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writes:Last night was so embarrassing!!! I stayed over my boyfriends (I've been with him a month) and when we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates - I was so embarrassed and he stopped and didn't really know what to say!! I'm so worried he won't like me anymore, is this normal and guys is it a turn off? Any honest answers please!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): although this is perfectly normal, you may be able to minimize it by doing kegel excersises. when you are peeing stop the flow of urine several times and take notice of that feeling of your muscles clenching down there. once you have the feeling figured out, do these exercises throughout the day, you can do them anytime, anywhere and no one will notice. I do them when I am waiting for the traffic signal to turn green.....good luck!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Id happens. My girlfriend and I use to laugh when that would happen. It's normal for air to build up inside then release.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Happens to us all! Tip: You will find out that this happens more in certain positions when air easily gets trapped, like doggy or missionary with your feet over his shoulders. When in these positions, make sure that he does not fully pull out his penis (lose contact with you) in between thrusting as then your vagina is open and air gets trapped with the next thrust.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 This happens a lot when you are in a position that allows air to enter the vagina - with your butt in the air a bit (doggy style springs to mind). The penis is pumping in and out and allowing air to be pushed in and out, producing a "farting" noise. This is really normal, as you can tell by all the answers here. Seriously, if you are comfortable enough to have sex with someone, you have to be comfortable enough to laugh when things go arwy. You should be having fun in bed. Sex isn't a perfectly choreographed ballet and what feels good probably isn't pretty! The important thing is to keep the lines of communication open in the bedroom and to make each other feel comfortable, no matter what happens. Have fun and play safely!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Some guys like that, so I wouldn't be too worried. Here in the US that is refered to as a "queef" I know it's a sick word, but that is what it's called.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Totally normal. It used to happen to me when my ex and I were having sex. It used to really make us laugh!!!
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reader, red1982 +, writes (7 September 2007):
Perfectly normal hun. It happens to most of us. You could try using some KY as this reduces it.
I know it's really embarrasing at the time esp with someone you have only been dating a month but you'll both get over it. I'm sure he'll still like you just as much!!
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (7 September 2007):
 hun, dnt worry ther is not a woman alive hu hasnt had that. its nothing you can control and althought its embaressing its so so natural. xxx its not a turn of and it can be funny xxx just dnt worry about it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Sorry this isn't advice for you but I just wanted to ask other agony aunts, is this really normal? I haven't had sex yet but that sounds really embarrassing! Does it happen to everyone? How can you stop it from happening?
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reader, bday121 +, writes (7 September 2007):
 This is totally normal. Don't freak out! That happens when there is air in the vagina and it's being pushed out by the man's penis. Women have no control over this whatsoever and cannot feel it coming. I know it's as embarrassing as humanly possible, but maybe just explain to your boyfriend that it's something totally not gross and that you have no control over it. He'll be understanding. If you don't want to bring it up, then maybe wait until the next time it happens and then explain.
I have had something equally horrible happen twice, which is that that "windy" noise came shortly after sex. I'm on birth control so my boyfriend always ejaculates inside me without a condom. Well, apparently too much semen came flooding out of me afterwards and it made that noise...LOUD. It was embarrassing but I brushed it off like, "Ew! Sorry, but it's mostly your fault anyway, you know!" Heh. But anyway, just be on the lookout for that fun problem too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): oh dear. while i understand that this is completely humiliating for you (because everyone knows us girls dont fart! and DEFINITELY not from that area, right?!) it is completely normal and happens to everyone. its caused by...how can i put this without being too graphic...well you know all that *ahem* pumping action, it pushes air into you and its the air being expelled that makes the noise, so it wasnt actually a bodily function from YOU, it was just the air which he pushed into you being let back out again. it is so common, that although it is shocking (and mortifying!) the first time, you'll get used to it and will be able to laugh at it.
and i would be surprised if he didnt like you anymore because of this.
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reader, auntie donna +, writes (7 September 2007):
 It is normal, it's caused by the air inside. Many people refeer to it as a "fanny fart". Not very charming I know, but everyone does it. Don't be worried. And if you have anymore problems contact me dirctly.
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