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writes:My grades have dropped, im tired all the time, and it seems ive been eating A LOT!!!Every time i start liking someone, i get so confused that i seriously just wanna go to sleep and forget about EVERYTHING and i actually just realized that ive been like this since this one guy i liked a lot, moved... am i like not over him??Its been months and when he did move i wasnt that sad. was i holding it in or something? or trying not to face the truth?can you also tell me how to fix how i feel!plzzzz Reply to this Question
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reader, Heartbroken-xx  +, writes (13 May 2009):
I totally relate to you on some levels. When me and my boyfriend broke up, I would go to school - sleep - eat - sleep - wake up, and do it all over again, for like two weeks straight.
but I snapped out of it, and told myself I need to live life, we are teenagers, we should not dread the small things in life. What you are going through is perfectly normal, this time in your life will pass, even though it seems like, it feels like it will be this way forever.
Just stop and take a deep breath, and try not to rush things. Boys are not the first priority trust me, I learned the hard way. Boys come and they go, until we are much older usually, try to catch up on your grades, and don't stress too much. Get involved in other activities.. hang out with friends, to keep yourself busy and occupied!
good luck
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reader, dinosaurexx +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Yes, you're normal :) I've been through the same thing..What i did was i started doing other things to occupy my mind (I did jazz band, colour guard, plays, musicals, etc) And soon you'll hardly think of it at all, and you wont be so sad or tired. Time heals all wounds :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): How you feel is prefectly normal. You felt close to this guy, you felt complete and when he left you felt that part of you went with him and now you feel empty. Heart ache can be fixed by doing either one or these two things, express yourself, pour your heart out to someone trust worthy( this could be yourself). This way you face your problems head on, which it best(it will take time doing this, but it is best) or, get a pet, hobby,some thing to fill that void in your life. Most importantly, family if you need support turn to those who really care for you and they shouldn't be your age. They have everything you could possible need to get through relationships. And no I am not an old lady!
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