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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend are both virgins. When me and my Gf tried having sex, my penis just wouldn't go in. Can anyone help me out here?
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reader, Just a Girl...  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 before you have sex try playing with her vagina and fingering her because that will get the juices flowing! u dnt reli need special lubercation jelly just try vaceline. make sure your hard enough for the penis to penetrate and you shud be fine. reli its all about foreplay./ that will set the rite mood for both of you and shud make the experinece less scary!! xxx S xxx
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female
reader, daisy99999 +, writes (26 July 2007):
 had the same problem, you may need to use a lubricant to help, and remember its scary for a girl the first time, she was probably tense... make sure she is relaxed and you are VERY gentle. xx
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reader, pinkpeone  +, writes (25 July 2007):
Hey! Try to make sure you are both relaxed especially her. If she's not relaxed it won't go in.Just take your time and let her guide your penis with her hands. Try googling "first time sex" for a bit more adviceGood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): First, make sure you're hard and aiming in the right direction.If she's not ready for it or well 'oiled' that would make it awkward getting it in.If she's scared stiff at the thought she might be too tense and / or suffering from a condition called 'Vaginismus' - look that up on the net for further info.Phil
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female
reader, AuntyEm +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Try using some lubrication like KY jelly...spread over the condom when you have it on (always use a condom even if your girlfriend is on the pill) Be gently and just ease yourself into her. Partial penetration only may be possible for the first couple of times and if she is a virgin, she might have some pain and bleeding if her hymen tears. This is an internal membrane which covers the vaginal opening.
be responsible and always practise safe sex.
Aunty Em x
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reader, Shalita  +, writes (25 July 2007):
My dear, your penis wouldn't go in may be because you were not erect or because of too much excitement. Try doing it again when you are relaxed and well protected and you both will enjoy.
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