
Follow up: Starting a relationship when one is in jail
Q. Okay i Know i just asked a question but i don't think i was clear and it was confusing.. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/starting-a-new-relationship-while-one-is-in.html Here it goes... **************...
A. 21 April 2009: Guys often tell girls that when there in jail because all they can do is think.they say the sweetest things to. I think u should be koo don't go out ur way to do things or miss out on life. He's asking u to wait,not far! I bet because u have know... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter using a vibrator.
Q. im a dad and i cauht my dauther using a vibrater in her room shes 12 and what should i do...
A. 17 April 2009: You tube oprah. It came on last week about teens and sex last wed or thursday. It talks about teens and pre teens and vibraters. They say its normal and better then her having sex she is feeling new things but don't be mad. Please see the show it ... (read in full...)
Help! I am so lost with this one
Q. Hi i was with my ex for years and we just recently split. i think it was mostly my fault because i changed after i was raped by a man i used to work with. my ex didn't know about the attack and i didn't tell him till after we split up but i wont...
A. 11 April 2009: Why did u brake up? Was it issues due to the rape like u acting different?? If so I think telling him would have been a good idea but u can't take back the past. Just tell him all the reasons why u didn't tell him. One because u didn't want him to ... (read in full...)
Feeling stuck in a relationship....Is it time to get out?
Q. Hi - I am a 24 year old female who has been in a relationship with the same man for almost 5 years. He was my first intimate partner and we have been through a lot of ups and downs. We are like best friends, but the relationship lacks serious ...
A. 11 April 2009: That's hard. I've been with my boyfriend a little over 5 years 6years I've known him and I've felt like that before. I think u feel your missing something. I had the chance to sleep with someone else we split for a month once and 3 months and I has ... (read in full...)
He's twice my age, married, and yet this relationship is keeping me from meeting others
Q. Okay, so here it is...I went onto this site (games) and got chatting to this guy, who I found out is twice my age and married...and doesn't even live in the same country. It was just innocent chat so I added him on msn and the more we talked the ...
A. 11 April 2009: Yeah u should stop talking to him 100 percent.think about it what doea he want from you? What can he get from u that his wife doesn't. She can offer more he's playing games and your young he shouldn't be doing this to your heart!!! He has a family ... (read in full...)
He wants me to wait 2 years till I finish university..but I am not sure that he'll wait for me!
Q. help i dont know wat to do!!! hi i am only out of a 5yr relationship because my partner is moving to canada when he finishes uni. i would go to but i have 2 yrs to do first. we were set to plan a wedding then he decided to go back to where he used...
A. 11 April 2009: If u guys planed to get married then nothing should come between u guys. But I can see why your worried u feel like he will mess up because he will see a lot of new women. But u gotta trust him. But keep ur guard up because it does happen. But I ... (read in full...)
Is he keeping others around just in case he gets bored with me?
Q. Hi, Ive been in a relationship with a guy for quite a short time, but at the moment am feeling unsettled and insecure about the relationship. As we've only been together a short time i'm not asking for a large amount of commitment but he does not...
A. 10 April 2009: Its possible he doesn't want anybody to know.if he cared and has respect for u and ur relationship he would tell them in front of u to not call or text him at late hours he has a girl. He should have been upset! But don't believe that his ex is craz... (read in full...)
Does he still love his ex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. I love him very much, and I can tell that he loves me. Unfortunately I think he is still in love with his ex. During our first 2 years she was never mentioned, although i knew he had dated he...
A. 10 April 2009: That's really good I'm glad it worked out
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Troubled teenager with a young baby and one on the way
Q. hello, i'm sorry to bother use with such a embarrassing question but i really need to know, i am a really sexually active teenager and i already have a 3 month old baby, i went through a rough past and turned to men ive had 30 bed partners or mayb...
A. 9 April 2009: Ur mom said u can keep the baby but who will watch the kids while ur at school?? And how will it be supported??? Please talk to her about ur sex life too because not knowing the father of both ir kids is bad! What will u tell them later? And what ... (read in full...)
Troubled teenager with a young baby and one on the way
Q. hello, i'm sorry to bother use with such a embarrassing question but i really need to know, i am a really sexually active teenager and i already have a 3 month old baby, i went through a rough past and turned to men ive had 30 bed partners or mayb...
A. 9 April 2009: I really wanna ask u if u have help from ur parents.if u have a lot of support and can finish high school then maybe u should keep it. But ur so young I don't think its best for u right now. I think u should focus on doing ur best as a parent and ... (read in full...)
I had sex today without protection, could I get pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't ...
A. 9 April 2009: U can have him go to walgreens and buy it for u. Its like 45 ill ask my friend she knows how much it is. But anyway maybe a friend can get it for u. Its called plan B abd u have 72 hours to take it after a slip up... (read in full...)
I had sex today without protection, could I get pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't ...
A. 9 April 2009: Your educated about the parts but not sure if u can get pregnat. We are saying yes there is a chance pre cum!!! If u know the answer already then why ask.... (read in full...)
I had sex today without protection, could I get pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't ...
A. 9 April 2009: Yes u can be. Take plan B u can get it from walgreens, and ur still at risk for stds since u didn't use a condom. Don't forget about that. Goodluck... (read in full...)
Does he still love his ex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. I love him very much, and I can tell that he loves me. Unfortunately I think he is still in love with his ex. During our first 2 years she was never mentioned, although i knew he had dated he...
A. 9 April 2009: I think she did something to him that he hasn't gotten over. I think at one point he wanted to marry her and because of her actions he's against it because he lost trust in women. He needs to deal with his feelings and maybe talking to u will help. ... (read in full...)
How do I be more affectionate?
Q. Im in love with the most beautiful girl ever. I admitt that we have had many problems but we resolved everyone of them! She asks that I be more affectionate, how do I do that? I am way affectionate now so how do I expand this territory for her? ...
A. 3 April 2009: That means kissing her more hugs holding hands just showing ur love for her. Looking into her eyez when u talk and soft kisses pecks on the lips. Flowers every othere month even if its a single rose. We love that! Cards letters....just show ur love... (read in full...)
Depressed and I can't move on....
Q. I am so unhappy.to the point were i am on anti depressant cry everyday and im so lonely. I have a 4 year old child and i just dont enjoy life. It all because i have suffered 3 years of mental abuse from my ex. Hes made me feel like i dont matter ...
A. 3 April 2009: Your not a lost cause. See he can go out and charm women and have a good time becaise he is a heartless.....he said all those things to you for a reason. That reason is so u don't go anywhere and will always sit around and be sad. Basicly he broke u ... (read in full...)
His family wont leave the x out of family functions
Q. The guy I am with is 17 yrs younger. But we had at times a great relationship. He is very reliable and I believe he loves me. but we have a huge problem. He had a bad childhood,(dad married his girlfriend when he was 16, helf sister had control ...
A. 3 April 2009: The way he puts his hands on u is not right! It doesn't matter who is around or if he's upset or has issues your making excuses for him. His family is a little crazy dating wise but your dating him so he shouldn't be acting out and hurting u because ... (read in full...)
I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 2 April 2009: Yeah u are being out of control. Why he is not telling u that I don't know but I think he's being nice and doesn't wanna huet ur feelings. I think sometimes he doesn't answer because he's like here we go again she keeps calling. Give him a chance to ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to issue an ultimatum?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months - he is 41 and I am 34. I've been having concerns recently that he might not want the same things out of life as me, and I needed to be sure that he wants the same things as I do. I told him that I wanted ...
A. 2 April 2009: I don't think u are wrong.I'm 24 and I told my boyfriend in the next two years we need to make a move and if he wanted to...just to make sure because we been together since 19 and I didn't want kids before now I want one he said two but once I lose ... (read in full...)
Do normal couples have private social networking profiles? (Facebook, myspace)
Q. Privacy or secrecy?? Just wondering in a normal relationship (married or long-term) do partners have private or secret emails or profiles? I have been with my partner for almost three years and he is adament that it is okay for him to have a ...
A. 2 April 2009: Couples do and sometimes they're private so they have control who sees it but if u can't view it and he won't show you?? Red flag. My space gets so many men and women in trouble a lot of secrets are made there. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years don't ... (read in full...)
I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 2 April 2009: What job does he have that u fear something bad will happen??is it that serious? U shouldn't call so much guys hate that. If u call once and leave a message its the same as calling 20 times let him know ur worried call me if u can but just text me ... (read in full...)
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