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Im only 11, but I love 2 guys, and dont know if they love me to be able to choose which one to go out with!?

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Question - (29 March 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi cupid im 11 years old and i live in florida im in elementry, in 5th grade. there are 2 guys i both love but i don't know if they love me and the problem is i don't know who to choose i both like them but i have a BIG choice both are cute but i dont know who to choose what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007):

Iv got a boyfriend well 3 qwestions wich one has a biger hart? give them a persnality qwis wich one is most like you? invit one roun for one night then the uter one for anuther night and see with one is most plite and well manerd stuf like that?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007):

You are only young and shouldn't be rushing into relationships. Leave it a few years before entering your first relationship.

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A female reader, Bailey J United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2007):

Bailey J agony auntDarling… you’re a little too young to be dating but I bet its frustrating when you say your in love and everybody keeps telling you your too young to know what love is! Well I’m going to give you the advice that I would give anybody else… But you have to be responsible when dating that’s all part of being an adult and loving someone!!!

If you don’t know who you love out of these two boys, ask yourself… who do you think of the most? Who do you think of before you go to bed? Who do you think of when you wake up in the morning? And who gives you that little fluttery feeing in your tummy when you see or think about them?

When you answer all those questions you will know which one you want to be you boyfriend.

Take Care xx

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (30 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

it might be that you like them if you are 11 you have first to know how a child can be good to his parents and dont get them in trouble and if your mom or dad will know about it you might have trouble at home, and if the kids in your school will know that they will point it you all the time and make you feel bad, and at the age of 11 you cant carry the responsibility of love between "MAN"and a"WOMAN" because you still way too young, but sure you can have friends that care about you and you care about them and when you will be 17 or 18 you can decide your way, and for sure your parents love you so dont put the people who really love down.

good luck

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A female reader, Ask Heather +, writes (30 March 2007):

Ask Heather agony auntThat`s a difficult one, especially as you`re only 11 years old. Perhaps you should play hard to get, and let these two guys make the choice? However, I`ll tell you what ALL guys secretly LOVE; that`s seing a girl with her head bent over her schoolwork, studying. And they love it even more when they call at your house and your mom says you`re busy doing your homework, which, obviously at your age you`ll be doing. What guys DON`T like, though, is girls who have left school with no qualifications or aspirations in life. Kind Regards, Heather.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntAt 11 years old I would say you are still too young to date. There is no reason why you can't be friends with both of them though! Get to know them both better and find out more about them. Once you actually start chatting and hanging out with them you'll see for yourself what one you get on with best. Both look cute but actually getting to know them will show you for sure what one you prefer.

Eve

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A male reader, thor United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2007):

thor agony aunti been there when i was 12 or 13. 2 girls i fancied both goodlooking, i spent all my time trying to choose then they where whisked away. so if you like them find out quick which one is paying attention to you and go for that one. but be carefull as your only young.

hope this was a bit of help

thor

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