How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?
Q. Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is ...
A. 6 November 2009: If you can manage it without gagging, take him as far back down your throat as possible; that way, when he shoots it will go right past your taste buds and down your throat without your noticing. Ever eaten oysters?... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 3 November 2009: Don't hesitate, have that abortion while you are not showing. That way, nobody will ever know about your indiscretion. I understand about your moral issues, but what sort of "life" will any of you have if you proceed? You and yours and the ch... (read in full...)
How can I make my masturbating last longer?
Q. I'm 13 nearly 14 year old boy and when I masturbate I normally watch porn before i do and when I start wanking I cum really fast like it takes 2 minutes is there anything I can do to make my masturbating last longer??...
A. 19 July 2009: Uncle Phil, you have the greatest ideas! My Ma-in-Law obliged a few ago by shufflong off, but if I ever need to delay THAT moment, I'll take your advice and think of her..... Harry!... (read in full...)
One night stand with Lothario leads to pregnancy!
Q. I went on a girls night out a few weeks ago, had a good time, had fun, but unfortunately I couldn't resist the advances of a good-looking Lothario, and I slept with him. I didn't plan to sleep with him but was under the influence at the time. A se...
A. 17 July 2009: Whether this "fuck-and-fuck-off" merchant wants to know or not, you will have a claim on financial support from him for the next 16 years.
Contact the C.S.A. as soon as possible, if he won't enter into a voluntary arrangement.
Although ... (read in full...)
Teaching is my greatest love but I'm scared Ill screw up
Q. Hi I realize this is not the time to be complaining about having a job. I'm extremely grateful that I was just offered a position for September. I am just out of college and the job is as a teacher, what I trained to do. The problem is almost every ...
A. 17 July 2009: I taught at a College for 20 years before my retirement.
Firstly, let me echo what Jason said - it's a job that fills you with doubts and insecutities!
The most important thing here is that you love the job - with that in mind, you will be grea... (read in full...)
Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?
Q. Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...
A. 16 July 2009: If you had to ask this question, you are incapable of understanding ANY of the answers here.
Harry.... (read in full...)
Career change advice please, not sure if I am cut out to teach teenagers!
Q. Hi there. I'm 29 an facing a dilemma which is not about dating, but thought maybe someone on here could help. I am going through a mid-life crisis (I believe). I am divorced with a 3 year old son, and have only worked part time in last few years (a ...
A. 15 July 2009: I taught teenage boys for 20 years before I retired, and my best advice to you is - DON'T!
True, most of my intake were school-damaged failures with near-zero motivation, but without being rude, your country isn't too well known for its ener... (read in full...)
How can I make things different when I go down on him?
Q. My man wants to go down on me while sucking an ice cube, I love the idea but I want to return the favour and do something different when I go down on him. Any ideas?...
A. 14 July 2009: Suck extra strong peppermints! Harry.... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...
A. 13 July 2009: Grimm, that was VERY harsh on a young lady.
I hear what you say, but how responsible, mature and full of integrity were you at her age?
Harry.... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...
A. 13 July 2009: Hi, Danii.
Um, you have landed in a mess!
Firsdt thing, as has already been suggested - solve the immediate problem with the morning after pill. It won't be pleasant, by the way, but better than a pregnancy.
As "bows" and others say - tell him! Yo... (read in full...)
How can I take compliments better?
Q. I'm not insecure, but I'm really bad at taking compliments from guys so sometimes I think it comes across as insecurity. Here's an example: Watching tv with a guy I'm seeing when a female celebrity comes on and he says "wow, I love her! She's so...
A. 13 July 2009: Oh how cynical, Pink!
I agree that perhaps it's none too diplomatic to compliment other girls in front of your gf, but we can all appreciate beauty when we see it, and men, for our sins, are VERY visual.
It's the way we are made and we can't he... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about the porn I found on his computer!
Q. So recently I was on my boyfriend's computer and saw that he had google searched and dowloaded a porn video. The name sounded weird to me so I looked it up later and it turns out it was from a porn site where men have sex with women while they're ...
A. 13 July 2009: Agreed all round - you've got to talk.
If "bows" is right and it's a type of control thing, maybe after discussion you might find a way of introducing it into your love-making?
A kind of role-play, with you getting as much pleasure from pretendi... (read in full...)
My daughter is showing her body to some guy via her phone!
Q. hey i'm in big problem. My daughter is 16. I saw his mobile phone with some wrong messages. she was sharing with her school mate..those message r kind of sexual pleasure. Its seems they r showing their body to each other . i know the boy well. he ...
A. 13 July 2009: I can understand that Indian culture takes a different view, but it's actually commonplace amongst the young to play and experiment - don't lose faith in her, she is still your little girl and won't do anything bad.
Maybe not for the good, but West... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for saying no one time?
Q. Can someone please tell me what I've done wrong. My boyfriend doesn't come around me or talk to me as much as he use to. I asked him why and he says its my attitude. I don't have a clue what he's talking about because the only attitude is his. ...
A. 11 July 2009: What you did wrong, and are still doing it, is to let this moron intimidate and walk all over you.
Regain your self respect and close the door on this controlling neanderthal and find someone worthy of you.
Harry.... (read in full...)
What are people's views on dating a third cousin?
Q. hi, i recently got back in touch with my third cousin. we're both 19 and related through blood. every year when i was born i would spend a week up north with my cousin and we grew up together really close.we used to kiss under his duvet when we ...
A. 11 July 2009: 3rd. cousin?
No problem - follow your heart.
Harry.... (read in full...)
I gave them a test at the church and was escourted out and will not be allowed to come back!
Q. Before last sunday I had never been to church. My friend finally convinced me into going, but I am not big into religion and I don't like it when my friend pushes it on me. So anyway, we get to the church (it is methodist) and I overhea...
A. 11 July 2009: Closed minds, too insecure in their beliefs and scared of any challenge - so you see why you had to go?
Harry.... (read in full...)
My breasts are different sizes by about a cup, what can I do?
Q. Ever since I was about 16, my breasts have been different sizes. Now that I'm 19, they're still different. I'd say it's a good cup size difference, so it's obvious when I'm naked. Luckily, you can't really tell when I have a shirt on, although my ...
A. 10 July 2009: If our boyfriend - or anyone else for that matter - judges your worth by boob size or evenness, he isn't worth knowing.
There's more to you than physical attributes and if he is THAT immature, at 21, not to realise that.....
The ONLY thing that m... (read in full...)
He wants to go on holiday together and have sex without a condom!
Q. After i broke up with the man i used to date last year i started to date with a man i knew for a while but i didn't date with him because i didn't like him a lot. As nothing seemed to get improved with the man i used to date i decided to go out with ...
A. 7 July 2009: Totally in agreement with Sandman - this character IS controlling, but in addition to that, if he's in the habit of sleeping around and NOT using condoms, your health is at risk, even if you are on birth control yourself. You simply don't know wha... (read in full...)
I don't want to use birth control and don't want her to get pregnant
Q. when is it ok for me to cum inside my girl???wit no pill and no condoms.. and please dont tell me to use a condom cuz its not the same and i dont want to hear .make her take pills.. ...
A. 6 July 2009: Let me remind you of the old joke.....
Q) What do you call people who use the Rhythm Method of birth control?
A) Parents!
Harry.... (read in full...)
Why was the first time so wonderful and the second time so horrible?
Q. this is an akward thing to talk about with friends etc.. so i hope you guys can help me out a little :) ive been with my boyfriend now for 18 months almost, i absolutly love him to pieces! hes amazing, hes the sort of guy who might not spend alot of ...
A. 6 July 2009: First time you had built up the mood and were ready for it: second time, I guess, no foreplay and he went straight in?
You, not relaxed, he in a rush so he could finish and get to work?
Next time, have a romantic evening, build up gradually an... (read in full...)
What the most embarrasing makeout or intercourse session you have ever had?
Q. Have you ever done something embarrasing during a makeout session or during intercourse (sex)? ok this is suppose to be fun so share with other people the most embarrasing or funny thing that happened ill go first and feel free to add your stories. ...
A. 1 July 2009: Ok, I give in...I had the miseries when I wrote that, and concede that you are right - some comic relief IS welcome! See what trouble you got me into, Kelly! Chillie juice stays on the fingers for ages, and if you want to go for a pee after......... (read in full...)
What the most embarrasing makeout or intercourse session you have ever had?
Q. Have you ever done something embarrasing during a makeout session or during intercourse (sex)? ok this is suppose to be fun so share with other people the most embarrasing or funny thing that happened ill go first and feel free to add your stories. ...
A. 30 June 2009: well, we all have our stories, and good fun though it is to share, Kelly is right, it's not why we are here nor what this site is for.
Sorry to be a misery, but you would be taking up space and time that genuine people might need.
Harry.... (read in full...)
How can I make sex more enjoyable for her?
Q. Hi, lemme just cut to the chase. When me and my GF have sex, I usualy give her a clitiral orgasm before the penetration, so to speak. But I feel like i wanna do something more... special to her, so i searched the net about the G-spot, about wh...
A. 28 June 2009: I hope you will forgive my copy-and-paste, but I wrote this in response to a similar question from a female and I'm such a slow and lousy typist! "A task for you; just a simple one... Tonight, when you are alone and not likely to be distu... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be attracted to your boyfriend's friend?
Q. i have a boyfriend of 6 months whom i love and he loves me back , thing is lately i have found myself a bit attracted to a friend of mine , that friend i have known for 3 months only and we have hell alot in common and i understand him when we talk ...
A. 28 June 2009: If you match with this friend mentally and emotionally, in a soul-mate kind of way, and there's physical attraction, I think you have answered your own question. Matches like this rarely come along, and you would be foolish not to look into taking i... (read in full...)
Foreskin problems causing massive amounts of pain. Please help!
Q. I'm in pain from something i've done downstairs and am hoping someone can help me! i have a problem with my foreskin where it would never come over the tip of my penis when erect as it didnt stretch enough, but in the bath the other i managed to ...
A. 27 June 2009: You need urgent attention and no GP will ever feel embarrassed or make you feel so.
I recommend asking your doctor about using a mild steroidal cream, which will soften your foreskin and could well solve your problem by itself.
Also, Google "tigh... (read in full...)
Foreskin is too tight! Should I get circumcised?
Q. I am a 25 year old man. I have not had sex till now. I have problem with my foreskin. Its tight and I can't pull it when I'm erect. I can pull my foreskin if I'm not erect. I have observed that my foreskin is attached to the tip of the penis and ...
A. 25 June 2009: Circumcision should be your last resort! The foreskin has a purpose, and is best left intact if you possibly can.
I recommendasking your doctor about using a mild steroidal cream, which will soften your foreskin and could well solve your prob... (read in full...)
I need your help with regards to my husband and his work female friend
Q. i am married for over 6 years now and have 1 child. its been 2 years now that one day i have checked his mobile out of curiousity and seen a msg sent by him to her saying 'ok.kisses everywhere'. i have discussed this with him and claimed that it was ...
A. 25 June 2009: Anonymous, YES, I do believe that we should all have some private space. I would not dream of opening my wife's handbag, let alone looking inside and nor would she contemplate going through my pockets. I don't have anything to hide and I assume she... (read in full...)
He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?
Q. Noone dont find me attractive ive ony sortaa hadd a boyfriend for a few month but he sed i was boring because i didnt want to do anything sexual with him. We kissed and hugged butt i didint want to be forced to do things.hes wierd with me and outs ...
A. 24 June 2009: Yes to all answers so far, especially Uncle Phil.
I want to be as honest as possible for you, so please don't be offended....
If, as you say, you aren't the most beautiful of girls, my guess is that he regards you as an easy target for sex, sin... (read in full...)
I need your help with regards to my husband and his work female friend
Q. i am married for over 6 years now and have 1 child. its been 2 years now that one day i have checked his mobile out of curiousity and seen a msg sent by him to her saying 'ok.kisses everywhere'. i have discussed this with him and claimed that it was ...
A. 24 June 2009: Other answerers speak of violating trust, but I think the most serious breach of trust came from YOU!
What gave you the right to nose through his cellphone and read his private messages? Would you be happy to discover that he had been through your... (read in full...)
I don't let my husband see my breasts because they are too small!
Q. Me and my husband been married for about a month now. We're very happy together but I never let him see my breasts cause I think they'll too small (A cups) and I don't think I ever want him see them. My husband begs me to let see them in dark and Im ...
A. 18 June 2009: I agree with the others entirely.
Remember, as the years advance, your boobs won't turn into belly-warmers (or, horror - knee-warmers)!
He loves you for what you are, not for what you're not, so celebrate that fact and enjoy your loving relation... (read in full...)
He hid his profile on the dating site?
Q. I’m on a dating site and recently I emailed a guy who I liked the sound of. He responded and we’ve been emailing ever since. After our first email exchange he hid his profile. I can still email him but his profile isn’t visible to anyone else o...
A. 18 June 2009: He could be so happy with you that he doesn't want others to see/contact him, but maybe not leave the site just yet - especially if he has paid a fee!
He also may not be looking around, just leaving his membership dormant.
Don't pay interest... (read in full...)
My mum won't let me get my hair cut!
Q. hi. i really want to cut my hair but my mum wont let me. it's waist length now and it's not really practical for when i have to do lab work. my mum is a religious fanatic and refuses to let me have a hair cut. its not like i want it really short, ...
A. 11 June 2009: Why would "God" be interested in how long your hair is?
Harry.... (read in full...)
Do all men masturbate even if they have frequent sex?
Q. do all men masturbate even if you have frequent sex? my boyfriend does fairly often, and it makes me feel very insecure, unattractive, un needed,and unwanted.(should it make me feel that way?) he says he loves me and wants us to be together. he also ...
A. 8 June 2009: How do you know he isn't thinking of you when he does it?
Perfectly normal, and a release from sexual tension when you aren't around, so please don't worry, it doesn't mean he loves you less.
Don't you ever "play"?
Does that mean you've gone ... (read in full...)
My girl's ethnic preference has got me down.. Don't wanna be racist, and don't think I am. But it still smarts!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now, and everything has been great. She's warm, funny, loving, great in bed, and on and on. I love her. Hell yeah I do! And we are about to move in together. Sounds great, right? It is, BUT.. I've been...
A. 23 May 2009: I was reading all these answers and hearing everybody having a big issue with the race question, wondering if I dare speak against it in today's climate of paranoia and PC-ness: then I read Silvershocker's comment....."Its ok to be xenophobic its ... (read in full...)
10 year sexual affair with my cousin...
Q. My second cousin and I have been having a secret sexual relationship for about ten years now. The first time we had sex is when I was 14 and she was 13. Now I am 24 and she is 23 years old. We usually used birth control (Condoms) but ab...
A. 23 May 2009: I am sorry to dsisagree with my co-answerers on here, but 2nd cousins pose NO risk of birth defects or any such bad consequences - please Google latest research. Even for siblings the risks are now considered minimal.
Love knows no boundari... (read in full...)
Do guys like tall women?
Q. Im majorly tall, as in over 6ft (6ft 3 to be exact). i cant seem to find any guys taller than me who are at all attractive to me, and i worry that im not attractive to anyone else. I always feel out of place in any public place, and people stare at ...
A. 21 May 2009: Tall girls are magnificent!
Be proud of it, and whatever you do - don't stoop!
The beauty of a tall girl is totally spoiled when she tried to hide her height by stooping: hold your head up high and be proud of the way you are.
As toxichic so ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my husband's anal obsession?
Q. My husband insists on having anal sex. Every time we've try, it's been very painful. Yet he keeps begging for it and makes me feel bad when I turn him down. What can I do?...
A. 17 May 2009: All agreed; it's ABUSE to force you to accept pain when you've made it clear you don't like the activity.
Molly4 suggests looking for ways to make it easier, if you actually do want to go along with it, and I have posted this reply before, ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with sex between brothers and sisters?
Q. Ok I know sex between brothers and sisters is considered wrong by most people. Why? I mean if they love each other and make sure they don't have any children, what is wrong with sharing that love physically? ...
A. 17 May 2009: Ginseng, I am effectively neutral on this issue too, but I have to say that I've rarely come across a more cogent and well-presented dissertation.
The poster should thank you.
Harry.... (read in full...)
How do I find her G spot?
Q. hi, Im a fifteen (soon sixteen) years old guy with a serious girlfirend. We have had sex since... I dont know when... earlier than last summer at least. well, enough about me, I came here for a question. By GF and I have sex quite often and... w...
A. 16 May 2009: As SyferFire says, the clitoris goes way back inside, and divides to surround the uretral sponge - the g-spot. Feel along the front wall of her vagina, inside her, for a roughened area of skin about 1-2 inches in. Everywhere else will be smooth, ... (read in full...)
What does cum taste like?
Q. hey guys, I was wondering what 'cum' really tastes like? I have heard on here and friends that it tastes real bad and can anyone relate what it tastes like to a certain food or something? so then at least when the time comes I will be ready, so wha...
A. 15 May 2009: Love your dimples, satin - and your new picture. But then, you always look good.... Harry.... (read in full...)
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