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*ailey J
writes:Hello, my boyfriends sister has been seeing this guy for 18 months, he tells her, he doesn’t love her anymore yet wont break up with her, and only see’s her once a week, the rest of the time he’s out with his friends. I’ve told her to break up with him but she wont listen. Instead she’s at my house crying every night. What should I tell her………? Reply to this Question
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reader, home_land  +, writes (4 April 2007):
 helloin this case its really hard for some people to let go and semply becouse they see that sad and dark side in them selfs ,and the only way its to talk to him like talkig to a child eye in eye and ask for noemal answers from him ,after he will see it diffrent and talk talk talk to avoid him beeng aggrsive towards her ,if you cant let go you try to keep always.good luck
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reader, Midge +, writes (4 April 2007):
 If someone doesnt have strong feelings for someone, or love them, its not a relationship. If he is telling her that he doesnt love her, that means there's NO relationship.
If he's still coming over, once a week, the chances are he is having his cake and eating it too. Does he just come over to "talk" or is there "more to it". If he is only coming over once a week for a booty call, tell her to wake up, she's being used! If he's coming over to talk, then he feels sorry for her and she is a "charity case".
Either case, he will be having a laugh at her expense!
Sorry to be so blunt!
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