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writes:My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't go in my butt, he actually got in my vagina from the back, I can't explain it but that's how it happened. He pulled out and he wasn't exactly all the way in my vagina. His penis was just basically on the "Hood" of my clitoris and while he was, he cummed. As soon as I felt it, we stopped and I ran into the bathroom and changed my underwear and also cleaned my vagina with toilet paper and a wet cloth to make sure I was clean. I was just wondering, if he wasn't in my vagina and I felt him cum but cleaned everything, I couldn't be pregnant could I?Also- We had sex again about 8 hours After that and he never entered my vagina and he didn't cum at all so am I safe?Any advice is helpful. Thanks:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): u are lucky u arent makes u think about it lol great idea to use a condom but rember the only way to be 100% safe is to be abstainance lol it aint to late u know oh well your choice not mine...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey everyone. It's been a week since we had unprotected sex and I thought I was pregnant. Well, today I started my period, so I'm positive now that I'm not pregnant. I had a talk with my boyfriend and I told him that if he ever comes over or I'm with him and he has no condoms, then we aren't doing anything until he gets a condom but I also just started taking Birth Control Pills today so with the pills and condoms, I'm safe. Thanks for the advice though. :)
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 your clitors is just above the opening of your vagina.
washing your vagina won't stop sperm from finding their way into you.
If a boy cums on your vagina there are millions of sperm cells and it only takes one to get you pregnant.
Get yourself down the clinic. Would you rarther tell your parents and get the morning after pill or have to go through an abortion if you are pregnant. You could go down the doctors who won't tell your parents and will give you the pill.
Don't have sex at 13. Its just asking for trouble really. My friend got pregnant at 13 and now shes not going to get any good gcses because she only goes to school 2 days a week because of her child. There are lots of ways to show someone you love them other than sex.
Good luck
Livia
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): YOUR THIRTEEN?! it says on your age that your 16-17! you so shouldnt be having sex at thirteen! you know a bit too much for your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would, but I can't. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. There's absolutly no possible way. I doubt I'm pregnant though because he didn't cum inside me at all.
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (9 April 2009):
U can have him go to walgreens and buy it for u. Its like 45 ill ask my friend she knows how much it is. But anyway maybe a friend can get it for u. Its called plan B abd u have 72 hours to take it after a slip up
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLike I said, I am sure no cum got into my vagina, I just got worried and asked a question on here. I would get the morning after pill, but there is NO possible way for me to do that or get a ride there without my parents knowing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): If he just came on the surface the odds are slim. Some sperm may have made it in, but the chances are not nearly as high as if he had ejaculated deep inside your vagina. If there wasn't any actual penetration and he didn't ejaculate inside you then you'll probably be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): doggy style isnt in your butt is it? i thought it was in the vasgina just from the back? if he never entered your vagina then you hardly had sex?! oh well thats not the question, get yourself to a clinic and get the morning after pill if your unsure! its the best thing if your worrying about it. but why do it again 8 hours later if you already had it unprotected 11 hours ago? :S
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reader, NightLad  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Hi again,
I didn’t see your follow-up, so we must have posted around the same time.
Regardless of the fact that he did not ejaculate inside your vagina, the fact remains that he was penetrating you without a condom. When a man is sexually stimulated his penis will excrete a clear sticky fluid commonly referred to as “pre-cum.”
This fluid can transmit STDs, including HIV. It usually also contains amounts of active sperm cells even prior to a full ejaculation. If the man has ejaculated within the past day or two, the amount of sperm cells contained in the fluid is typically many times higher.
So yes, there is a possibility you are pregnant. It is not as high as if he had fully ejaculated in you, but it is there. I am the cautious type, and therefore suggest you treat this situation as if he did ejaculate in you just the same. That is my opinion.
I hope this helps.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (9 April 2009):
Of course you can be pregnant! There are some idiotic questions on this site!!! Its simple...don't have sex if you don't know enough about it!
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reader, keepitreal03 +, writes (9 April 2009):
Your educated about the parts but not sure if u can get pregnat. We are saying yes there is a chance pre cum!!! If u know the answer already then why ask.
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reader, keepitreal03 +, writes (9 April 2009):
Yes u can be. Take plan B u can get it from walgreens, and ur still at risk for stds since u didn't use a condom. Don't forget about that. Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe wasn't in my vagina at all. He was at the "hood" of my clit. That's it. Not in the actual Vagina and I'm sex educated and the Clitoris isn't exactly the Vagina and he wasn't inside at all. Like I said, the cum was on my underwear and my pubic hairs and I cleaned it up and washed with a wet cloth not even 30 seconds after we had sex.
-Just giving everyone a heads up on every detail possible so I'm not worried if I don't have to be. :)
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reader, niki20 +, writes (9 April 2009):
 most likely yes. if you know for a fact no cum actually made it into your vagina then you should be fine. if you are super concerned take the mornong after pill
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reader, NightLad +, writes (9 April 2009):
I'm sorry, but yes, you can still be pregnant. Not only from him ejaculating inside your vagina (even if just barely inside), but also from the sex prior to ejaculation. Pre-cum often contains active sperm cells, which can remain alive for up to 3 days inside you. They were designed to get the job done, and it does not take a full ejaculation to do it. Most men excrete a volume of pre-cum throughout the act of stimulation, even prior to intercourse.
You need to get a pregnancy test and whatever other form of help you think you may need. Make sure to mention this to your doctor so you can get an official blood test. Write down the date and time this happened, they will want to know to be accurate.
Also, in the future I suggest you never leave the condom-question up to assumptions. Some (not all, but some) guys imagine that if the girl does not specifically ask, then it is assumed they can go without.
If you are regularly sexually active and you wish to avoid pregnancy than I also suggest you make use of more than one birth control method, whether the pill, patch, ring, injection, or whatever else works for you.
I wish you the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): You were exposed to sperm. If you're near the fertile part of your cycle, then yes indeed you're at risk to become pregnant.
If your periods are regular, and if you're around 14 days from your last period, then you're particularly at risk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBtw, the cum was only on my pubic hair and my underwear, He was nowhere near the actual inside of my vagina but I still cleaned inside, out, and everywhere around and changed my underwear.
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