He has pictures of his ex throughout the house but wants me to get used to it.
Q. The man i have be seeing for a year has pictures of his ex wife in his bedroom and throughout his house. he says they are family and vacation pictures and they shouldn't bother me. i have told him it does, but he hasn't changed anything and wants ...
A. 9 November 2007: i think hes being very selfish, i mean come on its been over a year and still he refuses to take them down. what wud be the problem with putting them away and having a look every now and then? if i was in your shoes i would say 'okay so your ... (read in full...)
Size does matter.
Q. I have an average size penis, 5.5 inches, and my girlfriend says she like ones that aren't small but aren't too big. Can anyone help me with size, positions or really just any advice. It would be great to hear from a fellow average sized person who ...
A. 21 October 2007: i think your girlfriend is being very selfish then, because nobodys perfect. i doubt your girlfriend would be very happy if you turned round to her and said i prefer girls with bigger boobs and youve only got average sized ones. completly selfish. i ... (read in full...)
Women, on a date for coffee, what questions would annoy you?
Q. Girls, if you met a guy and went for a coffee, would you be annoyed if he asks about you, such as what do you usually do in your spare time? what colours do you like? what kind of music do you listen? whats your hobbies?,etc.....What questions will ...
A. 20 October 2007: None of them questions would annoy me, there normal questions to ask out on a date, because to me a dates like a test, and you wanna find out what shes like to see if its worth taking things further. But if i went out on a date and the guy was a ... (read in full...)
Was he staring at my chest?
Q. I really fancy my teacher and I want to know if he fancies me back.One day in my school corridor when I was going into a lesson,I flicked my hair(more obviously than I actually had intended to) and he looked at me really suprised...I though at first ...
A. 18 August 2007: Id have smacked his hand right off! What does he think your 5 years old. I have a serious problem about teachers treating students as kids, well winds me up. If it was me, id grab his tie and give it a yank and tell him it wasnt bloody done right. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to go from being gay to straight?
Q. I'd love to hear from a guy who has turned from being gay to straight. I think that might be happening to me and its driving me absolutely insane. Can it really happen?...
A. 18 August 2007: Not unless the guy has been really put off by being gay, which would then bring question to was he really gay in the first place. Its usually your 100% gay...or Bi. Ive never heard of any guy going from gay to straight, its usually from gay to Bi, ... (read in full...)
Can I go on the pill without my Mum finding out?
Q. i am 15 and would like 2 go on the pill but dnt want my mum 2 know bout it would this b possible?? plz help me vicki...
A. 18 August 2007: yes, anything you want help with at the doctors is all confidential. But ive found its always wise to never hide things from your parents, they always know when somethings being kept from them. Why not sit down with your mum and have a chat with ... (read in full...)
I want to give my husband the best blow job ever, but i dont know how.
Q. My husband and i have been trying new things i want to give him the best blow job ever but not sure how he is the only man i have done this to. He would tell me it was good even if it wasn't Come on guys help me out....
A. 17 August 2007: There are loads of ways... okay for one....
Roll an ice cube around your mouth and then quickly suck him off, it gives it all a tingle.
Another is take a gulp of hot water, coffee, whatever ya want as long as its hot and then go down on him, itl... (read in full...)
How effective is the contraceptive injection??
Q. Me and my gf ave been having sex for about 3 months now and we have always used condoms, we both lost our virginity to each other so we know there are no std's or anything nasty.Its just as some of you may know its not always convinient to stop and ...
A. 17 August 2007: its very reliable, i think 99.9% accurate. Every 3 months. The nurse will inject your girlfriend just below the hip and change over every 3 months. Its basically closes up the ovaries and prevents any eggs from escaping. No its contraception doesnt ... (read in full...)
I told him not to "nut" in me... but he did! And now I'm worried about the baby...
Q. Okay i'm 8 months pergnant and i had sex with my baby father. i told him to take his dick out before he nut. he claim that it felt too good. and he "nut" in me. I was wondering is that dangerous because this is my first baby. and i wondering if that ...
A. 4 August 2007: Your best off asking your midwife as she will be able to give you all the answers you want. I bet shes been asked it before aswell. And she`ll be able to reassure you with maybe a few checks.
And ive no idea what 'nut' means but im guessing... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with wanting a baby at this age?
Q. I'm 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been having sex and i got worried that i was pregnant then i got my period. And now i want to have a baby! Is there something wrong with that? And how would i tell my mum? She would go crazy. I really Luv my bf an...
A. 1 August 2007: Your young and your hormones are flying everywhere. Best thing you can do is sign yourself up for one of them robotic babies that are incredibly similar to a real one. There was a programme on it and it was amazing to find that young teenagers who ... (read in full...)
Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you ...
A. 31 July 2007: I disagree with Jamer70 and totally back Uniquel. It is not normal at all especially to do house work for her!!! Thats just wrong. And is the kid there, because you just said her daughter. They should not be going out together, he shoudl not be ... (read in full...)
Lately the condoms have been coming off inside me when we have sex
Q. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active. We do use condoms but recently they have been coming off inside me. Is this a common problem?...
A. 31 July 2007: The condoms should not come off at all, as this can lead to sperm being freed and pregnancy being an issue. So the condoms are either too small or your boyfriend isnt putting them on right. Go to your local Brook centre and get advice there, they`ll ... (read in full...)
My husband took another woman out on our boat while I was away
Q. My husband took a female friend/coworker out on our boat while I was away at a sporting event last weekend. He picked her up in her town (by water), met her at the dock of a hotel at the waters edge, took her for a ride approx 30 km north up the ...
A. 31 July 2007: This is a difficult one, as it seems your husband cares little for your feelings if he is still seeing a women and mentioning it when its such a sensitive topic. You need to tell him again that its hurting you and see what he says, if he says hes ... (read in full...)
I would like to change the kind of guys I attract
Q. I keep circulating around the same type of guys in my love life. If the guy does not belong to someone else, he probably has a baby. I'm single and would like to change the type of guys i attract. How do i do that?...
A. 31 July 2007: This is difficult, because the same thing keeps happening to me, always end up being married or have baggage. And its nothing your doing wrong, you just havent found that single guy yet. Best advice i can give is keep looking, but dont expect ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesnt just glance at other women, he GAWKS
Q. Dear cupid, I have a question about men who gawk for long periods of time at other women. I understand that it is human nature for a man to glance. Is it a problem when it gets to the point to where my BF is spending the whole night at the pub gawk...
A. 31 July 2007: You need to have it out with him and tell him whats wrong or else hes just going to carry on gawkin as he will not see this as any problem. And if the women notice then he is definatly staring for too long. sure all men like a quick look but if hes ... (read in full...)
I want to get divorced, but I am terrrified of the wrath of G-d!
Q. I want to end my 25 year marriage because my husband and I have grown apart and there is absolutely no attraction in it for me. But I have tremendous religious guilt and worry incessively that God is going to punish me for doing this horrible ...
A. 24 July 2007: you need to seek counsellin love or go to a church and ask someone there. i believe in divorce, because theres no way id stay in a loveless or abusive marriage, no way. and ive done sinful things, and ive never bin struck with a deadly disease. your ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to go through my husbands cell phone?
Q. is it wrong for me to pick my husbands mobile phone call and to go thru his phone?...
A. 24 July 2007: I dont see why not, if hes got nothing to hide then there should be no problem. if you have reason to go snooping through his phone then go for it, or else you will just keep torturing yourself over whatever it is your worried about. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to give your virginity away as a birthday present?
Q. is it wrong to give your virginity to some1 you love for his birdthday? after 3 months ? or should i wait :S ...
A. 24 July 2007: im sure a bottle of aftershave and a card will please him more. sex for the first time is supposed to be something special, offering it as a present is anything but special. ... (read in full...)
My Russian girlfriend is going away on holiday with another guy
Q. Hi, I have a Russian girlfriend who is about to go away on holiday with a male long term friend! Do you think that I should be cool about this? ...
A. 24 July 2007: absolutly not, i wouldnt let my boyfriend go on holiday with a female friend! why dont you go with her? ... (read in full...)
I am finding it difficult to balance holding back my feelings for her and to keep some perspective.
Q. Out of the loop for a while. I am 36 and have been divorced for 2 years when as the cliche go- she walked into my life. She ticks all the boxes and many many more. The question is we have known each other for 5 weeks and I am finding it diffi...
A. 28 June 2007: take it slow hun, dont want to scare the crap outa the girl since shes a shy type. why not ask her if shes free sometime and take her for a drink or a meal, that will get the ball rollin. ... (read in full...)
I'm only 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19 is this relationship illegal?
Q. I'm in a realtionship, I'm only 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19 is this relationship illegal?...
A. 28 June 2007: absolutly not hun, no relationship is illegal, only under age sex is. u have fun but take care x... (read in full...)
Want to give my new gf flowers from our garden, would that make me seem cheap?
Q. Hi, sorry if this is a really odd question. hopefully going to meet my new girlfriend for the day sometime next week, and want to take some flowers for her. Was thinking of taking them from the family garden, which i thought might be nice, but at ...
A. 28 June 2007: Thats adorable! she will feel very special, i dont know any woman that wudnt, cheap or not all flowers are beautiful! youll totally make her day! good luck x... (read in full...)
I think she's sleeping with the teacher and getting better grades than everyone else....what should I do?
Q. Right how do i put this....well, i think a girl at my school is sleeping with one of the teachers and it isn't in my head. This girl is a layabout she sits around, sleeps and smokes her way through school and makes no effort to do anything, testamen...
A. 28 June 2007: best thing you can do is get your marked coursework back, and then go to the headmaster with a few others who are not happy with the grades theyve recieved and ask him if the grade you have been given is fair. Tell him/her that your not happy and ... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble for kissing her....?
Q. I posted a similar thread previously... I am seeing a girl a year and a half younger than me. She isnt 18 yet. Can her parents press charges on me for kissing her?...
A. 26 June 2007: nah uve nowt to worry about hun, they can only press charges if you have sexual intercourse. kissing hugging and even some touchy feely are allowed. but if your so insecure, why do her parents have to know? kiss in private x... (read in full...)
He wants to bring another woman into our relationship
Q. he's asked me to add another women and have a 3some but when i asked him "would he ask for it again?" he said why not. we have our problems here and there. but he's mine. he's been mine for a full year and some. he tells me what about his needs? i ...
A. 26 June 2007: tell him its alright to fantasies about these things, and even ask to participate BUT when no has been said it means no, and that if he wants any sex life at all he will stop pressurising you into something you dont want. If he keeps asking you may ... (read in full...)
I understand that he needed to choose his kids over me but it hurts so much
Q. Hi So far last week my bf of a yr broke up with me He is in the army and lives down south His kids live up north with his ex Because of the army job he only gets one weekend off a month to see them. He cant cope with this and has decided to give ...
A. 25 June 2007: I have to disagree with you, there are other ways in seeing kids. its ridiculous for couples to get back together just for the kids, because there an ex for a reason, and so there going to argue about things, his ex will be jealous that your still ... (read in full...)
Does my sister like me MORE than a sister should?
Q. So, I want to know if a girl likes me. We get on, and can talk about relationships. she does not seem uncomfortable in me mentioning sex, and has on one occasion watched porn with me and my male friends. Also, she does not seem to be uncomfortable...
A. 17 June 2007: i dunno what to say to this either but i do agree with anonymous girl, i dont think shes got the hot for you and it is especially creepy with the porno film bit. I think you`d know if your sister had the hot for you, for example if she was so ... (read in full...)
Can a hymen be broken without pain?
Q. Hi my name is Kianna and i have a question can you please help me im 20. I had sex twice and none of the times i had my hymen broken. I want to have sex but i am to afraid for him to brake my hymen. My freinds tell me that i sould get drunk or take ...
A. 17 June 2007: i lost mine through using tampons. dont be worried, if it didnt hurt having sex 'twice' then u have likely lost yours wiithout even realising it. anonymous girl has hit the nail on the head with this one. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is very loud when we have sex.
Q. My girlfriend is very loud when we have sex. I actually find it very embarrassing as my walls are very thin and my bedroom is right next to the neigbours. I know they can hear her as I can hear very slight movement in their room like someone opening ...
A. 17 June 2007: Ive been told the exact same thing, my boyfriend had paper thin walls and seriously you could hear them turn there light on, but i couldnt help shouting out, it was either no sex or loud sex hehe. but i didnt know that we could get reported, the ... (read in full...)
Should I let my daughter get to know this man better?
Q. My daughter is a very mature 17 year old who has been homeschooled, just finished her first year at college. She is becoming good friends with a 26 year old man at church who is interested in her and would like to date her. They are both devoted ...
A. 17 June 2007: Are you also planning on telling her when she can and cannot get married, the day she can get married, the right age she can have a baby? its not good for your daughter for you to be so controlling, because i can bet you if you deny your daughter a ... (read in full...)
Does sperm taste good? Should I give him oral?
Q. my boyfriend likes me to give him oral sex, and he wants me to swallow. Some of my friends that have done that sais it tastes awfull. In a way i kinda want to know what it tastes like but then again i dont.. i dont know what i should do??...
A. 16 June 2007: i think it does, seriously! and all my mates agree, but i guess if you wanna go in depth with it all and say that all sperm tastes differently yeah, some may be sweeter than others, but its a known fact that all sperm tastes salty! and i totally go ... (read in full...)
Think my school-teacher was hitting on he... he took time off but is back this week!
Q. I am in need of serious help. Me and my English teacher, Mr?, get along really, really well. I feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything. He keeps me behind sometimes from class so we can chat and I often see him at my after school ...
A. 16 June 2007: sounds as if this man may be having some personal problems, and that might be as to why he acted so out of character. try and stay focused on your main subjects, something may have happened to someone in his family, this maybe why he is so weary and ... (read in full...)
Why does she do this particular thing every time we make love?
Q. i have a girlfriend who likes to put her finger up my ass whenever she sucks me off. I don't say anything to her because i love her and don't want to split up with her over a little thing like this. But im not sure why she does it or if it means ...
A. 16 June 2007: deejuliet has this one covered. Take her advice x... (read in full...)
Does sperm taste good? Should I give him oral?
Q. my boyfriend likes me to give him oral sex, and he wants me to swallow. Some of my friends that have done that sais it tastes awfull. In a way i kinda want to know what it tastes like but then again i dont.. i dont know what i should do??...
A. 16 June 2007: being serious now...have you ever been to the beach and swallowed a gob full of sea water? okay think of that but warm and gooey. I really dont like it and try to avoid ever having to swallow. but try it out to see whether its for you or not, if you ... (read in full...)
Am i wrong to just let them be??
Q. I am a single middle divorced female with 3 grown children ages 35,30,3l,1 boy the eldest and 2 girls. I believe my problem initially stems from a messy, spiteful divorce approx 20 years ago which left many scars and unresolved issues. My problem ...
A. 15 June 2007: I truly feel sorry for you, i cant understand how you must feel right now, going through all this hurt after you cared for him on your own for so long. I think your son is in the wrong, but what is your sons wife like? is she a nice woman, a woman ... (read in full...)
Think my school-teacher was hitting on he... he took time off but is back this week!
Q. I am in need of serious help. Me and my English teacher, Mr?, get along really, really well. I feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything. He keeps me behind sometimes from class so we can chat and I often see him at my after school ...
A. 13 June 2007: This is serious, he must have have acted so out of character to bring you to tears and have a panic attack. but lets see how he acts when he comes back, if hes the same flity playful self and this makes you feel uncomfortable then i would seriously ... (read in full...)
I like this guy but I 'love' my teacher, Mr. D. So who do I choose?
Q. I like this guy, let's call him Peter. But I love my teacher, let's call him Mr.Dreary. I just met Peter, and we talk online sometimes. He's nice and seems cool. We like the same things too. But I have loved Mr.Dreary for almost two years now, b...
A. 9 June 2007: All i can say to this is it sounds that there is definatly some attraction between the both of you and if you still feel the same about him when you have left school, then tell him how you feel, you`ll get your answers loud and clear then but for ... (read in full...)
Should I tell his wife, he was cheating?
Q. Should I tell his wife that he was cheating on me? Today I found out that he is married. I met him 2 years ago and he is in Iraq. I found out from a friend that he is married and his wife lives in TN. I can't believe all the lies. Should I tell his ...
A. 20 April 2007: no you`ll only cause heartache, nothing good can come of it. Forget about him and find someone else.... (read in full...)
I like him a lot, but he has a gf! What should I do?
Q. This guy I met on the internet I really like and we are trying a long distance relationship but I added him as a friend to facebook and I saw that he was in a relationship with some other girl. We have been long distance dating since September and I ...
A. 13 April 2007: This is very suspiscious and id be careful where you tred with this one. Ask him out straight that you saw what his profile said and you want some answers, see how fast he can come up with an excuse, if he stutters or there are any 'errs' in his ... (read in full...)
I'm male and 19 and I masturbate 2 times a day. Is this too much?
Q. I'm a 19 year old boy who is single. I masturbate once or twice a day (sometimes I don't) but is that too much especially at 19?...
A. 13 April 2007: not at all, it just means your very sexually active, and thats a good thing. So enjoy yourself :)... (read in full...)
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