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writes:Okay i Know i just asked a question but i don't think i was clear and it was confusing.. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/starting-a-new-relationship-while-one-is-in.htmlHere it goes...**************************************************I have a male really good friend in jail, waiting on a sentence from a motorcyle accident that the only person was hurt was him..I've known him for about 5 years, we are always by each others side when we need it.. Yes he has done wrong in the past with the law, but nothing abusive or anything along those lines... I was with him in the hosptial for 6months durning his recovery from the accident... I've always had a thing for him but never acted on in thinking i was never good enough....He had stated a few months after being locked up that he has relized that we both love each other very much and he never realized that i have always been there no matter what and that the accident really made him think..So now he wants to be in a relationship..I talk to him everyday and see him when ever i can... but i guess the question would be how do you have a starting relationship when one is in jail...***************************************************his sentence could range from 9 more months - 3 yrs
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (21 April 2009):
 Why has he been locked up if he was the only injured party? What else has he been convicted of, I'm guessing more than just dangerous driving.
I'm sure he is a lovely guy, but if a jury find him guilty of a crime that warrants 3 years in jail, it must be a pretty serious offence as people get less than that for manslaughter.
You must have a seriously low self esteem if you think you are not good enough. I think he is spinning a yarn so he can have somebody come and see him every day, more than his actual feelings towards you, but that is just my own thoughts.
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (21 April 2009):
Guys often tell girls that when there in jail because all they can do is think.they say the sweetest things to. I think u should be koo don't go out ur way to do things or miss out on life. He's asking u to wait,not far! I bet because u have known him so long u feel his words are true. But I have friends who have been there done that didn't work never does.but it doesn't mean it won't work for u. I wish u luck but remember he has nothing but time on his hands and wonder if he goes back to jail in the future? For years what will u do?
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reader, anitaw4 +, writes (21 April 2009):
Well this one is easy. Dont start any relationship if the other party is IN JAIL. Regardless of how much of a great guy you think he is, the fact is that he IS in jail. I think you may be better off concentrating on someone who isnt in jail for starters. Now being a woman I know that if you have your heart set on this guy, nothing I say is going to matter much. But please think hard before delving into this one. Be his friend, see how his life goes, why ask for heartache...If he gets out, stays out of trouble then maybe think about a relationship with this guy until then date and be his friend. If it is meant to be then it will be.
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