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writes:hi, Im a fifteen (soon sixteen) years old guy with a serious girlfirend.We have had sex since... I dont know when... earlier than last summer at least.well, enough about me, I came here for a question.By GF and I have sex quite often and... well... I... mostly go "down there" for 15 minutes cus she likes it, even though i get pains in the neck for the next two days, and now for my question.I want to give her the best sex she will ever have, so therefore i am to find the mysterious and legendary G-spot. How shall i find it? How do i know when i have found it? what do i do when i find it?I dont care about me very much so i just... wanna give her something extra ya know?Thanks for any result.PS: I have tried finding it and i failed, is there something about the age that matters? she is 15 like me.Now this is a serious question so please, I need all you´r help.DS
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (16 May 2009):
 As SyferFire says, the clitoris goes way back inside, and divides to surround the uretral sponge - the g-spot.Feel along the front wall of her vagina, inside her, for a roughened area of skin about 1-2 inches in.Everywhere else will be smooth, and if she is at all aroused it should be a little plump, too. The plumpness is due to the fact that is a spongy tissue similar to a penis, except that is does not engorge with blood but fills with a fluid upon arousal.Stimulation of the area really fills the sponge with fluid and can result in ejaculation during orgasm, much to your joint delight!It is NOT urine, although it does share the same exit duct. It is colourless, not yellow and has been shown not to contain any urine; so don’t worry, she won’t pee herself!Neckache? Try lying on the bed normally, with your head well propped up on a pillow, and getting her to lie on top of you, on her back, with her pussy right by your mouth.In other words, legs wide open, either side of your head, and clit close to your lips......the rest is up to you!Harry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): wow, thanks for everything, i will talk to her, and btw, wer not starting younger, i just got lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): G spot. ah. Well its good you want to educate yourself, though you are a bit young... I guess they are just starting younger nowadays.. anyway, I read this thing called the "Female Orgasm Black Book". Wonderful piece of literature. lol.. Its helped me quite a lot with my foreplay skills.
G spot is basically the underside of the clitoris. The clitoris is bigger than it looks, the part you see is actually only the tip of the iceberg so to speak. it goes fairly deep, in a upside down v sort of shape deep into the tissue.. So hitting the "g spot" is coming at the clitoris's neglected but sensitive nerve endings from underneath, by massaging it through the vaginal wall at a specific place..
U would have to see the diagram to know of what I speak and locate it.. But its actually fairly easy to locate, and not that deep in either, like those rumors that you need 11 inches to even hit it..no no.. untrue. That spot they are referring to that is deep inside is called the "A spot", and is completely unrelated to the "G spot". Anyway, get that book, the "Female Orgasm Black Book" by Lee Jenkins, it explains everything.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (16 May 2009):
 Well young Satin is correct, but also not quite right.
Each woman is completely different in the way she responds to sexual stimuli, and her hot spots are her own, not the 'general' ones.
I have dated many women when I was young and hot. Now I am old and crusty, and been with the same woman for 17 years. She is great at everything (I wouldn't swap her for anything), and she has multiple orgasms through g-spot stimulation, but has NEVER climaxed through clitoral stimulation.
Even when she masturbates (like every night) she pulls out her G-Twist and goes to town, and doesn't enjoy clitoral stimualtion, because she can't have an orgasm that way. She ALWAYS orgasms when we have intercourse, especially if I pull her hair a little. Yes I'm lucky.
My 'past' women have had orgasms through clitoral, vaginal, anal, breast stimuation, and various combinations of speeds, pressures, and time factors.
One liked me to talk dirty, and came that way.
Another did by me slapping her buttocks.
Hard.
There is no man on earth who can 'give' a woman 'the best sex she'e ever had'.
Woman do that themselves, as great sex is as much in the mind as in the loins. The more imagination a woman allows herself, the better orgasms she seems to have.
But Satin will correct me here if I'm wrong.
There is nothing better than a horny woman. NOTHING.
Just get her to relax, be comfortable, and take your time. Ask her what she likes. If you continue to get a little neck ache, try using your fingers first, before your tongue. And be gentle!
Unless of course, she WANTS to you be rough. If that's the case, good for you.
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): listen you say unot bothered about you right so just let go of everything you're insecurities and let nature flow it's all about in the moment if you just relax and go for it if you're loving the time you'll perform the best without realising it, like a brilliant idea coming to you when you're not expecting can genrally be so much better than one that's calculated and puzzled over do i make sense lol ?? she'll know when youve found it and im sure she'll let you know xx
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