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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 4 months now. But lately shes been talking to this guy online. And its been non stop. She hardly talks to me anymore. She said to one of her friends about how she was thinking about going on a break from me, and to meet up with this guy online. I confronted her about it, and she reckons she didn't mean it. But I just dunno what to do anymore. Maybe I sound pathetic for wanting a lot of attention from her. But thats how it used to be. Now its all this other guy, and it really annoys me as soon as she mentions his name.I don't want to be jealous, cos it'll drive her away even more, but I cant help but feel it. Any advice on what I should do?
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (18 May 2007):
 huni u need to ask her upstraight wether she wants to be with you. i knw that my boyfriend has problems with me talking to guys on msn but wen he asks me if i want to be with the or him i always make it clear that its him n that reasures him. maybe she needs to reasure you?? the thing is is that if shes just gettin close to him in a friends way you cant make a big deal about it you knw. just ask her upfront wats goin on in her head okk hunitake care! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2007): original poster here - if shes gone off me etc why does she still agree to see me, and kisses me, hugs me, etc. I'm confused. She reckons she only talks to this guy cos he knows about this religion shes into.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 May 2007):
 She has already broken it off with you, but just doesn't have the guts to do it in person.
Do the only thing you can do...start seeing other people.
At best you will find someone better (should be easy). At worst it will make her jealous, and realise what a goof she made.
-FBK
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