Does an age difference cause arguments?
Q. My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...
A. 4 February 2008: huni the thing is... one, arguments happen no matter the age, and two, as long as you're both happy whose business is it how old you both are? xxxx... (read in full...)
Is there any hope for me?
Q. I recently made a big mistake with my boyfriend. Something hurtful, really hurtful. I called to say sorry but he said that this time he'd had enough, that I keep doing the same things that destroy our relationship. I told him 'please help me ...
A. 8 October 2007: i wudnt get your hopes up huni. sounds like hes trying to figure out where he stands and by callin you he can clarify in his mind the things he needs to think about. i think that you believeing that it is a gud sign is only goin to be disapointing ... (read in full...)
Do we have too much sex?
Q. Im 17 and my bf nearly 18 and we've been going out for 6mnths now. I love him more than anyone. But whenever we have the oppurtunity we'll have sex- multiple times usually and are very adverturous! Its starting to feel dirty and meaningl...
A. 8 October 2007: theres no such thing as too often but wat u need to do as a couple is find a balance. mabe try teasing each other but not actually doin anythin...do that for a week and then have sex and it will feel alive again. there are other ways of bein close ... (read in full...)
I am 18, she is 15. Is it ok to date her?
Q. I've recently left my old job of which I got quite close to another person who worked there. I'm 18 but she is still 15, is it wrong if I try to make something happen- not having sex; but just having a good time together?...
A. 26 September 2007: yea huni go for it. age isnt always important. just be careful on ythe sex side of things because thats wen you can face problems. x
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I'm interested in a man unsure about the age difference between us. He's nearly 21 and I'm 17.
Q. I have been interested with this 20 yr old guy for a while, and when we were talking the other day he said he liked me but he was unsure about the age difference. hes turning 21 3 months before i turn 18 and he thinks its weird. i told him i have no ...
A. 26 September 2007: babe thats not a big difference at all. im engaged to a 25 year old guy lol so dnt worry. thing is its not even about the age gap. he makes me happy n thats all that matters. so go for it n dnt worry about the age gap. worry about the connection you ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that I think it is not wrong but risky for me to go to his house without hurting his feelings?
Q. I enjoy going over to my boyfriend's house to watch movies together. We have even had sex, but not intercourse. However, every time we get together we have almost had intercourse at the last minute. I don't want intercourse because I don't want ...
A. 14 September 2007: well huni if you're happy with this guy and he's happy with you, the best thing to do is tell him exactly how you feel. maybe you need to get out of the bedrom setting because unfortunatly that does tend to give messages to a guy that your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just dumped me, he says he can't handle a long term relationship; what do I do now?
Q. ok..me and my boyfriend juss broke up 20 minutes ago..he said it was cus he couldnt stand long term relationships....he said he was like this with all his exes..nd now im one of them..so wut do i do?...
A. 14 September 2007: huni i think the best thing to do? make sure you never find yourself in this position again. clearly this guy is a player and huni you deserve more. i suggest picking yourself up, and show him what he's missing instead of falling apart. i know it's ... (read in full...)
Does this mean she wants to break up?
Q. my girlfriend and I had a serious fight about me not showing enough love to her, I already admit to it and told her that I was gonna change, but she doesn't believe me, and all she says is that she doesn't know what to do anymore wit us, does that ...
A. 14 September 2007: hun this is a very delicate situation because it sounds like shes on the verge of breaking up. the best advice i can give is never leave a woman to think on her own too long because most women, once there minds are made up , there is no going back. ... (read in full...)
She never wants to talk or even say please...
Q. I dont think I have ever really been happy in a realitionship.The one im with right now we were happy in the bigining but now she would rather watch tv then even sit and talk with me.Sometime I feel like im her bitch.Like She never asks me please or ...
A. 14 September 2007: honey, clearly you feel this is not a healthy relationship, so my question is why aren't you in a relationship with a girl who can give her all to you?? this girl sounds disintereseted and to be honest like she's taking you for a ride. I suggest ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?
Q. It's very hard to see my girlfriend in college while I'm still in high school and I'm feeling extremely lonely. If you love someone, is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?...
A. 14 September 2007: well you gotta ask yourself is it ok for her too mess with people while you in high school, if the answers no then you have your answer xxx... (read in full...)
Embarassed about online dating
Q. Embarassed about online dating Hi everyone, This may sound really silly, but I find myself feeling embarassed about using an online dating site. Only one of my friends knows I am on Agematch.com and that is because we both joined together!...
A. 14 September 2007: i met my fiance on an interent thing, i was embaressed wen people saw us and asked the dreaeded question, "where did you meet" but no one reli seemed bothered when i told them so dnt worry, its all fun reli n if your lucky like me youll end up ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy?
Q. After breaking up 3 months ago an engagement of more than a year and a relationship of two years I'm fluctuating between happiness and feeling all motivated about my new single life and depressive crying spells when I remember about him. Am I ...
A. 7 September 2007: huni your not crazy at all, your in a morning period where your heart needs a chance to heal but your mind wants to enjoy a new found fredom. your honestly just like any other person. xxx... (read in full...)
My Boyfriend hasn't texted all day. Is this normal?
Q. Is it normal in a relationship for your partner to have the odd day where they don't contact you at all? My boyfriend hasn't texted me at all today you see. I have this romantic ideal where the guy beats a path to your door all the time but I ...
A. 7 September 2007: i think that everyone is different. i dnt need to hear from or contact my boyfriend everyday but i undersatand that he is the oposite. i thikn its about reassurance really isnt it?? he needs to be reasured and perhaps thats how you feel. your ... (read in full...)
Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum....
Q. Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum.... why not...? I tried looking at porn and imagining things but it just won't work... I always lay down and that helps a little from anything else but whenever I feel just a little away from an ...
A. 7 September 2007: dnt worry about it, there are soulutions. try lifting your hips up a lil while your doin this or try goin around in different directions. you probably stop because it can be quite intense you have to just go with the intensity. also try rubbin ... (read in full...)
When we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates...
Q. Last night was so embarrassing!!! I stayed over my boyfriends (I've been with him a month) and when we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates - I was so embarrassed and he stopped and didn't really know what to say!! I'm so ...
A. 7 September 2007: hun, dnt worry ther is not a woman alive hu hasnt had that. its nothing you can control and althought its embaressing its so so natural. xxx its not a turn of and it can be funny xxx just dnt worry about it!!... (read in full...)
I'm dead nervous around boys and I'm thinking of cancelling this date!
Q. I'm going out on a date with a nice lad i met over shop the problem is i'm dead nervous around boys and although i really want to go i'm thiking of cancelling and i dont want to its just my confidence is really low and im really shy and probably ...
A. 7 September 2007: huni dnt cancell because if you do this problem will never go away. ive always been nervous around guys but by cancellin it only prolongs the problem. thing is the guys probly just as nervous as you. go for and enjoy it. first dates are the best ... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and have been asked out by a 17 year old. Is there too much of an age gap?
Q. well i'm 24 years old and i've been asked out by a 17 year old what do i do, he's a good looking, kind harted guy is there too much of an age gap? another thing he is kind off related to my friend who lives next door what do i do ?? ...
A. 7 September 2007: i think personally you shud go for it!! my oyfriend and i have an 8 yr age gap and it works. age isnt important, the qualities of a person are. xxx... (read in full...)
Can't seem to stop looking through his e-mails, though my conscience bothers me as he's the best man I've known.
Q. I am in love, and have been for 2 years. but I have serious trust issues, I even see a therapist about my turst issues. I recently learned my boyfriends email passwords and have been looking in his email and its making me crazy. I can't stop. I ...
A. 28 August 2007: im exactly the same. my boyfriend is loyal and only has eyes for me but whenever he lets me use his phone i have the urge to go thru it. in the end i had to confess because i felt so bad. personally i think the only way to solve t is to be honest. ... (read in full...)
Why?
Q. I think the title of the article leaves alot to think about. As a women in this so called 21st century, i feel that when it comes down to men, there are alot of questions asked , most of them starting with why? It happens all the time, on a lunch ...
A. 28 August 2007: Because instead of letting all the y's eat us up you just have to ask them. alot of the time its like word vomit, you knw u shudnt say it but its unstopable once its there. I know that its sounds weird, but my boyfriend asks why more than i do. so ... (read in full...)
I'm having fantasies about rape advice please!
Q. Hey guys. Well, I'm not sure if it's normal or not, but I've been have these fantasies that I was being raped, and I enjoyed it. I'm only 14 years of age, and I know I'm going through puberty and all. But is it normal to feel like wanting to get ...
A. 28 August 2007: hun have you had any kind of sexual experiences?? if not then it may just be that you feel like your sexuality is matureing and its not actually the rape your fantasiseing about but havin sex with sum1 who is in control. xxx... (read in full...)
Should i teach my friend?
Q. I have a friend that i like. He is 12 and i am 16. is it ok to teach him how to have sex and give blowjobs and have sex and how to make out and how to drink pee and other stuff? Also, I have not gone through puberty yet. Should i be worried?...
A. 27 July 2007: is that reli a question or are you messin around bbe?? xxx S xxx the answer is obviously no!... (read in full...)
Whats supposed to happen and how will it feel when I orgasm ?
Q. Helloo.. well this is a bit of an embarrassing question. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now and we have recently started sleeping together. I can make him "come" but I dont seem to myself..this is the embarrassing bit i dont ...
A. 27 July 2007: hey huni xxx The reson you haveint come is most probably because most guys come with little incoruagement. it takes a while for a girl to come because for him it doenst matter wat hes doing inside you the vaginal wall is always hitting the spot ... (read in full...)
Why are so many children having sex?
Q. Hi. This is a general question, rather than help really, and for all the young people to think about perhaps. Ok, here it is..... Why are so many very young people having sex under 16 years old? For a start the legal age for it is no...
A. 27 July 2007: first off its that kind of attitude that actually drives them to have sex underage! im nealy 17 and was a virgin untill i was 16. my mum didnt waste her time hammering into me that it is illegal to have sex under 16 instead she spent her time ... (read in full...)
It won't go in...
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both virgins. When me and my Gf tried having sex, my penis just wouldn't go in. Can anyone help me out here?...
A. 27 July 2007: before you have sex try playing with her vagina and fingering her because that will get the juices flowing! u dnt reli need special lubercation jelly just try vaceline. make sure your hard enough for the penis to penetrate and you shud be fine. reli ... (read in full...)
What are the chances that i will bleed the first time we have sex?
Q. Hey, me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex. I wanted to know how much of a chance there is that I will bleed? I've never had sex or done anything sexual with anyone else before. I've heard that the hymen can be broken by exercise... well ...
A. 27 July 2007: the thing is huni every1s different. i didnt bleed untill the 4th time i had sex becasue it reli depends on the guys 'Package' and if all goes according to plan, some girls dnt ever bleed. my advice from my experience is that if you get him to ... (read in full...)
My 15 year son, says I am way too over-protective! Any advice from other parents of teenagers?
Q. I have 3 kids. They 28, 26 and 15. The older two have their own lives, jobs and homes. My concrn is with my 15 year old who still lives at home and in high school. He's a great kid, honor roll student, polite, very respectful to others. Generally a ...
A. 27 July 2007: the thing is as a teeneger myself i see his point but hes only 15, for me and my mum its about compromise, letting him walk home alones reli not a good idea cos there are too many dangers out there but if he and his mates where to walk home say ... (read in full...)
It's been 5 days should I leave it longer before I take a home pregnancy test?
Q. How long should I leave it before I take a home pregnancy test. Me and my boyfriend used protection but the condom split. It's been 5 days should I leave it longer?...
A. 27 July 2007: i had this problem n went to the clinic n they tell you that for a test to be accurate it has to be past 2 weeks of the incident x so leave the test for at least 2 weeks even if your period is due before then xxx... (read in full...)
I'm having an abortion in a week and I feel so sad about that. How can I cope? Any advice??
Q. I am 20 years old and booked in for an abortion in a week.....i have an amazing life and would never be able to do what i want if i had a child, although it is making me feel really sad, i feel really close to my unborn child of 7 weeks. the father ...
A. 27 July 2007: If already you feel close to this baby then huni y can u see no other option other than an abortion, a baby wud be be a massive change, yes. But change cna somtimes be beautiful you knw. If you feel your only option is to have this abortion huni ... (read in full...)
Who was this girl on his phone and do you think he's been cheating with her?
Q. I cheated on my bf over a year a go now. It was only a kiss but he forgave me and we have been happy together. Earlier today I was borrowing his fone to text my sister, (this was with his permission), when you go to send the message it has a...
A. 11 June 2007: huni i totally undersatnd where your cumin from. yeatserday i was at the pub with my bf and was textin sum1 from his phone which he was cool with but wen the msg came back i looked in his inbox n there was a girls name id never herd of. instead of ... (read in full...)
How do I get a really smoooooooth shave in my genital area?
Q. Im 16 When i shave my vagina it leaves red dots and when i run my hand over my vagina it feels like i havent shaved, its all prickly and hurts.. how can i make it feel and look like there's no hairs there. Also do guys get turned off by a little bit ...
A. 8 June 2007: huni u need to use talcum powder!!!! Put it on after you shave it will help stop the red rash n make it nice n smooth n do you use soap??? that makes it easier to shave it smooth. most guys ain to fussed about the hair, a vagina is a vagina lol its ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant to keep my cheating boyfriend in my life??
Q. Ok, i would like views on what you think about a gf getting pregnant on purpose just to keep her bf in her life. I found out that my bf was cheating on me with his ex the entire 2 yrs we've been on and off together. I was so devastated. I didnt wa...
A. 7 June 2007: oh huni huni huni!!!! you reli cannot di that bbe dnt be silly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ... (read in full...)
Never in my life have I kept anything from her, if we get back together, in my eyes, she has a right to know everything, but I know it will destroy her, what do I do?
Q. I started seeing a girl 7 months ago, we have known each other for a bit, and completly fell in love. She came from a troubled childhood, and about a month ago, everything caught up with her, she told me she wanted a break. I'm no idiot, I realise ...
A. 7 June 2007: huni if you both agreed ypu wwere on a break then what you did in that time was your descion. do you reli want to be woth her?? you need to assess your truew feelings for her and talk to her about your reltionship and not wat u did when you werent ... (read in full...)
Am I silly for liking a guy who is older than me?
Q. i don't if i am being silly for liking a guy who is older than me? here it is there is a guy at work he is 22, i thought he was good looking since the day i meant him we talked sometimes as i work in a canteen (the workers do 12 hour shifts and ...
A. 7 June 2007: your not silly at all huni!! im 16 and my boyfriend is 25!! Obvioulsy u like him for resons other than just his age! But huni u have to think, is it worth waitin for a guy hu mite not actuallly be serious about bein with u. is it worth the pain??
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Dating 4 months and she ignores me to talk to another guy, online! What should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 4 months now. But lately shes been talking to this guy online. And its been non stop. She hardly talks to me anymore. She said to one of her friends about how she was thinking about going on a break ...
A. 18 May 2007: huni u need to ask her upstraight wether she wants to be with you. i knw that my boyfriend has problems with me talking to guys on msn but wen he asks me if i want to be with the or him i always make it clear that its him n that reasures him. maybe ... (read in full...)
Am I considered a slut if I gave one guy a blow-job and kissed another who has a girlfriend, both in the same week?
Q. I am so confused!! In the last week i gave a guy a blow job and made out with another guy who has a girlfriend! I dont really try these things but i like both of these guys and they came on to me. Would i be considered a slut?...
A. 18 May 2007: huni why does it matter wat any1 else thinks?? the question is did u think that yur a slut for doin this?? if you didnt then wats the problem?? stop worrying how others feel! its your life and only you have to live with wat u do huni xxxx... (read in full...)
What should we do about our relationship? Break it off? Keep it going long distance? Return to just friends?
Q. What do you do when... - your boyfriend loves you beyond love itself and you are 100% certain that he would never leave you or fall out of love with you - you realize you don't love him as much as he loves you but you still love him a LOT and hu...
A. 17 May 2007: huni sounds like you need to stop panicing! how long have you actually been together??
why do u want to let him go? is there a deeper meaning or something that's changed your opinion of him? you really need to think things through
r u being 's... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and going out with a 22-year old. He thinks I'm 16, what should I do?
Q. hiya im 14 but im going out with a 22 year old and he thinks im 16 what can i do and i reali like him hes diffrent i no everyone says it but ? help please...
A. 16 May 2007: huni u have to be honest!! how can your relationship go anyware if theres lies?? im 16 n my bf is 15, im doin my gcses n am glad i was honest with him because i thought hed hav a problem with that.
Babe i knw its wat every1 says but, lying ai... (read in full...)
How do you truly express that you love someone when they dont believe you!?
Q. What do you say to someone whom you love so much to keep them?How do you express how you really feel if they dont believe you when you say you love them?...
A. 16 May 2007: Hey hunni..
Its not only telling some1 that u love them, you can show it to, some times words can be spoken but no1 believes them, prove to them that they mean the world to you.
Take care xxxx... (read in full...)
What can I do if I am too shy to speak to a certain girl?
Q. What can I do if I am too shy to speak to a certain girl?...
A. 12 May 2007: huni, its tough but you have to do it. No one can read minds and leaving it until she speaks to you puts you in a very vunerable place. What if sum1 else gets in there first. i think that the thing you need os more confidence in yourself and in ... (read in full...)
I know this is a silly question... but should I break up with him?
Q. should i break up with him ? first,i don't trust him like i used to.secound,i don't feel that he actually understands me like he used. third, we fight alot. fourth, i don't feel that he listens to me .fifth, i don't feel that he cares about me !!!ya ...
A. 12 May 2007: huni the fact that your doubting your relationship with him and have so many reasons to split with him tells me that you know deep down wat to do. If its not a good relaionship then why hold on to it only because you are worried that you might r... (read in full...)
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