A
male
age
30-35,
*inionServatis
writes:This can really change my life and the people around me. I am ready to tell my parents that I may have schizophrenia, I am ready, I am not that afraid, I am, but I can take it, I just don't know how to tell, my mom, someone help, this can really change my life. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Hi
You have not said WHY you think you may be schizophrenic.
Are you hearing voices?
Just want to say do not be too QUICK to label your self...YES do explain to your parents what is happening and then seek professional advice.
BUT CONSIDER OTHER POSSIBILITIES THAT HAPPEN TO SOME PEOPLE
I have a friend who once thought they were schizophrenic...hearing voices...but in this case they were in fact a MEDIUM...able to hear spirit voices...
They found help through meeting other mediums, learning how to use this as a gift or control it. Some mediums see and some hear?
Whatever YOUR case me be... yes you need to speak up and get some help.
via con dios.
A
female
reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 There are some excellent support services for people diagnosed with schizophrenia and other mental health conditions- my advice would be to see a psychologist and be certain what you are dealing with - if it is schizophrenia get as much information as you can - for yourself. Link in with the support services - talk to others living with condition - talk to professionals about how to disclose your condition to your parents, employer (if you need/want to) etc.
My sister was dx Schizophrenic at age 21 - probably drug induced, but there is a definate family history as well. She has taught me a great deal about mental health issues - and I am someone who works in the area so I thought I was pretty in tune with it all. I have been amazed at how she has taken on board her diagnosis, the lifestyle changes she's made, the responsibility she's taken for managing her health and the poise with which she conducts herself - she makes me very proud.
She gets sick at times - and has been a real challenge to herself and our family - she has had exeriences of work place descrimination or social isolation - but she has never given up on herself - she continues to advocate for herself and anyone else with mental health issues.
She has been through alot but I can honestly say - she has never been better than she is now - she is a confident, beautiful woman, sister, girlfriend, young mother, employee - who also happens to be living with schizophrenia.
This condition will need to be managed yes, but it will not define you.
Your parents love you - more than anyone probably - they will love you just the same after you tell them.
Link them into some supports for families and friends if they are into it too - it can be a real help, they just need to understand what the condition is and how best to support you that's all.
Take care of you - good luck!
...............................
A
male
reader, MinionServatis +, writes (4 March 2009):
MinionServatis is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all, its just that I have a hard time telling them flat out, I also think about the effects they can take on, what if they think I am crazy, I cant take that.
...............................
A
female
reader, Heartbroken-xx  +, writes (4 March 2009):
My doctor said that if I didn't stop smoking the pot I would end up getting schitzophrenia...
Tell your parents, it's nothing to be ashamed of,
nobodys perfect.
Best of luck lady.
...............................
A
female
reader, shaashiie +, writes (4 March 2009):
 I think you should get evaluated by a licensed professional before you tell your parents that you may be schizophrenic. There are many other mental illnesses that have similar symptoms as schizophrenia such as Paranoid Personality Disorder and Schizotypal Personality Disorder.Your parents will worry sick and you don't want to worry them for no reason. Of course, if you are schizophrenic you should tell them because that's part of you and they should know. What makes you sure you may be schizophrenic? It may not hurt to tell them what's going on with you, but don't throw a diagnosis on yourself just yet, it's not good for you or your parents. But please, get an evaluation first because it's never good to self diagnose. Coming from a psychology student who is currently taking Abnormal Psychology if that helps give any credibility to my answer!Good luck either way you choose!
...............................
A
female
reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 Have you tested "positive" for it?
Yes, it is very important to tell your parents about it. They may not be surprised actually, if there has been a history in the family. My birth parents' family have a history of Schizophrenia, so my adopted parents were "on the lookout" for signs in me.
Like anything on medical conditions these days, they always say both genetics and environment play a part in one's physical and psychological health.
Schizophrenia, bipolar, ADHD, blood pressure, autism, they all can be managed given the right identification and medication. They all have degrees of its conditions. They have medications for it. So the sooner you get medically (by psychiatrists, and even perhaps neurologists) tested, and the sooner you tell your parents, the better prepared you are to deal with this situation.
If you need to tell your closest friends, tell them too. If they did not know what it is, educate them. There's lots of articles and books that you can read (online, libraries, bookshops). Once they understand your condition, it is busines as usual for you and them.
Enjoy life!
Cat
...............................
A
female
reader, Sakynfoss +, writes (4 March 2009):
 Don't worry! It's nothing the be ashamed of. I have many disorders including Attention Deflict Disorder and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. My best friend is a schizoprenic and shes not treated any differently. Honestly, tell your mum, she'll be there to help if you have any troubles or questions!
(:
...............................
A
male
reader, StarStruk +, writes (4 March 2009):
 okay, yes somthing like that could change your life. If you want to tell them, just do it. dont sugar coat it, just come right out and say it. It's not like talking to your mom about masturbating, it shouldn't be that akward at all, its somthing serious that your parents deserve to know. so my advice: just tell them, flat out
...............................
A
male
reader, MyDestiny +, writes (4 March 2009):
 what is that??
...............................
|
